Hi C hings,


1st post here. Always wanted to visit WG's in HK but never had the guts. But this story is not about WGs... It's about ex's good friends...
So story goes like this...

Went out with my ex for about 5 yrs. Sex life was excellent at start, then gradually goes on a downhill (expected). Throughout these years I went out with my gf, we've always had a close friendship with her friends. And obviously one of those friends always stick out from the crowd, the one that you always daydream about have sex with, the forbidden fruit so to speak. We'll name her 'W' here.

So broke up with my ex about 6 months ago. Haven't had sex since. Deverstated but not the end of the world. Throughout this month 'W' was always here comforting me, hang out with me. I must admit she's not your typical girl form next door. She's more like chilled out, jokes around, swears alot, drinks heaps, more like a guy. And the best thing about her is that she's freakin hot!

Then there was one night. I called her out for dinner, she didn't hesitate and said yes. Waited for her to finish work and had an enjoyable dinner, then went to a pub for some happy hour. 11pm came and we still didn't have enough of each other's company, so we decided to goto Karaoke and sing/drink some more. By that time both of us were starting to get tipsy. So went to K room and sang/drink/chat. Things started to get touchy. She started leaning on me, I started wrapping my arms around her shoulders. So finished K at 5am in the morning. We were both pretty drunk. I said I wanted more drinks, she told me to come to my place cos' she's got plenty at home. I couldn't resist (one way or another).

So back at her place, drank more, chatted a bit more, and started to get ALOT more cuddly. Then she changed into something more comfortable and sat next to me on the Sofa bed. She was wearing a singlet top (no bra) and a hot pants undies, super freakin hot. She started to doze off and by that time she was hugging me like a teddy bear toy. As you've would've guessed I was horny as hell. So I started touching her to see if she'll reply back with some reaction. Started feeling her waist and then her legs. She was giving me good reactions that wanted me to continue. So I did. Stepped up a gear and started to feel her boobs and grabbed her ass. And before you know it she was on top of me and she was cowboying me (no cap btw). Then switched to mish' position and pawned her hard. Switched again to doggyStyle while grabing her ass. Then I realised something wasn't right. I mean, I haven't had sex with alot of different girls (3 to be exact), but this 'W' just doesn't feel right. I mean, my little bro was hard as a rock, but no matter what I do, what position we're in, I just don't get the intention to cum. She came within 10mins whilst I was still trying to get mine after 25mins. Nothing, it's like drawing blanks. One thing I did noticed was that she was pretty loose (but she was damn freakin wet). I mean, I'm no 15" incher but I'm no thumb-size either. So maybe that was the problem that I couldn't cum. OR is it the fact that at the back of my mind she was my ex's good friend. I know we've broken up already but somehow I feel a sense of guilt. Dunno why. So at the end even she realised that I wasn't gonna cum and she told me 'It's OK, let's goto sleep'. So we both stopped and went to sleep. I felt kinda bad that she might think she couldn't make me cum. So I told her that I haven't had sex for awhile and maybe I was just too nervous.

So in one sense it's not much a problem, just wanted to share my experience to you guys. Maybe I just need to fuck some more chicks to get my mind straight. Thanks for reading. Any comments/suggestions welcome.

Peace out.

well, if I've been drinking from 11pm - 5am, I'd be surprised to get an erection, and if I do, I'd be surprised not to fall asleep half way.....maybe its just the alcohol bud. But it could be, as you said, the fact that you feel guilty or you were too nervous.

I agree with orsum.  Alcohol does bad things to your cock -- meaning that it stops making it work.

When I start drinking, I can't maintain a hardon at all let alone cum.  That's not the reason that I stopped drinking, but I know from experience that alcohol messes up things down there.  This is why I never believe guys who say that they fucked a fat, ugly girl only because they were drunk.

My take on this would be that this is indeed the case. You need to be rather smashed on booze for you to suffer alcohol-induced
flaccidity (of course this differs from person to person as alcohol tolerance is a subjective thing).

You probably had a conflict between the guilt and the horniness and the guilt prevailed this time round. Nothing wrong with you
or with her physically/physiologically.

Seems like a mixyure of both the alcohol and the psychological feelings/guilt you may have...
As stated you've been drinking for a few hours and you said you couldn't feel much. Seems like a good bet that the alcohol has numbed your nerve endings on your dick, so I wouldn't be suprised if you couldn't cum. Maybe you should have met up with her again, this time without the drinks or not so much, then you can do a more 'controlled' test

As with the psychological side, you've known her for a while and known her as a friend of you ex. So going that one step further will have its impact on you grey matter of course. Luckily for us men, we have another head that can do some thinking

Final word, you go and show her who's boss!

Bro, I think your first idea is probably correct - she was just too loose. Some of my best sex has been after a long evening of drinking and, if you were hard, that's probably not the problem. I had a European GF once who was gorgeous with a beautiful slim body. But when I fucked her, I could hardly feel anything - her pussy was just too big and she seemed to have no muscle control at all. Needless to say, the relationship didn't last long. I've never fucked such a loose pussy again so don't worry about it. Hope it doesn't spoil your friendship with her.

i believe its probably cause of the alcohol

I'd definitely try her again when you're sober ... 5am, pissed? ... not the best time for performing ... and yes, loosen up, sex is not such a big deal, it doesn't matter if she knows your ex or not, she clearly wants you.  

If that doesn't work, you have your answer.

The guilt and alcohol certeinly were the cause.

For all you know, it could have been a combination of guilt + alcohol + loose love hole = end result.
But i still think that the guilt plays a big part in such situations. Sex is very much a mental thing as it
is a physical thing.

Anyways, i realise that when i tank up on booze big time, when i do achieve climax, the feeling ain't
as great as when i am sober (it is actually quite a different sensation altogether at times, physically
at least).

For god's sake, have you no intellectual curiosity?  The only way to answer your question is controlled experimentation!  You need to set up a sequence of field tests...  meeting with her at different times of day, with and without the benefit of liquid refreshement of the alcohol kind.  And in order to test the "too loose pussy" hypothesis, you need a control group.  I would say 3-4 alternative partners of various tightnesses would be adequate.  

After each liaison, you need to write up a report and take detailed photos.  Send me the information, complete with addresses and phone numbers, and I will analyse the data for free.  I have a Ph.D., so I'm fully qualified to do this...  

Have fun, CGP

Thanks for all the comments C hings...

Personally I think it's a mixture of guilt feelings and her being too loose that made me couldn't cum. I mean, it was to the point where I didn't want to continue fucking. I just wasn't feeling it the 'vibe'. My little bro was hard as throughout that time, but it just wasn't fun. You know what I'm saying?

And you know what? She's now feeling 'confused' between us. God Dammit. I thought she would be a girl that would take things easy and would get things over and done with. Obviously I was wrong. Far out. Now I feel like I've fucked up her feelings....

So next time if any C Hings wants to get their dicks wet with a close friend, think twice!

OK, I've thought twice, so what's her phone number?

I can't believe that some of you are taking this "maybe she was too loose" idea seriously.  You realize that the girl would have to be fucking huge, thick cocks on a daily basis for this to happen right?

The original poster's friend, "W", isn't a working girl.  He would know the types of guys she's dated and/or fucked.  And the guy has been hanging out with W this entire past month.  QuatzSurfing would know if she's in a relationship or not.

Am I missing something here?  You're not in a relationship, and this woman with whom you are great friends and is "Friggin' hot" is all over you.  And you're feeling guilty because she's best friends with an ex-GF you dumped six months ago?

Why are you not all over her?  She sounds like a great catch!  Or is all this "too loose" stuff just the expression of your insecurity that she's got a whole lot more experience in this realm than you do?

If that's the case, the most secure thing you can do is simply to admit it...  and ask her to show you a few things.  She'll stop seeming so loose to you...

Have fun, CGP

dude, you couldn't cum b/c you were sooo fucked up!  if you were drinking as long as you said you were, you would be too fucked to think about moral consequences and world peace...

if i were you, call her up again to hang out, if she's as cool as last time, i think you've found your next girlfriend...

I don't agree with this this. I can't say I've ever noticed any difference in tightness of pussy between WGs and GFs. And, as I wrote earlier, the loosest pussy I ever had was a non-WG. Some GFs are tight at first because of nerves but after a few fucks they relax and loosen up. But I don't think lots of fucking makes a girl excessively loose. An experienced WG, with good muscle control, can be very tight.

OK, so I drank heaps that night but by the time we were fucking there were 1.5 hrs to sober up. So in a way I knew what I was doing. Just couldn't control my horniness towards her.

Next GF? Don't think so.
1st - She's not the gf type material.
2nd - She's been with this guy on and off for over 2 yrs.
3rd - She might be cool to hang around but deep inside I know she has some really bad emotional problems.

So GF is a definite no no. And personally I do not think I'll go and have seconds with 'W'. That night was something really different and personally I do not want to experience it again. Sex is meant to be fun, that night was not.

I think I can still see her and still be good friends (which is what I want, nothing more), but the problem is does she feel the same. Only time can tell.

Wow - this is the politest forum on the internet.

Nobody has mentioned the one, obvious, 500lb Gorilla in the room type response...

Maybe your dick is just too small

OK, sorry, but someone had to say it.

Dam man, it's your first post in the forum and you had to say something like this?