Subject: I think I'm addicted- How to cure my habit?
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Reply #20 hunter's post

Oops, I must have hit a sore spot.   Keep up your efficient multitasking.
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The only thing that separates an addict from an aficionado is $$$. So long as the rest of your life is ok, I don't see it as being a problem.

4 in 11 days, don't think you need to worry yet...

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My humble stats so far....

Most sperm loss in a day:
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With GF- 4 times
With WGs (different girls) - 3 times
With WGs (same girl) -2 times
Masturbation- 5 times, only possible on days with absolute nothing to do, especially on a rainy day!!

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Not to point out the obvious, but no one here is going to tell you that you're addicted. You're best going to a place where they can assess and support you. That means a psychologist/psychiatrist specialising in sex disorders or at least a sex addiction group. A quick google search should turn up some locals for you.
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It's only an addiction if it's causing harm to you. Harm includes neglecting career, health, family. Or getting into financial difficulty because of the habit. If its causing none of that, then it's not an addiction.

(or at least that's how I rationalize things )
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I spent over $90,000 HKD in about 3 years on punting in HK, Taiwan and a few places in PRC;
I always try and cut the habit but it's so addictive
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Normally, you can try jerking off and taking a very cold extended shower and long workout at gym.

Also, if you try to reward yourself, say you did particularly well in the stock market then splurge a bit.

Lastly, I tend to rest up a bit before a tour of duty for upcoming Asian trip.




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Interesting I missed this section of the forum! I should hang here more often. I've had these thoughts too about going too much. It's obvious the number isn't an issue, but more about how doing this affects your life outside of this hobby.

For me, budgeting is tight, and keeping up with life as a whole is hard when I'm chasing dreams, so I moderate my punting to periods of desperation. At least that's how I try to tame the urges
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Reply #20 hunter's post

So basically you work and just have sex...

And have no friends... Heheheh




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Reply #29 Petay_1283's post

An introverted sex pest Different strokes for different blokes.
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Reply #29 Petay_1283's post

Silly!! I dont go hang out in Wan Chai and the indo/fili maids doesnt mean I dont have wholesome friends and families.
But yes, nowaday I get lazy to hang out with colleagues and old friends, all have their own families and kids, gone separate way.
This is a sex forum and we share details on mongering and sex.
But again, different ppl, different lifestyle.
extrovert or introvert, sex pest or not, none of our business.





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Reply #31 hunter's post

It is all a part of life...

5 years ago I would log into Facebook and start planning nights out, parties etc etc

Now when I log in it is all pictures of friends babies & things like that!

I sometimes am the same, I get lazy & would rather put a movie on rather than go out & pick up a girl. Lol I am starting to feel like a loner!




'Yes, Madam, I am drunk, but in the morning I shall be sober and you will still be ugly.'
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Reply #32 Petay_1283's post

Yep.


It;s a cycle and flow of life.

I think as we age, we get more relax and less agressive.
It;s like I use to love giving DATY to a women, now I rather receive a Blow Job and do nothing.
Even better, let me CIM.




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Reply #33 hunter's post

Hahahaha

I do still enjoy giving the DATY but if I was forced to choose between a sweet BBBJ or giving DATY....

It is no competition.

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'Yes, Madam, I am drunk, but in the morning I shall be sober and you will still be ugly.'
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frankly speaking i find mongering (not too excessive ones e.g. like more than 3 girls a week or something which will wear you out and tire you out) quite invigorating. It gives you pride in conquering (in your own imagination i mean ) a girl twice as young as you, it gives you sexual satisfaction allowing you to focus on other stuff later, and if you have a deadfish wife like mine, you dont need to pester her for sex and make her annoyed and irritated at you   and you will feel some slight guilt and will accompany your family more and more heheheheh my humble view anyway, no offence to anyone
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Reply #1 Rj1972's post

This is very expensive addiction and more you do and more you wants; like any other addictions. If I have saved all the money that I spent on girls, I will be able to buy a house by paying in cash. :-(
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Reply #36 Alexander18's post

like in life, keep everything in moderation & you will be set.  Also you gotta live life a little....so no regrets bro
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