Planning a trip to HK, 2 or 3 days I have plans to meet up with friends, the rest of the time I will be solo, check out the turist spots and sample the local talent. I mentioned something pertainingto HK on my messenger status thing, and she appeared. Its like a fishing expedition and I didn’t even realize I was fishing.  She is one of several people I have on my messenger list that I have no clue who or where  they are, but I managed to chat with them at some point, god know when.

She is 24, looks 18 but that is assian thing I think, petite figure not a stuner but nice and  sweet  looking, and a nice ass.

She is a domestic worker in HK, and naturally she was attracted to me I wonder why? ($)
Well that’s ok, she sees dollars first, I see tits and ass first.

She seems to have really “fallen” for me, sends a lot of text messages, I am sure those domestic workers do not get paid a lot, and what I know of about the phillipines she must send most of her earnings home to her family, and text messages for her must cost a good amount. Maybe she looks at it as an investment.

Her English is good, but she misses some words, text communication is something like this.

Her-you work in office right?
Me-yes I have my own cubicle
Her-O Nice

Her-I have 3 days off but I have curfew from employer have to be back 8;30 every night
Me-no, I wanted to go out with you at night, we cant have fun
Her-well I can stay with you in hotel room all day
Me-what do you want to do all day in room
Her-you know  hahaha

Its not overtly sexual but she is flirting, she is away from home confined to a curfew and she lonely. The other posibilety is that she wants  to take me for all I got.

If I meet her the curfews will be my advantage, we can have our love affair during the day, but she will have to go to sleep at home, thus giving me a chance to enjoy the night. I don’t want to just pin her, it would be cool to spend time touring HK with someone. I never traveled to asia so I don’t have have a complete grasp of the situation. I know asian girls can be very conniving but naïve.

So what do you local guys think? Should I run like hell? Or give it a try?

Given that you have taken the effort to gather a broader opinion from a very open minded forum, leads me to believe that you have already made up your mind and just need and extra nudge.

So here you go.

Go for it, have some fun.

You are both consenting adults and there is certainly interest on her part. Interest that you may be suprised to find does not end at your wallet.

$ is as we all know a great motivator, but companionship and connection to another can be equally as important.

Have fun, play a bit. Be mindfull of added emotional linkages that can creep up.  For many this sort of thing may be the only road they see as a way to break a economic cycle.

---8th

You didn't say when your trip is.

But let me tell you this: if you are after Filipina maids, HK is absolutely chock full of them, so if this one for whatever reason doesn't float your boat, there are like a million other ones just waiting for your white (I assume) cock (assuming about the whiteness, not about the cock). Local HK Chinese guys won't go near them (unless said guys are real freaky), so the maids' choices are either local Filipino worker guys, or white guys, and guess which usually has better money and passport.

Log on to any "social" or "dating" website, search for females in Hong Kong, and you will be overflowing with Filipinas. I'd rather fuck Richard Simmons than fuck (or even worse, be seen with in public) a Filipina maid (really, I think I would), but of course to each his own, and if your tastes differ from the majority's, you should use that to your advantage! Your plate in HK is just teeming with choices.

[ Last edited by  testlogin at 4-12-2009 03:05 ]

"I'd rather fuck Richard Simmons than fuck (or even worse, be seen with in public) a Filipina maid (really, I think I would), but of course to each his own, and if your tastes differ from the majority's, you should use that to your advantage!"

I really don't understand your comments. I am just a visitor to Hong Kong and perhaps unaware of the local attitude towards domestic workers, but I have met quite a few during my several visits here. Although I have never engaged socially with any of them, I have always found them to be very nice and hard working in general. It can't be a very easy or satisfying life that they enjoy here in Hong Kong, at the beck and call of employers, seemingly 24 hours a day.

Maybe I am a bit naive, where I come from it is unusual to have domestic help, but I for one find them very pleasant to be around and would be quite happy to engage socially with one if the occasion occurred. Not to mention that I have seen quite a number of very attractive workers.

If there's going to be money involved then set your absolute limit before you go.  The compensated girlfriend thing is a well played game over there and you could end up with an outright cash gift or a big shopping trip you didn't plan on etc.  It's tough to say no when you look into those pouty eyes

Maybe she just wants fun, but be prepared to deftly side-step a monetary request that exceeds you budget, and be prepared for those requests to come from directions you hadn't thought of.

If I were in your shoes I'd definitely go for it.  Sounds like a fun time.  After you've been in this hobby for a while the all day or all weekend girlfriend experience gets a little old, but when you're new it's a lot of fun (and expense! )

Waldo, there is absolutely nothing wrong or naive about your tastes! We just have different tastes. You absolutely should not be second-guessing your tastes, as you like what you like, and I like what I like. You might very well be turned off by the women that I'm into. Luckily, there are enough women in the world to make us both happy.

Edited to add the side by side fuckability comparison (maybe I can has a poll?)





[ Last edited by  testlogin at 4-12-2009 06:40 ]

lol
well if its me than I pic the one in dark shirt in the back.

But its very tempting to pic Richard, hot red sequence outfit, mouth open and ready to go. bet you he lets CIM

I still want the Philippine girl.

Well, testlogin, I will Richard entirely to you. Count me in as one who prefers one of the many lovely domestics every time.   

You know what to do. Just bust a move.

I love it when you let me dominate.

Damn if this thread didn't take a surprising turn into dark and uncharted territory!

What you need to know is

a) Philippinas come from a superficially catholic culture: any overt display of sexuality is a "bad girl" thing ... which means you can amplify anything they say.  Basically she already told you she wants to screw your balls off, over and over again, until both of you are completely satisfied, and then do it again.  

b) yes, she's basically locked up in a foreign country in return for twice as much money as a typical doctor / lawyer / professional would make back home.  A bit like expats really

c) which means that amongst the (large numbers) of "old maids" who are fat ugly stupid or all three, you can actually find some real gems:  hot, smart, hardworking, and genuinely good to find ...  

d) ... who are locked up with no freedom, nobody to talk to (except their employer who ignores them and just orders them around), completely alone except for her mobile phone, and PLENTY of nights to fantasise about what her friends are up to and she's missing out on ...

e) so yes, the romantic dream is very strong in these girls, and the reality is the top girls (see c above) are creamed off pretty soon.  I've been to a few weddings between maids and expat guys, and it only takes one in a hundred for all the others to try extra hard to catch their own man

f) and yes, a single $400 fcuk is over 10% of her monthly salary and probably a 20% hike on her take-home, what a bonus for getting her rocks off and satisfying her own hunger!   

so g) she doesn't actually care whether you are a short fling (for free) / long term boyfriend / sugar-daddy (paid) / marriage prospect - she'll take you regardless and then try to convert you if she can.

VERY IMPORTANT NOTE:  a big part of their catholic upbringing is to loathe condoms.  They love to go BB at the slightest excuse, so you will have to be firm.  Or risk any and all of the consequences ... YOU HAVE BEEN WARNED.  

oh h) give up any idea of sleeping around discreetly - the flippie grapevine is faster than twitter.  By the time you go out on the street ALL her friends will know she owns you, and if you so much look at another girl, she will know about it within seconds.  You can sleep around (see a to g above) just assume your past and future prospects all know about each other and your sexual history, set clear expectations, and you'll avoid surprises.  

Knowing that, you're well equipped for your adventure.  

above all HAVE FUN, STAY SAFE, AND STAY WITHIN YOUR BUDGET!!!

I have to say I am with Testlogin on this one, go to victoria park on a sunday and you will see millions of maids, and i would say probably 1 out of 100 is doable.  But seems like the OP's mind is set, so my comment above is really irelevant.

TestLogin missed one thing though, besides local flip workers and white guys, my friend told me many Indian and Pakistani dudes go after maids specifically, they know they are easy and vulnerable targets.