You've got your pound in flesh - and yes you rightly point out - it's NOT about karma points.

Look-it - y'all gotta see how this all is just flooding the forum with childish prattle.  so howzabout this - lets REALLY all be adults and call it a truce.

Ain't nuthin wrong with agreeing to disagree - but "stalking" is an appropriate word.  (Jeez - another new temrinolgoy creeping into our boards!!).

So lets PLEASE just stop all this OK?

SEAJ

Oh, I do enjoy English literature.  Please do keep on protesting to be the victim.  Open discourse asking you to respect rules on flooding is painted as "childish prattle."  And of course, by implication, you're being the adult...

Trying to suggest we're stalking you is also rather amusing.  It's nice to see you continue to have such a high opinion of yourself.  I know many people who'd love to have your sense of self-confidence.

I'm more than happy to stop if you can properly acknowledge a point that's been made instead of trying to make it seem like a personal attack.  I don't hope to change your behaviour since you're clearly set in your ways, but you could at least try to be open-minded.

I believe a very small percentage are "informative". Just because a member has made a certain ("high") number of posts, which the current forum system automatically rates with a high RA rating, doesn't automatically make the poster a sage.

I wonder how many of SEAJ's posts you've actually read? I would be gob smacked if anyone has actually read them all. I would give them a medal.


Very wise advice!

SEAJ reminds me of a good friend who likes to talk too much.  I would have to listen to about 60 minutes of my buddy's non-stop talk to learn about 5 minutes of new information.  I have learned to treat the remaining 55 minutes as white background noise and space out.  

I have become like those hostess at those hostess bars who smile politely while their customers prats on and on about something that doesn't in any way interest the hostess.  

SEAJ, As someone who's been on the receiving end, please don't neg someone just because they negged you.
It makes a mockery of the points system. And, in effect, you're warning everyone else not to neg you.  

Bros should be able to neg Kings or even Forum Legends without worrying about retaliation.

i dont know why all the drama all of a sudden. i am with VG on this one. its almost enough to make a bro not want to post on here anymore for sake of such nonsense, but since i reached conqueror not long ago, i won't quit because now i get to see pics

joking aside, in my experience it is very very difficult to change a person. if that is how they are gonna be, then let them be. let the powers that be take the appropriate action. to create a thread like this is just fueling the fire, and giving certain bro's more reason to continue to post posts that aren't actually contributing to meaningful discussion or dialogue. singling a person out isn't gonna solve anything.

so lets leave the beef where its supposed to be, on the dinner plate, and go about with our lives, chime in when you have something to say, let those who feel inclined to continue to police around here, and keep looking at pretty pictures of pretty girls. die drama die.

Another flaming thread.

Butler, enough with the cruxification. We all got your message.

SEAJ, stop been a  facetious person.

When u apologise and say you gonna back-off, please mean what you say.
Learn to be humble once in a while.

i give you credit, SEAJ.  You're the only guy that has lasted this long acting the way you do - in fact I think you're the only member with king status that so many people genuinely loathe.

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SEAJ certainly has a thick skin. Hopefully, by now, he's got the message and won't start
up again when he gets back from China. But who am I kidding.

he wont because he's gonna be busy writing up reports on his expeditions to Changping. So we're gonna be waiting for your reports SEAJ. Make it good

personal opinion:

i dont like SEAJ - he's mean cry cry TT_TT

Like I wrote on Fight Club Thread, SEAJ made a few reports on another forum. I hope he comes back but with a quieter tone on 141. On the other hand, I am sure there are some that wants him out. This is not the only sex forum, and I know many 141 members are on at least 2-3 other forums.  Just my 2 cents and IMHO.

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looks like SEAJ busted a lot of forum member's nuts lately. I think he's still in Changping having fun so we'll wait until he returns to let  him write his reports and go from there.

FYI  seaj's been back for days and he been on the forum many times, he haven't posted much which is his choice !

Concur

and - since his silence means (by definition) that he's not speaking for himself - for the record it's clear that SEAJ has indeed chosen to slow down posting.  

We need to notice - and say "thank you".  And stop our complaints.  

... and hope he comes back with a more moderate style.  His energetic personality is a big asset, he's just got a bit carried away.

Guess the forum didnt make him feel as wanted as he would like......Hopefully he doesnt feel hostility or depressed over this whole episode. Like D said, his energy is there and his contributions are appreicated so we're waiting to hear back from you bro

I think you guys underestimate him.  Because he is in CP now, he has been hving too much fun on his mind to write a post though he may be logged in.  But I suspect this quiet period is only the lull to dull our senses before he resumes his blitzkrieg in the forum.    A classic war strategy.  

I think you overestimate him!

He's not evil. And I see no evidence of any more devious intention than a desire to take credit for making a difference.  

He's just highly motivated and a little insensitive ... unfortunate combination, but one we can tolerate, using sensitivity of our own!!

I never said he is evil.  Like I said before, he reminds me of a friend who likes to talk for the sake of talking.  I asked my friend why he talks so much, even repeating the basic story over and over in different forms.  He admitted that he has a fear of ppl not paying him attention to what he says or does.  I think SEAJ likes (compulsively) alot attention (positive or negative, doesn't matter).

Like it is said, when ppl gossip about you, you may not feel happy about the gossip, but at least they are talking about you.  If no one gossips about you, then you are not worth talking about, a no one.  Think about it.

I actually would rather be a no one where people dont talk about me either positively or negatively than be the one who gets talked about. I could give a shit the negative things people say about me because it doesnt bother me. And if people complimente me, I am very weary of them as well. No one says good things about you unless they wnat something.

O M G !  sounds like your paranoid on this forum !

I must remember not to compliment you ... I wouldn't want you to think I want to have my wicked ways with you !