Dear Friends..
Till now I had sex with 6 WGs. All are protected sex. This weekend I am going back to my country...
I am married with 2 kids... Now I am really worried abt STD....
Had sex with WG 4 Weeks back...Till now I didnt suffer with any symptoms...
But really worried....sleepless thoughts are going...
Even if I convey this to my wife....it will lead to divorce....
Even scared to go for test....I dont want my wife to suffer
kindly suggest me....

I need ur help

Thanks
Feddy

Get a STD test? No words will sugar coat your worries.

Like asurada has mentioned, words won't help.
The only way to know if you're clean or not is to get tested.
Just go get tested immediately. Don't think about it... it will only make you worry more.

Yeah get tested secretly. Also no need to worry too much if all times it was covered and you also cleaned up nicely. Mouthwash for girl and you etc. is what I normally do. Don't worry too much as your wide probably will notice something wrong with you and she would definately smell it. Just act normal

Thanks for suggestions guys...
if I go for test..how many days to get results in HK...

http://www.dh.gov.hk/english/tele/tele_chc/tele_chc_shcm.html

Free of charge for HKID holders I believe it really cheap.

http://www.famplan.org.hk/fpahk/ ... tent=sexual/std.asp

More info about STD you might check it out

Getting into the free clinic is next to impossible as they are closed on Saturdays and during lunch breaks.

But anyway, if you don't want to get tested, you should not be that scared. The chances of getting STD from one WG are way too small. Relax.

If anything you might tell your wife that you didn't have sex with anyone, just your dick touched a seat in a public toilet and you got STD that way. Remember that song, "It Wasn't Me?".

A couple of options: You could do as others have suggested, and immediately get tested. That's what I'd do.

Another approach is to see a doctor or pharmacist, and ask to be treated as if you had contracted a bacterial STD such as syphilis, gonorrhea, or chlamydia. You will find out that the treatment is a very simple set of pills. Will the doctor agree to your request? Depends, but some will. Besides, you can find the treatment yourself, and ask a pharmacist. In many countries, including HK, obtaining prescription antibiotics is very easy. In other countries, not so easy.

Finally, let me comment that although I agree that the chances of contracting A STD (especially HIV) are very low, each such transmission occurs with exactly one sexual encounter (or, as I like to put it, "with one stroke").

Probably the biggest casualty here is your peace of mind. Until you get an answer, you will be worried. Do yourself a favor, and get tested. The peace of mind is worth it.

Gherk

Don't forget you can get HPV from skin to skin contact with WG, even if wearing protection. And there's no cure for it. Might end up with nasty warts.

Remember to get tested for that too, if you want to be 100% clean....

You sound like a caring and responsible man, who loves his family.  

The ONLY issue you're facing right now is your peace of mind.  

There is ONLY ONE cure: find out the facts.  The way our minds work, the truth is always less scary than the things we imagine when we don't know the facts for sure.  

Go to Neo Health
  http://www.neohealth.com.hk/
They have a fast efficient service, and of course confidential.  Heck, one could imagine they were invented for people like you facing your concerns ...

Get a full screening.  You're VERY unlikely to have caught anything, but the ONLY way you will know - and the ONLY way you will know what you should be doing right now, to protect yourself, your wife, your kids, your marriage, your savings, and all of your future partners - is to get tested, now.  With that in your mind (and the paper copy somewhere nobody will ever see it!) you can smile with confidence, knowing you've done everything a responsible gentleman should do, to look after himself, and look out for others his choices might affect.  

Yes, it'll cost some money ... but all hobbies cost money, and so does this one, it's like a membership fee or a Rite Of Passage.  Pay the "membership fee" with a smile, remembering why you're doing it.  

Grow a pair, and do what you need to do.

Definitely need to go get testing.  There's no other way to get peace of mind.  I've used Neohealth twice to curb anxiety.  In both cases, I went because I had received BBFS in a drunken stupor and started freaking out that I was a dead man walking.  Neohealth was fast, discrete, and expensive but worth it.  Government clinics have a much longer turnaround on results than Neohealth and it was definitely worth it to me to pay the money so I could shorten the duration of my anxiety.

One thing that you will have to consider is that, after you get your clean bill of health, you may want to give up punting.  The reason I say this is that if you are subject to this kind of anxiety, it's going to be just as bad the 2nd time around.  It's not the type of thing that gets easier the more you do it.  So, you need to figure out if it's worth it, and if not, figure out if there are other ways that you can get your jollies without being paranoid afterwards.

For me, I'm pretty good with everything up to BBFS, meaning I won't do BBFS.  BBBJ and CFS don't freak me out.  However, for you, you may find that you can't handle any FS at all, and can only do CBJ or HJ without anxiety.  Next time out, I would just go to a rub and tug and see if it freaks you out, and then gradually try riskier stuff until you figure out where your comfort zone is.

[ Last edited by  hulk2211 at 21-8-2013 15:52 ]

as others have said - testing is the only way to go.

Some guys get tested fairly frequently depending on how often they punt.

Simple reason being that taking back an unexpected visitor to meet your SO is something you don't want to deal with.

Tests are simple, easy and can be done with total privacy so noone need ever know except you.

Dartagnan's post about this being a hobby and hobbies having costs is spot on and given the fun at the other end its a pretty small price to pay (the test).

whatever way you choose, good luck with the result and for being safe and standing up and being responsible.

Hi Guys..
Thanks alot for ur kind words...Checked with NHS they said it will take 3-5 working days to get results....I am leaving HK this sunday... I will try to do tests in my place itself....
If u people can suggest some place that will give results in 2 days...it will be helpful...

Here onwards I wont think of punting in future...

Thanks
Feddy

duh

I said NeoHealth

but I'm repeating myself

What is comforting is that you have had no symptoms. It is to be noted that some STDs show symptoms 24 hours after exposure to several months. However, some remain asymptotic for years. So, to be safe you can get tested privately to ease your mind.

I know a GP doctor as a friend personally who I talk to in private life. He had told me once that he would recommend testing if the person showed symptoms or optional testing if they had shown no symptoms. BUT, he would only recommend testing if the subject showed no symptoms if the patient had described an unsafe sex practice that leads to exposure to potential STDs or if the act was safe and the person suffers from anxiety. The reason for this is that many "theoretical" transmission theories are improbable in practice and some never have happened - such as contracting HIV from a protected HJ.

I must add that finding a "comfort zone" for future sex practices with an array of sexual partners from this industry is absolutely no indication of potential STD transmission. For example, just because you got a BBBJ with one girl and you did not catch anything does not mean you put this activity in your comfort zone and try it with another girl and be comfortable you will not catch anything. If you want to be SAFE, the fact is you must think in terms of SCIENCE. If it's possible, it can/will happen eventually. Know what is possible or in other words, learn safe sex practices and obey them.