Hmmm, I am not super into it, but have tried a couple times with girls that were really into it - but I couldn't get it in!  Maybe I am too big, but how the hell do you jam your dick into that tiny hole I don't know!  I lubed 'em up well, fingered them for a while - but my finger aint anywhere close to the size of my dick.   Yeah, I see the gaping assholes on porn chicks, but no girl I tried anal with could open enough.  My dick gets soft in the effort....

One if my favorite girls, Joann, told me, "Babe, my ass is a virgin.., I want to try it".  Fuck that made me horny.., I bought lube, we tried.., I could not get in dammit!  

What's the trick?

um, what religion is that?

It seems like a good way for the man to get a urinary tract infection.  Has this happened to anyone ?  I am asking because I have not yet tried the back door. . .  yet.

As long as you cap it and it doesn't rip your ok. Another worry would Be pulling out with your meat covered in scat

It's possible of course, but has never happened to me in all my BB anal adventures (with girlfriends).  And yes, you can get poop on your peter.    For me, each girl is very different.  I've had girls that didn't feel any better than vaginal sex, and then girls that could make me double climax in their ass.     It's all very individual, and more often than not, the girls didn't want all the extra lube, just their own juices.  Go figure!

A lot of teenage Catholic girls are conned into trying anal sex because abstinence actually only applies to breaking of the vaginal seal. A lot of Muslims in Malaysia are known for taking it up the ass as well due to religious beliefs.

quote Tried anal before pussy due to my first girlfriend's religion.

Dang,what religion is that?  I need to start attending services there.

I often do anal with my GF, I love it, especially banging her and playing with her clit, she's so wet when doing anal

What religion was this?  I have to find me someone who worships the same god Girls I go out with just don't seem to want anal and consider it disgusting But that just makes me want to try it more.

Same here. No UTIs in my BB anal experiences (with girlfriends and FB). With one, lube was needed as she was super tight. With the rest, extra lube needed only when dry, otherwise natural lube (from pussy) or saliva was sufficient.

Also had a girlfriend who was a virgin and who abstained from sex due to her religious beliefs. When I jokingly suggested anal instead, she surprisingly agreed. So of course I happily went along with it
I guess she enjoyed it enough that within the month, I popped her other cherry as well So much for abstinence.

Now, not trying to suggest anything untoward her, but has anyone experienced a reluctant anal partner (reluctant before the act) who turned out to enjoy it? I've had girls who said they won't do anal, that it's dirty, painful, they've never done it, they don't want to do it, etc...  But during vaginal sex, when I finger their anus, they seemed to enjoy it, even with my finger inside. And then despite earlier protests that they don't do it, when I try to stick it up their ass, they don't do anything to stop it, and when I'm going at it up their bum, they suddenly seem to enjoy it and asked me to pump harder, faster & deeper. The first time it happened, I was taken by completely by surprise. There I was, trying to be gentle, when I get instructed to go for it HARD.

You seem to get it in awfully easily!  I find it all but impossible... Even with lube and a very eager girl.

Some prepping is needed:

1. Girl needs to be having fun and relaxed. If she is not relaxed, her muscles will clamp up the opening so it becomes really hard to penetrate
2. Some fingering often helps to get her used to having something enter her anus
3. Lube as needed.

And the part that can't be helped (much):
1. Dick cannot be too BIG! Or girl will find it difficult (unless she has a big anal opening - usually associated with frequent anal sex, though I have no idea if that's true)
2. If dick is kinda big, then try to penetrate when half-erect, though usually a hard dick makes it easier (if not too big)

Hardest part is getting the head of the penis in. Once that is in, it's a lot easier.

I once had lube and a very eager girl. We tried for an hour. Failed. Simply because her anus was just too small.

Very curious, why would Malays prefer the back door ?  Also there are a surprising number of posts here relating religion with the back hole.  Hmmm . . .

[ Last edited by  Blue_Pacific at 5-5-2011 12:21 ]

First time I heard of it. If true, it's definitely nothing to do with religion, as a Malay girl who is afraid of sinning by having pre-marital sex should be terrified of anal sex by comparison as that is considered a greater sin in their religion.

However, could it be because of pregnancy concerns? If they aren't using any contraceptives, then they could be worried about getting pregnant, and hence anal sex.

i prefer regular sex.  I think anal is overrated.  I guess you do get a feeling of empowerment.  After all, you're violating a place not designed to be penetrated from the outside.

One of the DUMBEST things you can do is go bb anal with a wg!

Anal is quite enjoyable except for that wretched stench. I have yet to try it with a wgbut i have done so in the past with my gfs. I say if u find an anal wg, use lube and condom to ensure safety! U dun want to go bb and u need lube bc rubber might rip n thrn u end up bb anyway.

It helps if the girl clears her bowels before hand. Less likely to encounter a brown problem. Porn actresses clean themselves out before performing an anal scene. Would be nice if the WG/GF/FB does it too.

Does it ALWAYS stink?  Or depends on the girl and if she cleaned her bowels out already?

It doesn't always stink. In my personal experience, it usually does not stink.. but then I don't try to sniff my dick or her anus either! It may help to do it while in a big bath tub filled with soapy water (makes it slippery - easier to penetrate; and gives the feeling of being "cleaner").

So I think it depends on the girl and if she cleaned her bowels recently.

In my experience the girls don't want the problems with scat or anything related with it so they prepare for anal before I arrive. i usually tell the girl beforehand
that I want to visit the islands