ya thats the story. I lost it with money. And I actaally felt fine, pretty calm and in harmony with everything around me. The sex was safe. C-everything which I like. One thing changed though, I look at woman differently now. I can seem to look at them as a person, more like a sex object now. I unconsciouly strip them with my eyes and see whats it like when they are naked. Every woman below low 30s that look fukable. I fantasize about them.

that is all

thanks everyone for your support. Im not a virign anymore. I can tell everyone, virginity for men at least, is very overrated. I should have gone to see a girl way younger.

Did you talk to her at all ?

You kinda sound like an aspiring sex offender :/
Do you keep your respect for the opposite gender intact?

did you bareback?

OK bro, well done, looking forward to
your report. If it wasn't in HK, post
it in the International Reports section.

Good point, Taro.
At the risk of being obvious (uwotextbook is, by his
own admission, very young and inexperienced):

In the headiness of a pay-for-play cherry-popping,
it's easy to imagine that one's newfound access
to pussy applies to all women. Nope, that hasn't
changed one bit. Most women are still going to
be off-limits without a great deal of effort going
into wooing them.

What has changed is one's perspective and
confidence, which eventually makes a lot of
difference in the success of one's efforts to
please them enough for them to want to put
out voluntarily.

To uwotextbook, good luck bro, and let us
know how it goes with that girl in your
dance class.

Was it in HK? Will you report on it? Are you going to monger regularly?

Did you talk to her at all ?

Its a mandarin talking person. I know a few words. She knew that I was a virgin from first sight. She couldnt beleive a young guy like me was going to go there.  Im 23, but i look like im 17. I think this applies to all asians. She treated me like a little child. And I find it kinky with a older girl, younger guy fuck. She's like *she spread her legs*, "looks, this is where babies come from". I was like "okay...". Then I stab my penis in. Let say the experience was enlightening to learn so much. But I wouldnt say this is really really good sex. I felt pretty calm and relaxed the whole way through.  She was cute, but I guess the connection wasnt there, or maybe there is something missing. I cant really pinpoint as to what is missing. I have never been in a real relationship, so i wouldnt know what its like to fuck a girl I truely love.

The experience felt very similar to me masterbating at home. The foreplay was nice with the kissing and all the fondling. I think its a little bit better than masterbating at home in my room alone. I must say it was a little painful. I had to pump her for a long while before I could cum and my dick was pretty swollen and red from it.

You kinda sound like an aspiring sex offender :/
Do you keep your respect for the opposite gender intact?
ill try to. I dont know whats happening to me. When i look at woman now, i fantasize whats its like when shes nude and what she is like aroused and fuking.
I just couldnt help it. I also find myself checking out woman for much longer time than i used to. For example this young girl i saw at london drugs, vancouver. I was literally staring at her for like 10 seconds.

Was it in HK? Will you report on it? Are you going to monger regularly?
Not in HK. Not going to report it, sorry. I went to this place they had like 3-4 girls. they all look pretty similar. I dont think it will be much different if i did that girl instead of this girl. There is not much to write about. However, I will be in hong kong this august for a couple of week, and i will be mongering. I will review, since its more helpful for you guys anyways.

For the past week or so, Ive done paid-sex twice. The second time was pretty similar to the first time. I still say that Im virgin. Cuz i get treated pretty well when I said I was a virgin with my first encounter. I dont think I will be addicted to this. I was expecting to blow my mind. But It felt natural. I dont find it too arousing or exciting. The Orgasm was great like always. There is something missing. I just dont know what is it. Or maybe this is what sex is, and im expecting too much. Im planning to go 2-3 times a month. to fullfill my natural body needs.

did you bareback?
Like I said, everything was with condom. that is how im going to do it forever. There is no point in risking.

know how it goes with that girl in your
dance class.
thanks mister. I really do hope I get to be with her. But i know chances are very slim. Ive been told im a good looking guy. But when i look in the mirror I dont quite see it. I understand life is not fair, and its suppose to be that way. My family is pretty rich. But as an individual im nothing. I dont have a career yet, and also have no friends(see socially awkward), so im not expecting anyway with her.  After i had sex. I find that  I want to be with her not because shes sexually attractive but I want to be in a relationship with her, when we can share our happiness and sorrows together.

[ Last edited by  uwotextbook at 1-4-2010 15:49 ]

Glad to hear it went well. If it was your first time then how do you know you like C-everything? :jumping eyes:

he said he was safe and that he C- everything.  Which I interpret that mean that he covered up?

sorry for the confusion. I like c-everything because its safe and I like safe sex.

Yep, like I said in your original thread,
sometimes sex is just ... sex.

It transcends that when there is a
mutual "feeling", sometimes referred
to with the shorthand term GFE, for
girl friend experience. Occasionally,
less often than you might hope,
you can get some from a professional
provider, but for the most part paid
sex will leave you physically satisfied
but with that je ne sais quoi ...
that hole in your heart unfilled.

Congratz but try not too get addicted haha and I thought virgins came faster

No bareback?
Good!!
Better be safe with service provider.

My dad once said, Son! To lose your virginity, you need to go bareback with your chick.
Or Else, how is she supposed to suck and clean your Algae away from your dick head?

You are still a VIRGIN. Look into your pant, green Algae on your dickhead !!!!

So, get out there, find a nice GF/Wife, you need to really lose your virginity!!! Do it the right way!!!  

You are still a VIRGIN. Look into your pant, green Algae on your dickhead !!!!

Thanks, hunter, i dont think i can be a virgin ahah. My innocence was taken away already. The first time seeing a woman naked. First time touching bare boobs, first time sticking my finger into a vagina. The first time penis inside vagina etc...

The only thing I havent experienced is the bareback feeling like u said, but i dont think ill get to experience it anytime soon. Saving it for my wife if it ever happens.

Congratz but try not too get addicted haha and I thought virgins came faster.
It can actually go a lot of ways for virgins. Some cum really fast, some couldnt get up and some couldnt blow.
I asked one of my few fews, he said he couldnt get hard enough to penetrate. He was flacid during the whole session.

maybe im too used to my hand and how i liek to stimulate myself. I dont know really know. The second time was fine though. It also take longer than I normally do. The usual is pretty quick I think. I usally cum within 5 minutes if i masterbated. I like to do it quickly so i can go back to work quicker.  Maybe im not used to pounding for like 15 minutes ++

Ill try not to get addicted but im already looking up at the koreans which the vancouver are known for.

[ Last edited by  uwotextbook at 1-4-2010 19:50 ]

Hey, you remind me of myself when I lost mine at 17. Was in HK for vacation with a buddy, first time travelling without parents then. Just had to satisfy the curiousity. Not particularly proud of it and never talk about it, especially when girlfriends ask me when wasmy first time and who I did it with (damn girls like to ask that) , but i'll never forget it.

ps: it was at a random shady brothel at mongkok, back then when the streets were lined up with yellow signs.

I guess....... congratulations!

Its very rare that someone is so open about this even on an anonymous forum like this. So more power to you!

Use your youth wisely and just go wild. When you are slightly older, you won't have the stamina to go at it 6 times a day like you can now. If you just treat sex as sex, and love as love, you'll be ok. Sex is just a biological function that happens to feel great and nothing more..... remember it. It will prevent you from getting mentally fucked up in the future. You'll also still be able to have a real relationship with a girl in the future.

I recently had the opportunity to enjoy the vancouver scene too, and its not bad, esp with all the koreans. Next step, you should go check out HK, macau, and then move onto china. It will be an eye opener.

I firmly believe that this is a healthy hobby for single men, because I see too many frustrated singles who just knock the first girl up they have a relationship with. She is often not the right girl for him, but then they are forced to get married, then have an unhappy marriage, and unhappy kids, etc, etc.
Their gun had been loaded for way too long without a shot. So, this hobby sort of gives you the perspective of: "its ok if it doesn't work out with this chick, I have other ways to get off. Better choose the right girl for me rather than become a slave to her sex"

congrats on getting it done!

now go out and fuck as many more u need, then settle down and try to get a GF. why am I giving this advice? cos sex with WG's is often meaningless, and if u do manage to connect with 1 or 2 that u meet along the way, chances are unlikely that it could develop into a proper relationship. u don't wanna fall in love with a WG. unless u've been in a proper relationship there's always a higher chance that u might end up falling for a WG if u keep on visiting them, since u wouldn't be able to differentiate between meaningful and meaningless sex.

sex with WG's is probably 95% of the time just a means of temporary satisfaction. it seems there's a danger now that u might not even bother going out into the real world and trying to develop a relationship with a girl, since u are now comfortable with just paying for sex. and so u'll keep doing this but at the end of the day, it won't help u find a girl who means that much more to u.

now that ur no longer a virgin, u should be more comfortable around women (it may take a few more fucks with different women). so afterwards, go out there, meet some girls and if u meet one u like, go ahead and ask her out. there's nothing more she can do than to reject u, and even then, it's not the end of the world. plenty of fish in the sea.

I realize that u may not have the best social skills, but I actually know a guy who was also very socially awkward and did not even so much as kiss a girl until he was 25. he finally managed to meet this hot girl when he was 25 and to everyone's surprise, actually started dating her. they seem quite happy now and are still together (his first GF). but before that he was totally fucked up and would cry and shit after finding out that a girl he had just met and liked already had a BF. he of course, did not lose his virginity until he met his first GF. so never say never. everyone thought this guy was gonna die a virgin, and now he's happily dating some hot Japanese girl that everyone thought was miles outta his league.

obviously it's your life and u should live it the way u see fit, but I just thought I'd offer my 2 cents to help out a bro. hope this gives u something to think about.

[ Last edited by  barney.winkel at 2-4-2010 17:51 ]

Brother mind blowing sex requires the chemistry.
When when you go bareback SHIT the sex goes to another level.

Sex with my GF still beats sex I've had with any WG.
Maybe it also a plus since my GF is the horny type.

Congratulations on a job well done!  But just how old was the provider you saw?  I figure that with your first time, you'd want to fuck a young looker!  Or did you settle for an older WG who could provide better service?