a WG is a WG. if u start worring about her other customers, then ur in trouble as u've most likely become too attached to her. a sign of the ship sinking perhaps.

I recently had a "hull breach" and felt my ship starting to sink. I met a WG that I connected really well with and paid her multiple visits. we even exchanged numbers and have been chatting regularly since then. she's literally one of the most beautiful, sweetest girls I've met, and this is not just a comparison with other WG's. the problem started when on my last visit, I left her a "bonus" of sorts in an envelope, in addition to her fee + tip. I included a note which explained that I wished to help her earn enough in the fastest possible time so she could get back to her normal life (for privacy reasons, I won't go into why she's doing this). it just felt to me that this wasn't the kind of life she should lead and that she could do much better than to get fucked for money. I also found myself feeling worried and concerned whenever she would contact me about a problem she was having, and slightly jealous when thoughts like "she's probably banging some random guy right now" entered my mind.

then one day I just snapped out of it and came to the realization that I was being a fool. there's no way that I could tell whether there's any truth to her life story and her reasons for being a WG. it's not about the "bonus" I left her and the time and attention I've devoted to her - u would spend these things when dating a girl u really liked anyway. it was just the realization that - caring so much about her and having so much affection for her to the point that I even considered whether it'd be possible that one day we could be together as a proper couple when she goes back to her normal life - it would most probably ruin me eventually.

there are just too many fundamental incompatibilities that would rule out the chance of any relationship with a WG. as bro Sik pointed out, how would u know that, when she's back to her normal life, she won't get a call from an old customer she really liked and decide to bang him for an extra buck? how could u have any assurances that she'd stay faithful to u? some of these girls may have really nice personalities and perhaps even strong morals, but if so, I'm inclined to think that their morals and ethics would not apply to sex, love, and relationships, since they would have to have a somewhat warped view of these in the first place to even consider working as a WG. in a nutshell, I simply came to the realization that any possibility of a "fairy tale ending" was truly one in a million, and would never happen except in the rarest of cases.

after having thought things through, I wasn't compelled to go out and fuck as many WGs as possible, nor have I stopped being in contact with her. I just realized that we could only, at best, be friends, and this is something I'd be happy with. flooding seems to be under control, and ship is going full speed ahead.

[ Last edited by  barney.winkel at 18-4-2010 10:45 ]

Honestly i think ur question is a total  joke. If you are a punter why would you care about all this.. you fork out money to screw a WG because you want to and can afford to do so.. the WG's do this to make a living, whether they like it or not...

I have seen plenty of UGLY BASTARDS with HOT CHICKS on the street - WHO CARES...

if you are so insecure about all this.. you shouldn't be here or do any mongering..

[ Last edited by  Jakpot at 18-4-2010 11:17 ]

I know I am the jealous type.
Don't talk about WG... I can't and don't want to know about my own GF and her exs.
But nowadays everyone have had past experience or almost 90% of the girls.

Don't ask.. don't know.. it's easier to be happy.

[ Last edited by  Avatar at 18-4-2010 11:30 ]

As some of you have suspected I have recently had a very similar experience and it can be heartwrenching.
My particular gal was about to go back to work for a month in China and then try to come back to Hong Kong (after the Chinese New Year holiday) and then she told me that a rich client didn't want her to do this and was going to make her his mistress for these two months instead. It seemed she needed the income form about two more months to take care of her families' financial needs and then she would look for a regular job like before.
At the last minute the dude changed his mind and she was back where she started. I felt really bad for her, but there's just no way I can afford the kind of money it would take to get a lock-out on one of these gals for a whole month or more.
Even now I sometimes feel a chill inside or break out in a cold sweat when I think about her spending 14 hours being banged by man after man. I'm not just feeling some kind of misguided jealousy, but out of friendship just feel bad for her and concerned about her safety and health.
Like bro Avatar, I have also found it difficult to face or know about past sex-lives of girlfriends and my wife and trying to unravel that subject is always a mistake.
I remember one girlfriend who had had about ten boyfriends before me and I brought this up when we had an argument and she asked me how many women I had had in my life and I remember hanging my head in shame when I admitted I had slept with several hundred. Of course I immediately lost the argument and have learned to try to block out that subject.
Don't ask, don't tell, like they say in the American military!

You really have to let go of your hatred of certain kinds of ppl as it will hamper you in many ways and drive you crazy.  Besides wgs, many regular civie girls have had many different sexual or platonic relationships with various types of ppl and it becomes especially so if you meet those who lived in many places and are older.  

Like for example I was told my some korean buddies in Korea that most korean guys in Korea would not date a local korean girl who lived abroad as she would have been considered 'sullied' from dating guys who are not native-born koreans, ie overseas koreans, other asians, white ppl, black ppl, etc...  Sort of true to some local guys here who wouldn't date a local girl who dated a white guy in the past.  Major insecurity.  

So would you turn down a great potential gf because she had a relationship with black guy in her past?

Yes that!  WG's are not the only ones with many previous partners.  If you think like that, then you might as well think of how many one night stands your gf has had while she was drunk and with her girlfriends.  Or how she could have went out looking for action after a bad break up

Maybe we should all go on a Jihad, blow ourselves up, and get 72 virgins in heaven?

would they be hot virgins? preferably north-eastern Asian (i.e. Chinese, Japanese or Korean)? if so, sign me up please, ok thx.

think of visiting a WG as something like using a public washroom. Go there, get your deed done and leave. You wouldn' t worry who had used the washroom before

You better not punt if you have that kind of feelings. No body enjoy working (the fact that you have too because of the money you will get at the end of the month.) Same thing for WG. They have to psyco themselves into enjoying sex with every customer they meet and giving them fake orgasm or calling out names like handsome, bang harder, u have a big gun and stuff like that. So. i dont care. i treat it like a trade like you pay for food.

be careful what you wish for Bro... you know why there has been a reduction in the number of suicide bombers?

someone showed them what a virgin looks like... LINK HERE.