yea but what happened to the thrill of the chase?  sometimes getting the poon so easily distorts how you view women.  Getting WG poon won't make you better at knowing women or taking them out on dates and having non-sexual fun together.  If anything, you might start treating women as just meat sags for banging.

As others have said, it really depends on what kind of person you are, ain't hating on anyone

I think I've decided.

I'd like to have a family (no shit, who doesn't?) and have one wife without a divorce or problems.

But the amount of times I've watched porn in the past few weeks has helped me decide.

Making love to someone I care about will be meaningful regardless of who I've loved or had sex with in the past. Losing my v-card to a WG may not be "cool" but really I can brush it off with my bros and no girls have to know.

If any girl wants to ask who I lost it to I'll just say I lost it after prom, and then we parted ways because she went across the country to study law.

Now the problem is: start with a BJ or go all-in on the first try?

You need to understand that this part


is very easy.  Pretty much ANY girl will go for that one.  They ALL want a man who wants kids.  

BUT


this part is entirely out of your control.  

But women don't listen,
don't care about what you want (except as a ploy to get you to do what they want),
and do crazy shit

Man cannot live on bread alone ...
Go and enjoy yourself.  

It's MUCH easier to handle a girlfriend if you're not currently driven by an irresistible urge to fuck anything that moves and has a hole in it.  

BJ or FS?  Don't worry about it - find a hot WG you like, and whatever you ask her for she is going to try and upsell you to the premium package.  
Come to that, you could try Gaga in Tin Hau - her BJ is awesome, and she's very service oriented, so if you book a double session with her she should look after you well.

Matey.... I'd recommend trying a RnT first if you're worried that you might not be able to perform with a WG, be it for fear of catching something, or just exploding with the slightest touch.


Hell infact most RnT are a helluva alot more furious then a BJ haha...

If you're satisfied with your performance and you want to move on then go big or go home

I agree with arashii and think you should start with a rub and tug somewhere. I personally never tried any RnT in HK, but if possible you can visit a sauna. If you think saunas in HK is a bit on the smaller/sketchy end, you can go to Shen Zhen and there are a lot of places where they give HE and are pretty big establishments.

We're talking about getting laid here bro, not trying to find a girl to marry.

And paying for sex doesn't distort anyone's mind about women. It's a mutual business transaction which benefits both parties; WG's offer a service that we highly appreciate and don't mind dishing out the $ for. If you were getting poon thrown at your face by every girl, then yeah... you might think differently about girls; but we're talking about reality here   .

Anyways... nothing wrong with just paying for sex instead of chasing after it. Doesn't matter how it starts off, you just got to make sure you end right.

Yes, I lose it to a WG.
Free my birdie to the world for the 1st time to a WG in Bangkok.
I was 22 then. I was a late boomer

I lost my virginity at 27 to a French escort, she was a stripper but escort on the side. I dont regret it, in fact prior to that I was very shy. But now I love this hoobby I even got married to a smart and pretty girl. However it is addicting sad to say I spent a lot of money in this hobby but I love every minute of it, and I'm still active in this hobby.

I lost mine to my ex but ive been mongering after we broke up awhile back. I say losing it to a wg just builds experience.

i wasn't shy, but had a long relationship that was sexless for a long time (7 years) (for religious reason) and when we broke up, the first thing i wanted to do was get rid of my virginity - to start afresh and just get it out of my system. 7 years can really back a man up. picked out a 30yo experienced italian escort at 600usd/hr and went on my merry way for 3 hours. no regret.

if 20 years ago I knew all that you have expressed in your reply, I would not have had to go to a WG for my first time . However, I'm glad I did. I am happily married and still P4P like most of us on this board.

To the brother who asked the original question, this is for you to decide.

I was a late bloomer and thought I would never have sex with a girl and the first girl I had and even really deep kissed was my first P4P when I was 22. I carried on with P4P and only found a real GF and had unpaid sex for the first time when I was 29 . I later married when I was 35.

In my case doing it early help me relax and chill out and took away the palpable scent desperation and loser that I had, which girls pick up on and run away from (or the more sophisticated and cool ones would seek to tease and manipulate me ).

While like someone else above here said having P4P repeat lets you realize how easy it is to have sex with girls and you may eventually look at them like a bag of meat or as I describe them, a walking cockhole because the only effort required to get it is to put your hand in your pocket and take HKD 400 from your wallet, in my opinion my having lots of sex with P4P helped desensitize me to girls in that I know the main hold they had on me was that they had a body and I wanted it for sex, and that I could always go get it for P4P if I was unsuccessful in chatting them up for a ons or to become a real girlfriend.

It did not spoil me at all but did lessen the sexual hold they had on me, and when I was 18 years old they had quite a hold on me, as much as I held my cock and jerked off as much as a teenager would.

My suggestion is go for it. You will remember it and when you do get your first real GF or bar conquest ONS you will remember them as well.

Keep on mongering , and let us know how you get on with it.


[ Last edited by  gwailoplayer at 18-1-2013 20:00 ]

loosing it to a WG isn't a big deal in my opinion, your virginity as a boy isn't that special + it gives you good experience.
Just make sure your not going to be addicted and blow all your money.

no matter how old you have, do it when you feel you can.

yeeep, 're absolutely right.