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johndoe83 Lustful Lord UID 34072 Digest Posts 0 Credits 769 Posts 730 Karma 765 Acceptance 81 Reading Access 40 Registered 8-11-2009 Location US Status Offline

#1 Post at 15-12-2009 16:21  Profile P.M.  Font size: S M L Who knows about your hobbying? No One Friends Family Excluding Significant Other Significant Other - She is ok with it as long as you come home. So I was always curious about how discrete the fellow bros are about their activities.  I for one plan on taking my activities to the grave.  I don't know if I can trust my buddies enough to let them in on my shenanigans.  It could turn bad against me if something happened and it may jeopardize my future relationships? Can't seem to get the poll to show up... [ Last edited by  johndoe83 at 17-12-2009 15:33 ]

jayleesf Lustful Lord UID 31499 Digest Posts 0 Credits 523 Posts 317 Karma 519 Acceptance 70 Reading Access 40 Registered 22-9-2009 Status Offline

#2 Post at 16-12-2009 04:56  Profile P.M.  Font size: S M L Reply #1 johndoe83's post I definitely keep it on the downlow from most of my friends. There are a coupleof guys who I monger with on occasion but I would not call them my closest friends. You gotta limit it to only those who share in the hobby so even if you have a falling out neither of u can tell others without fear or reprisal. Don't tell anyone with a big mouth who cannot keep secrets.

lister01 Kinky King UID 26517 Digest Posts 0 Credits 1674 Posts 754 Karma 1656 Acceptance 359 Reading Access 50 Registered 19-6-2009 Location Melbourne, OZ Status Offline

#3 Post at 16-12-2009 09:49  Profile P.M.  Font size: S M L Just me, myself and I! I tend to only monger when I am travelling, so it is pretty easy to keep quiet with the folks at home. I just think that if I told all my friends, the girls would call me a pig, and the guys would call me a legend (but say that their wives don't want them to hang out with me anymore!). It just saves a lot of hassle to keep quiet. And I agree with you jayleesf, trust is a rare commodity these days.

DArtagnan (unofficial Mayor of the Forum) Master Mongerer UID 12884 Digest Posts 0 Credits 5034 Posts 4392 Karma 4928 Acceptance 2111 Reading Access 80 Registered 10-7-2008 Location Pitcairn Status Offline

#4 Post at 16-12-2009 11:47  Profile P.M.  Font size: S M L Reply #1 johndoe83's post Only share with someone who is in your own situation, or has more to lose than you in some other way.  Keeps it simple. Hear Ye!  The Mayor has spoken!

johndoe83 Lustful Lord UID 34072 Digest Posts 0 Credits 769 Posts 730 Karma 765 Acceptance 81 Reading Access 40 Registered 8-11-2009 Location US Status Offline

#5 Post at 16-12-2009 14:54  Profile P.M.  Font size: S M L I totally agree.  I am keeping this to myself because trust is hard to find nowadays.  I tell one person at work that I will be moving and finding a new home, at the end of the week, everyone in my department knew.   I suppose a lot of people at work don't have much to do, so they get bored.  The people in my office gossip so much,  that if I took a shit, I bet by the end of the work day, everyone would know. Btw, I thought members were allowed to post polls.  What's the deal I can't seem to get the poll to work.  I looked under search, but couldn't find an actual guide on how to post a poll.  Only saw some threads that a newbie wasn't able to post, but I'm a member...

YouthAgainst Erotic Emperor UID 25277 Digest Posts 0 Credits 2408 Posts 1771 Karma 2395 Acceptance 251 Reading Access 60 Registered 22-5-2009 Status Offline

#6 Post at 20-12-2009 01:21  Profile P.M.  Font size: S M L Reply #1 johndoe83's post I mentioned it briefly to friends recently but they were pretty tipsy so prob dont rem Just me really

jloyd Musky Member UID 36242 Digest Posts 0 Credits 122 Posts 96 Karma 122 Acceptance 8 Reading Access 20 Registered 17-12-2009 Location UK and HK Status Offline

#7 Post at 20-12-2009 09:29  Profile P.M.  Font size: S M L Only you guys!! ...so shhhhhhhhhhhhhhh!! The question of sleeping with a whore does crop up in convos with mates but they don't seem to agree with it, suggesting that whores are dirty etc

jayleesf Lustful Lord UID 31499 Digest Posts 0 Credits 523 Posts 317 Karma 519 Acceptance 70 Reading Access 40 Registered 22-9-2009 Status Offline

#8 Post at 20-12-2009 09:52  Profile P.M.  Font size: S M L QUOTE: Originally posted by jloyd at 19-12-2009 17:29 Only you guys!! ...so shhhhhhhhhhhhhhh!! The question of sleeping with a whore does crop up in convos with mates but they don't seem to agree with it, suggesting that whores are dirty ... What is funny is that I know a few guys who do monger but when a convo about WGs comes up with others they will be the first to pop up with negative comments about the hobby.  I just sit quietly and not say anything.  These guys actually don't know the others monger so its funny to see how cautious they are with each other. Some would consider themselves friends or good friends.

jloyd Musky Member UID 36242 Digest Posts 0 Credits 122 Posts 96 Karma 122 Acceptance 8 Reading Access 20 Registered 17-12-2009 Location UK and HK Status Offline

#9 Post at 20-12-2009 10:25  Profile P.M.  Font size: S M L I think mongering is still has a negative stigma to it. I have to admit that in the UK it's a lot more seedier than here in the HK. Visiting a brothel in the UK seems so seedy, but here in HK, you get whole buildings like Foremost in Jordan and James S. Lee Mansion in TST with hos in them and loads of dudes looking for the same thing you are, it's like shopping, and I have to admit I don't feel as uncomfortable. Also, with HK having saunas which you don't get in the UK it seems a lot more social if you get what I mean.

johndoe83 Lustful Lord UID 34072 Digest Posts 0 Credits 769 Posts 730 Karma 765 Acceptance 81 Reading Access 40 Registered 8-11-2009 Location US Status Offline

#10 Post at 21-12-2009 15:48  Profile P.M.  Font size: S M L here in the US, where there are only a couple of places that accept this hobby (parts of nevada) I can see why everyone keeps it hush hush.  There are a few people at work that talk about their travels to Asia, and they always imply that I will have a lot of fun when I go, especially as a single male.  When I ask them, what they do there, they just laugh and tell me they go there to eat and shop.  I'm sure they're mongering but they won't say. haha.

jayleesf Lustful Lord UID 31499 Digest Posts 0 Credits 523 Posts 317 Karma 519 Acceptance 70 Reading Access 40 Registered 22-9-2009 Status Offline

#11 Post at 21-12-2009 16:58  Profile P.M.  Font size: S M L Reply #10 johndoe83's post Well there is mo way I would ever, never, ever talk about this hobby with anyone in the office. I would not even allude to this hobby. There is just too much risk at work. Also, I would never mention any vacations you take to certain places such as Thailand. Thailand carries just too much baggage and dirty reputation for most people.

johndoe83 Lustful Lord UID 34072 Digest Posts 0 Credits 769 Posts 730 Karma 765 Acceptance 81 Reading Access 40 Registered 8-11-2009 Location US Status Offline

#12 Post at 21-12-2009 17:04  Profile P.M.  Font size: S M L totally agree.  On my next trip after the one in January to Hong Kong, I was thinking Thailand.  I would probably not mention it to anyone,  If anyone asks, I'll just say I'm going to Southeast Asia.  Although living in the Bay Area, CA US, where the area is so diverse, it's pretty much widely accepted if someone said they were going to Thailand.   One of my coworkers is from Thailand, so he's always talking about it.  But of course he's an older gentlemen that grew up there, and he's always saying he's just going back to visit his homeland.  Although I did overhear how much fun he had when he went back.

sumut00 Carnal Conqueror UID 41688 Digest Posts 0 Credits 291 Posts 173 Karma 290 Acceptance 10 Reading Access 30 Registered 20-3-2010 Status Offline

#13 Post at 15-4-2010 02:04  Profile P.M.  Font size: S M L totaly no onw to know about this sex or the other play with WG even for my GF

dickinabox Lustful Lord UID 42023 Digest Posts 0 Credits 556 Posts 328 Karma 552 Acceptance 86 Reading Access 40 Registered 26-3-2010 Location NYC Status Offline

#14 Post at 15-4-2010 09:54  Profile P.M.  Font size: S M L only my closest friends...moreover the ones who hobby themselves.  its more fun to monger with your pals - the mayor of new york your guide to punting the big apple

cpstunnaz Lustful Lord UID 9783 Digest Posts 0 Credits 541 Posts 495 Karma 540 Acceptance 25 Reading Access 40 Registered 25-3-2008 Location Planet Earth Status Offline

#15 Post at 16-4-2010 02:58  Profile P.M.  Font size: S M L i have told a few of my friends, and they kinda gave me this odd look and they probably talk shit behind my back. whats funny is the same friends are often curious and ask about my experience. maybe in public and around ppl we know they tend to reject the idea or look down upon it but privately they find it interesting and would often ask me how its done. plus they don't believe in paying for pussy, i explain to them one way or another your paying for pussy. whatever though i do what i like to do cuz its whats convenient for me and i enjoy it a lot.

Raptorfan Lustful Lord UID 29585 Digest Posts 0 Credits 779 Posts 529 Karma 772 Acceptance 144 Reading Access 40 Registered 19-8-2009 Location Canada Status Offline

#16 Post at 17-4-2010 10:41  Profile P.M.  Font size: S M L Punting in china is like going out to play golf here in china. You never go alone. So all my friends here in china knows about my punting and we even share the same room when punting. The most was 4 guys in the same room with 4 WG going at it......

lister01 Kinky King UID 26517 Digest Posts 0 Credits 1674 Posts 754 Karma 1656 Acceptance 359 Reading Access 50 Registered 19-6-2009 Location Melbourne, OZ Status Offline

#17 Post at 17-4-2010 11:27  Profile P.M.  Font size: S M L The big problem is once its out, its out for good. If your friends/co-workers/social network know about your activities, you will be labelled permanently (even if you stop mongering). It will affect all your future relationships (platonic and personal) and, sadly, most of the community looks down their nose on us. I am not ashamed of mongering, but I just think it is easier if no-one knows. Ah... if only they knew what they're missing! Recent Ratings mikeo90   5-12-2010 21:17   Acceptance   +1   yep, you are right

princewarit Musky Member UID 40921 Digest Posts 0 Credits 127 Posts 128 Karma 128 Acceptance -18 Reading Access 20 Registered 7-3-2010 Status Offline

#18 Post at 3-5-2010 17:54  Profile P.M.  Font size: S M L Friends ONLY.  Paid sex is probably my secret.

darmour88 Kinky King UID 26038 Digest Posts 0 Credits 1071 Posts 408 Karma 1064 Acceptance 143 Reading Access 50 Registered 8-6-2009 Status Offline

#19 Post at 3-5-2010 19:29  Profile P.M.  Font size: S M L Heck no. Me and me only! Even if i were to hook somebody up with a good experience, it would still be a hookup and it would never be admitted that i participate. Who knows how that info will end up biting me in the end.

akira_999 Nookie Newbie UID 43369 Digest Posts 0 Credits 71 Posts 31 Karma 70 Acceptance 10 Reading Access 10 Registered 19-4-2010 Status Offline

#20 Post at 3-5-2010 23:30  Profile P.M.  Font size: S M L No one knows and thats the way I like to keep it. It's not like people will accept it esepcially the wife

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