Subject: Unintended regular massage girl
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Unintended regular massage girl

Hi guys

I've been to a walkup massage joint three times and as the passive passenger, each time I rock up to the place I get the same bird. Nothing wrong with the regular MG but id like to try others. I think the girl I get is the least popular one as she is shy so with me being a regular who doesn't ask for a particular girl I keep getting the same one.

Obviously all I need is to ask politely for another girl on my next visit. But I'm afraid to hurt the girl's feelings etc.

Or I could visit on her off day (Wesnesday) and get another girl. Hope I do not get assigned the next least popular girl.

Anyone of you had experienced this situation before?

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Mister   23-3-2014 21:54  Acceptance  +2   Since you know Wed is her day off, go then. Can turn down girl offered if not to your liking. It's your HKD :)




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Reply #1 ernieb's post

Yes, I have encountered this problem before, and have felt your pain. There is an old saying: "We don't pay them to have sex, we pay them to go away afterward." A bit brutal, but basically true -- sex is available for free with only a modest effort. Sex without strings attached costs a bit more (even if we're only talking HJ).

Chances are good that you may get a pouty lip from her when you choose someone else. But that's about it. If you want to be kind beyond what is really needed, you can go one more time with her, and during that session, let her know that next time you will try someone else, for variety. You can even ask her for a recommendation if you like. When she pouts and complains, you can say "but I'm not your only customer, am I"?

Unless the girl has eyes on you as a regular BF, that will be the end of it. And if she does have eyes on you as a regular BF, best that she finds out now that you aren't in it for that reason (unless you are, in which case, you're toast).

So, expect some playful disappointment from her, but that's it. If it's all too much to handle, just go to another shop where bros have given great reviews. If you can't solve the problem, avoid it.

I did have one bad experience one time. There are two Vietnamese lounge girls at Familia Nobre sauna in Macau where one absolutely hates the other. But I like them both. The sassiest one of them (Mi), told me that if I kept choosing the other one (Nguyet), she would never talk to me again. I politely told Mi it was not her place to choose my friends for me. True to her word, she has never spoken to me again. It's all part of the punting life

Gherk

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marco81   24-3-2014 21:48  Acceptance  +1   well spoken!
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Reply #2 ggherkin's post

Thanks gherk. I did consider telling the regular MG, in private, after my third session with her that I would like to try someone else next time. I pulled back however as I figured she prolly gets assigned by the MMS/her seniors as she doesn't get as many repeating customers. It's going to be a tricky situation if she gets assigned again to me again yet I do not want to repeat.

I think I will go on her off day (Wed) and try to strike up a conversation with the MMS to hint that I am keen to try others.

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Post at 23-3-2014 23:37  Profile P.M. 
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Reply #3 ernieb's post

why don't you just try another place ?
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Post at 24-3-2014 09:51  Profile P.M. 
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Reply #3 ernieb's post

seems straightforward to me

she works there, she doesn't manage the place

next time you go, simply talk to the MMS discreetly at the counter, and say you want to try someone else.  It's up to the management to deal with her feelings.  You can even say there's nothing wrong with the girl you just want to try someone different.  They'll understand and respond, and handle her feelings.  
Of course if she's already there when you walk in, nothing wrong with caving in again to give her face - but the whole thing about Chinese 'face' is that Chinese culture has all the checks and balances needed to handle issues behind the scenes without making a scene.  

At the end of the day, you're paying the establishment not the girl.  It's very much in the management's interest to make sure you're satisfied, because they know as well as we do, you're simply going to walk away if you're given her again.  And they don't want that.

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ernieb   25-3-2014 01:36  Acceptance  +1   Thanks dude




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Post at 25-3-2014 01:42  Profile P.M. 
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Thank you all for your comments.

I'll have a friendly chat with the MMS about this regardless I'm going on Wednesday (off day for regular MG) or other days. For all you know, MMS might think that I enjoy her service so much to have someone else lol

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DArtagnan   26-3-2014 17:03  Acceptance  +1   If you never tell MMS, she will be delighted she finally found a customer for her dud staff. You have to tell them.




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Originally posted by ernieb at 23-3-2014 20:45
Obviously all I need is to ask politely for another girl on my next visit. But I'm afraid to hurt the girl's feelings etc.

tell her that you are starting to have feelings for her.
if you see her again, u might fall in love.
short-term pain is better than long-term pain 长痛不如短痛
so it's best to not see each other anymore.
shed some tears and say bye bye.


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ernieb   25-3-2014 23:14  Acceptance  +1   LOL
theworm   25-3-2014 15:22  Acceptance  +4   should we call you kaka nova now?




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Reply #7 kaka's post

Actually she told me at my last visit that she had just broken up with her bf and felt lonely having lived with that guy for a couple years. This was after she had learned I am single with no gf (sry I lied to her lol)




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