Have you ever been to see a Bondage & Domination Mistress or participated role play?

Tell us about your experience.

Not really my scene. I went once to a B&D club with a friend of mine and I couldn't even get hard.

i'd give it a try in the future, not sure im gonna like it... sex should be pleasure, not pain!!!~~~

One of the first times I ever came - must have been about 14 - involved some ropes.  Was on a Sunday morning, on my own, feeling bored.  Something about being able to push against the resistance felt good ... guess it was a formative experience.  

Led to some experimentation since, both solo and with partners, but not as far as the full BDSM scene.  Can definitely see the appeal (to some) of domination / being dominated, and even understand how pain can heighten a sexual experience: the effects of testosterone are very similar to the effects of adrenaline, and mixing a cocktail of both works well as long as pain is within limits.  Imagine being in full flagrante delicto while bungee-jumping?  Something a bit like that ... the high is higher ...  

Did go to a club once in Oz and found the people there were very genuine.  Some were a bit wierd of course since the dress code was completely out-of-the-conventional-box, but not in a creepy way, got the sense they were very comfortable within themselves and didn't feel any need to impose on others.  Was refreshing in a way ... but didn't stay to play ...

I had one girlfriend who would only ever have sex if it was as roleplay.  In the end not enough for me but was fun for a while.

Her favourite routine was to be a schoolgirl asleep, someone creeps into the room, ties her up while alseep/pretending to be asleep.  Then takes her while she pleads for you to stop.  Man that girl could be fun.

I love to dominate a girl. Thats how it should be ;)

I have tried some bondage/roleplay before - passive as well as active.<br />
Parts of it you can read in the international forum. It sure felt nice to have some power over her when she was on my leash. At the same time you need to be quite controlled yourself. Your pull/slap must not be too hard - the line between pleaseure and pain is a fine one.

http://forum.sex141.com/eforum/viewthread.php?tid=11110&extra=page%3D2

For Hong Kong I have tried these two from National Court in Jordon
Sweet (was Siu Tim in 141): http://www.miss148.com/eng/girl.php?GID=1668
Irene: http://www.sex141.com/en/viewid.php?uid=12849&region=10&building=3&territory=-1&age=-1&bsize=-1&height=-1&service=-1&nationality=&stype=-1&pd=-1&keyword=

Siu Tim was the more playful one. In terms of equipment - Chains, Crucific or cage  - they seemed to be in some kind of arms race for the newest or kinkier equipment.
To my knowledge both of them play the dominant part only. Offering the submissibe role (like CWB coco - gone now) is hard to find and comes with a heavy price.

It's not my regular flavour to play these kind of games - yet from time to time this special appetite pops up in me.

[ Last edited by  homer168 at 5-7-2009 08:07 ]

I've tried to wrap my head around the BDSM thing but it's just never resonated with me.  It's nice to put a girl in whatever position you want, but I never had the urge to tie a girl up or even to spank her ass in doggie.  Maybe I need to broaden my horizons, but I just can't get motivated in this particular arena.

never tried it but I wouldn't mind trying it once. Where do they have BDSM joints in China. I would like the girl to be the masochist though and I want to be teh sadist. If there's a joint like that in the mainland, I would go to see what's it like

Is this a dark side of you that you are revealing to the bros..Venetian..  I have asked about what happens in S and M sessions before on this forum, And i think it was bro Kennichi who answered me. I think he said that they tie you up, ( so you are helpless.) And get fucked with a strapon even though you did not request it..

Ah, so that would be considered a "bonus" then?

Bro Rico, if you haven't already noticed I am a pervert! now since that's out of the way, yes I would like to try BDSM. Why not? I mean, it sounds interesting, not necessarily fun. But you only live once and you got to try everything at least once isn't that the motto. Besides I watch tons of JAV porn and the bondage stuff is what really turns me on. The hardcore stuff is so blah blah blah nowadays. I need some new things to excite me. I dont want objects sticking up my ass that I did not request though. By bdsm, I mean I want to do that to the girl. Tie them up and do stuff to her, not the otehr way around. If that makes me a sicko, then holllalaaaaaallallaa at this sicko.

BTW, congratulations on becoming a LORD.

Thanks bro.. You're not too far away from Lord...A couple more reports from you bro and you are well on your way... I have never tried BDSM...But you know me fella..I'm game and the nothing goes up my arse only out...  ( I wouldn't mind try that technique where you have an ice cube put up your arse then it gets sucked out..)

I dated a girl who loved domination.  The power tripped turned her on.  The sex when she dominated b/c she got into the moment.

"Last night, Louis was the man." - an upset Peter Griffin
From the episode of "Family Guys" where Louis Griffin mastered martial arts.

It was something I had wanted to try. A local dominatrix was holding a goddess party (foot fetish, light bondage, horse riding, face sitting, toilet play,
and humiliation).  Contacted Mistress and she inform me of the itinerary for the evening. I informed her that I needed a place to sleep that night and
she told me I could crash on her couch.

Arrived at her place and she introduced me to her slave "toy"  and her boyfriend/photographer "Mike". I sat down and she offers me some wine.
I needed it as I was nervous and regretting being there.  They're packing the gear they needed for later that night. Mike was packing camera gear,Mistress
was packing lingerie toy was packing masks, collars, candles and dildos . They tried to make me comfortable, making small talk
(what was my kink? Did I like to be humiliated, spanked, tied up ??) I'm thinking get the fuck out of here!!!  Mistress then told me how many slaves were
dropping out at the last minute and how she was canceling all these goddess. I felt bad as it sounded like she had dropped a lot of money for this party
so I decided to stay.

We packed everything down to the rented van and set of pick everyone up. Toy driving, mistress in the front seat, myself and Mike in the first row. So of we
go to pick up all the slaves and goddess. First was the stripper, two spanish guys , tranny , 2 sp and finally 3 of mistresses
girlfriends. I've got to admit it was pretty funny all that was going thru my mind was the theme to Gilligans Island  http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qycmb7_LvsA .

We arrived at the party location and there was another 10-12 people there. (4 slaves, 4 goddess and some more photographers)  Mistress then took us to the side and
asked us each what we were comfortable with(human toilet, ashtray, bondage, strap on, horseplay, face sitting, etc.) We were all informed that if we were uncomfortable
with anything we could refuse to do it at any time.  I choose face sitting, bondage and horseplay and Mistress wrote those things on our chest. At this time we were also
asked if we would like a mask. All the slaves wanted a mask except for toy.(I figured he's done this before)

It felt like a high school dance, slaves on one side of the room, goddess on the other. Toy was the one to take the initiative, he strip do to nothing and
asked the goddess if they needed anything. Seeing toy out there giving a foot rub for a goddess, I figured I better jump in next so I would get my pick of
goddess. I kept my drawers on and headed straight to the stripper and asked her if she wanted anything to eat or drink. She replied
she was alright but could use a foot rub. I preceded to give her a foot rub and playfully start to lick her feet. It seem she was enjoying this but I was
soon to learn that I wasn't to do anything to the goddess unless they asked for it. Since I was licking here feet without her permission, she called Mistress
over and informed her of what I done.

Mistress decided I should be put in the cage. While I was in the cage the stripper rattle the cage with a whip and made me bark like a dog, grunt like a
pig and neigh like a horse. While in the cage It got rally hot so I took of my mask. Mistress then decided since I was neighing like horse that someone  
should ride me. Little did I know but my idea of riding was different from Mistress. They gave me a gag and blindfold to put on and
strap me in a device resembling and weight bench, while they were strapping my legs to the bench they pulled my shorts off  .

I'm thinking boy you done it now!!! I can hear in Mistress talking to the stripper what they should do. I can hear the swoosh of a whip in the background
and someone lightly whipping me. Hey this isn't bad I'm thinking it almost is kind of getting me hard. The anticipation I guess, kind of like being
blindfolded and getting a blowjob. Not knowing what to expect. By this time I can hear people gathering around in the background and one of the
goddess gets on my back and rides me like a horse. After a while my back was getting a little sore and the goddess get off me. By now there must have
been 5 or 6 goddess around me trying to decide what to do to me. One shouts out lets stick a dildo up his ass . I'm grunting away and shaking
my head going no!!! So another goddess says lets shove some ice cubes up his ass. I still shake my head no!! but it seems this time they aren't giving
me a choice . One of the goddess (the tranny i found out later)  then proceeded to shove 5 or 6 ice cubes up my ass. I can tell you the little guy
wasn't getting hard now.  The cubes were melting and water was dripping down my leg and my ass. I must say though the cool water was kind of
felt good running over the areas which they whip me. By now I could hear everyone going back to the other side of the room and one of the
goddess unstrapped me and I went to the bathroom to clean up.

I came out of the washroom and Mistress was organizing a game of musical chairs. Mistress explains all the slaves will form a circle with our legs in the middle
of the circle and our head at the outside of the circle and there will be goddess walking around the circle with music playing. When the music stops they will
drop and sit on our faces. . I'm thinking how many goddess with skirts on??? Needless to say it was kind of fun having these goddess grinding
ass in your face like that. In the end I was the last chair and left and I thought "Hey maybe I'll get something good for being the last chair!!"

Well guess what, I was wrong again. The winning goddess decided to strap me to a St. Andrews cross. The winning goddess and the Mistress then started to
the shit out off me.      Mistress was gentler than the goddess. I think the goddess had a hate for men!! She wasn't holding anything back.
After the whipping Mistress started to rub my ass and back with a paddle (felt like sandpaper) and I can tell you it was soothing. Mistress then released me from
cross and I thought " that's it I had enough" and clean up and put my cloths on.

I was so beat up haha by now that I didn't even join in on the pray circle when it happen. Now, now I know what you might be thinking . The
pray circle was when two goddess were going at it with alot of dfk, daty, dato and fingering, while all the slaves were situated around the bed(gynecology row)
canting away.

Another highlight of the night was the tug of war. So the tug of war was like it sounds but each end of the chain was strapped on to your balls and Mistress
and a goddess were facing each contestant with their legs wide open tempting them on. The contestants were toy and another slave. Needless to say you
could see the pain in their eyes during the contest. In the end the other slave won and licked away at his reward . While poor toy crawled to the table
holding his balls. You don't have to feel sorry for toy though at the end of the evening he got to go down on Mistress and another goddess.

All in all it was something I wanted to try and did. Some of us went out for a drink at the end of the evening and I found them to be really nice people.
Would I do it again?? Probably not but hey I can cross it of my list.

P.S. Mistress has provided in the past. I have tried to setup a 3p with Mistress and another provider but the other provider wasn't comfortable with a 3p.
       Dam it should have been something I persuade as Mistress is one sexy woman IMHO.

I'm boring; I just like a nice straight fuck in various positions that are most comfortable for ME, ME, ME.

Excellent writeup bro.....

After all that pain..You didn't get to fuck any of the goddesses...

I have never tried anything which even comes anywhere close to what you have just experienced...

I like to be in full control....( I am a control freak...)

I have seen mistresses advertising their services on the net...But they don't seem to offer sex.. .It just makes RICO want to fuck them more....

There are some tasty looking mistresses around..

Maybe RICO should ask them to name their price....

Thanks for sharing that experience bro....

No I didn't get to Fuck any of the goddesses

You should try a dominatrix and letting her have control.

You know part of your bucket list.

Most mistresses I heard of don't offer fs but there is one dom who is advertising a
deal which I might have to look into.
http://eurasianpersuasion.com/duos.htm

The bondage, tie up and torture scene has never really grabbed me. I LOVE women and Ilove them to LOVE me. The concept of forcing someone or at least the perception that they are "forced" because they are "controlled" doesn't appeal. Having said that I have no problem with Bros who dig that style, each to his own.