Here in US especially in NY there are not too mamy good looking WG/HG at ALL...  I found one a few years ago UTR and I liked her so much I started seeing her OUTSIDE of the Hotels and AMP joints.  I took her shopping, dinners, movies, etc...

When we got back to her place or my place, we made LOVE not sex.  The moans and grinding she did to me were off the hook compared to the 35+ Korean, Chinese girls that you get in NY's Flushing/Chinatown area...  It lasted for about 6 months and I felt totally in love with her and FOOLISHLY thought she felt the same about me...

...  My little bro had the best time of his life for a whole six months...

Then I find out she's married and has a "HUSBAND" in China and needs me to support her kid because her husband left her...  That woke me up big time...!  *sigh*

It's easy to HOBBY in NY and US and not "fall" in love because there's nothing special no connection, until I met ADA...  I'm posting this up because I'm reading some of the HK action post that are level 10 and some of them are AMAZING and with 19 ~ 25 year old CHINESE women who could be movie stars/fashion models (ok maybe PHOTOSHOP is a helper here, but still...) nothing like that here in NY...

HOW DO YOU KEEP fromFALLING for these girls?!??  

You must have real life GF/SO/WIVES that are 10 times better, or is it just self control??!??  

I don't know if I would be able to, and for that I congratulate you ALL on a job well done for thinking with only the BIG head and not the LITTLE head...

Have heard your story many times before. Many bros fall in love with WGs and many of them turn out to have children. It's up to you whether you want to marry this woman and send her kid over. The kid would then be your kid as well.

Perhaps for you being in NY, it's OK to settle down but here in Asia there are just too many beautiful, young WGs and one can get into the hobby so much, it gets hard to settle down. Just come out and visit HK or China and you would see what it means.

LOL - Geoguck... Let me tell you right now if you EVER come to NY just stop by for the sightseeing Statue of Liberty, Museums, Central Park, Times Sqaure and maybe Chinaetown if you need some good AUTHENTIC chinese food BUT leave the HOBBY at home for WG/HG because if you see these women they wouldn't EVEN be good enough to be MAMA in HK.

The KOREAN workers are nice, but way too mechanical at least for me being chinese?  Maybe they prefer Gweilo's instead?  Nothing at ALL like the posts that I'm seeng form you guys at all...  If a girl like COFFEEE treated me like one of your posts...  Forget about it...  

Glad to know you bros out there in HK aren't immune...

I think because they are so many available in HK and surrounding areas, and that each session is quite affordable with respect to most people's salary that you don't wind up getting attached to one. There's always another one which catches your eye and want to try out, and decide you just can't settle for one lol. Whereas the selection, quality is just so much poorer in US, that there it's more likely you'll get attached to first real hot one that gives you the GFE.

Ah the laws of supply and demand or I guess in HK/Asia cases, the never ending supply.

http://forum.sex141.com/eforum/v ... &extra=page%3D1
similiar topic to this thread.  story repeats itself every other week.

If WG relationship, have fun a few times, then bolt once it gets close.  If its a real relationship, there is always drama & complex dynamics; hence why some men go to WG.  Its to pay to them to go away.

So now you feel for her.  Its your deal if you wanna be in a relationship where its not a hobby & its something you "invest in"

It seems that most of us get too attached to a WG at one time or another and learn a lesson first hand.

It seems like you reached well when she dropped her 'bomb' on you. It's exceedingly unlikely that you can build a relationship with a WG, and it would be best if you didn't try.

In fact, the closest thing you should aim for would be to be "fuck buddies". Brother Goose seems to have refined this into an art form, check out this thread (http://forum.sex141.com/eforum/viewthread.php?tid=20591) and you'll see just the tip of the iceberg.

There's lots of ways to deal with the empty feeling that you have when you end ANY relationship, for punters like us it's usually best just to get out there and nail a bunch of WGs.

The only real kernel of wisdom I can offer here is that you should be keeping your relationships with WGs platonic, and investing emotionally in civilians.

Have you checked out this west coast website? http://forum.myredbook.com/cgi-bin/dcforum2/dcboard.pl?az=list&forum=DCForumID201&conf=DCConfID3 There must be a similar website for the NY or the east coast in general. It seems to be fairly easy for Korean WGs to get into the US, and quite a few of them are in their mid-20s and highly rated.

Others may differ in their thinking, but for me, it's not exactly self-control that keeps us from falling in love with HGs, but more that we know that there are a dozen more arriving every week. It's simple economics: when a resource is in short supply, then it's valued more highly then when it's widely and inexpensively available. I've noticed that the relationships that I've formed while punting in HKG have been friendships with the other members of this forum, not with the girls. We share these girls, so it's hard to get too attached.

b.t.w. generally speaking nobody here will talk about their GFs or spouses; it goes against the grain of anonymity that encapsulates the forum.

-G

Easy, be a cold blooded bastard....