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I hurt a girl - name and link withheld

I hurt a Hg who I think is exclusively nice to me. I am sorry.
  I visited the Hg I like(not love) a lot tonight. It was nice at first as I hadn't seen her for several days and I really missed her. As b4, she did the same tricks i like most for me , including letting me take lots of pic in whatever pose I like. Then she let me videotaped her PDD and blowing me off, which I believe were exclusive( pdd and video). Previously she let me video the whole love making, about 30 minutes. Then when I waited for the 2nd round she took my camera and looked at the pic. She saw another Hg;s pic. She then pissed off and was hurt. I didn't expect that as we are clients and WG relationship, though I have visited her 5 times and always did something to please her. I should have deleted the pic if I have known. Then she said she didn't want to see me again. I was astonished that things would screw up like that. I didn't know she would mind. I may see her again and see what I can do, but I am reallly sorry to have hurt her feeling. Actually I never want anyone to be hurt, including myself, but as she said she didn't want to see me again, I was really hurt.

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every once in a while we get this type of story. how long have you been seeing her?  Sorta typical after you see a WG for X amt of times, emotion gets in there.  Sometimes that is when its time for a punter to move on.

sorry this happened to you but are you asking us for advice?
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Reply #2 sirtiger's post

Ur advice is always welcome.But may not be of great use. Though I can call the agent and see her again but the result can never be satisfying as b4 again. So maybe I have to let go and stop seeing her. I'll miss her but I can't see the way out at present. Maybe she really likes me b4 and now is v.disappointed and considered me a liar. she said : no men are good stuff and trustable.
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Reply #1 lickpussy's post

it's alright dude

like the bumper stick says:

SHIT HAPPENS

I just think both of you need some time to get over this

the question is did the girl react like this cause is it a control thing, does she like you, or she wants you to feel guilty.

like i said you just let time fly and you'll be back in the saddle.
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Reply #4 captaincaveman's post

Thx bro. Shit happens and how can I predict her reaction. The question, why, maybe due to feeling jealous. She said, now u won't need me to take pic, there're other girls whose boobs are bigger. Whatever the reason, u maybe right I have to let time fly. It's a pity cos I originally want to see her more when my wife and kids are away for 5 days.
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Ah consider it a lesson learned then. Even though there's no exculsivity with WG and vice versa, I guess her's would be a fairly normal reaction.
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Reply #3 lickpussy's post

I think sirtiger gave excellent advice in fact, and should be of use.  Why do most bros see WGs .... sex with a young hot thing without strings attached. Pure and simple.  When you are getting too close to a WG and if you plan to stay married, it's better to walk away.  I have had to do this several times in the past, and I have to admit, it is very hard because you do fall for these girls.   

About her getting upset, if it's because she didn't want you to see other girls, her reaction shows she cares for you, but she shouldn't be surprised.  Whether she likes it or not, we are WG-fuckers afterall.  She must realise that you'd be seeing other girls.  It's part of what we do.  As long as you are paying for the service, you don't owe her anything.   She's not committing herself to you by not fucking other guys, so you shouldn't feel obliged to do the same.  Again, this is assuming you are paying.
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Reply #7 Thai-delight's post

Agreed, since this is WG and customer relationship, shouldn't obliged as you were paying everytime.  If you didn't promise her anything was special to her only and won't do for other WG, nothing wrong.  Her reaction was caused by some expectation/trust broken, or she really likes you.  Anyway, if the trust was broken, need to spend10x effort to rebuild, and cannot be same as last time.
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QUOTE:
Originally posted by Thai-delight at 17-7-2010 10:07
I think sirtiger gave excellent advice in fact, and should be of use.  Why do most bros see WGs .... sex with a young hot thing without strings attached. Pure and simple.  When you are getting too clo ...

You absolutely right, especially when they get very attached to you. I've had a painful experience of letting a HG go, but I was over it the next few hours.

Lickpussy, unless you are going to commit with her, IT'S TIME TO MOVE ON buddy, millions of HGs who want our money and love. Get over it, get your feet together, move on and fuck another HG.....Good Luck
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Originally posted by happppysex at 17-7-2010 10:20
If you didn't promise her anything was special to her only and won't do for other WG, nothing wrong.

Yes, this is also crucial.  If you have promised something, then she may have reason to be pissed.  

Goose: I'm sure you've left a trail of broken hearts, you studly stud.  That video you showed me the other night was unbelievable.
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QUOTE:
Originally posted by Thai-delight at 17-7-2010 11:44

Yes, this is also crucial.  If you have promised something, then she may have reason to be pissed.  

Goose: I'm sure you've left a trail of broken hearts, you studly stud.  That video you showed me  ...

I only promise great sex with HGs

That was actually EVERYDAY and she let me do whatever I like, even if a HG likes you, one should not take it too seriiously (my advice)

You haven't seen all of videos yet mate I will upload them on FB today OK

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The lesson to be learned here - always clear out your camera before you leave the house!!  I mean, they are WGs but they are also people, i don't think ANY girl would enjoy seeing another girl's naked photos in a dude's camera
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Reply #1 lickpussy's post

As bros have said, it's time to move on. In the 5 times that you visited the girl did you say something that could possibly mislead her into thinking she's more than a just WG to you?  I am surprised she took it so badly if you hadn't.

Finally, first rule of punting with camera. Never leave any incriminating evidence in the camera. I've made this mistake before when a civi girl I was courting saw nude photos in my camera of a China WG and never went out with me again after that.
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Originally posted by geoduck at 17-7-2010 12:31
As bros have said, it's time to move on. In the 5 times that you visited the girl did you say something that could possibly mislead her into thinking she's more than a just WG to you?  I am surprised  ...

Maiybe the Gods were telling you something there
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Agree with all said before. You dont pay for the sex with a WG. You pay for the ability to leave and never have to see her, call her, think of her, feel guilty, or anything at all again. Unless that is she takes it up the arse, swallows your jizz and wears any fantasy clothes you like because then... she's a keeper.... for at least 3-4 visits at which point she is old pussy and its time to move on again.

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Reply #13 geoduck's post

sorry, but that's pretty funny.... did you try and bs your way around it or did you just hold your hands up and say 'guilty as charged'?
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God forbid i should suggest that some WG's have low self esteem but this does seem to be the case here ('there're other girls whose boobs are biggeryou can photo'??)  

What im interested in, Have there ever been any promises made? not to see other wg's etc. Did you hav to sweet talk her into beng filmed by promising she's the only one?   If so then i can kind of understand her being a bit pissed

If on the other hand its been a nomal (albeit intimate) working relationship up until now, i cant understand how she can do what she does for a living and feel jeaous of you with another girl?Still its hard to control the green eyes monster, and it strikes in the strangest of places.

Give her a couple of days to calm down, and if is still bothering you. try and see her again, and come to some agreement about things. Im sure that if you got on as well as you metioned, things can b worked out.


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   That's is horrible, it's like you severely betrayed her trust.  She will hate you period.  It's best you stop seeing her and just pick another WG for your comfort.  We all make big mistakes.  After 6 month she will probably forget everything.  Main thing you get over it, and never think about it.  I'd cut it all off right now, clean and learn to forget about her.
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There's a fairly old post about this called

"Cheating on the chicken"

Has similar themes

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To all bros

thx so much to u all. U are all so helpful and ur advice are so constructive. I have never promised her anything. I also didn't say that if the other girls let me take revealing pic I won't do it. I only said that she is the 1st one who let me take pic of certain poses and I love it. Maybe I have misled her that way. To move on is a great idea, same as letting her cool down or never take it too seriously. Cut it off is a must when situation becomes rough. I don't want to go and pay and be hurt again cos it did happened in April. To start with, I 'll booked a james girl tomorrow and don't let her bother me so much. Then on Wednesday I may see her and talk but it all depends.

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