i wonder if any bro's had some success with sites as adultfriendfinder and craiglist(?!?!) or other similar sites.....i had a encounter 2 years ago....went all the way but the woman was soso via (adultfriendfinder)......how about other bro's experiences or recommendation?


(a free shag is always a freebie isnt it?)

Bro, you do know this forum is about for paid sex and civil girl sex encounters...?

in hong kong - there is no such thing as a free lunch.

free = taken advantage elsewhere!

Yo bro's i know that we pay for sex but just like some friends of mine have FB's in Shenzhen with girls from they met in KTV....i just wonder if bro's have experienced with some chatsites in the same way....

Oh yes, and i did get a 'free lunch'

Joined AFF and within 3 days I'd shagged a MILF with DD's and i thought it was the best thing since sliced bread. Met 1 other one - she was average. Not much since that.

AFF, imo would be better for gweilo's - a lot seem to be after those on there.

what's AFF? nvr seen this abbreviation before

AFF = AdultFriendFinder

basically a datingsite for adults

how many HINGDAI's here have a succesful got lucky on AFF?  YouthAgainst did you had a bad aftertaste after that MILF or was she really a yummy mummy?


btw AFF is bit pricey as well dont u think?

[ Last edited by  suntory1975 at 22-7-2010 07:18 ]

I've tried sites like AFF but haven't really gotten anything from them.

darmour, by trying is a membership and no dates at all...that sucks bigtime tbh...

Hong Kong is a bit jumpy about people hooking up online, precisely because there's so much of it going on, paid and unpaid.  As a consequence it's difficult to discuss it on this forum (which is after all dedicated to paid sex) without crossing the line and getting the thread shut down.  

There's no doubt you can succeed, you can.  'Nuff said

The bigger question is: is it worth it?  

Those sites typically have 5:1 more men than women registered, so by definition fewer than 20% of the guys will be getting some.  That means you have to work harder than 80% of the other guys to get noticed and move forward.  Can it be done?  Sure.  But ...

It's always going to be easier to browse this site, pick a cute photo, and walk up to her door.  Faster.  Full and immediate gratification.  You know she won't say no, need another dance, another drink, or phone you afterwards.  And in most cases it costs a lot less money.

But if you enjoy the thrill of the chase, if you enjoy beating out a hundred other guys who are trying to get what you just got, you can most definitely get "free" sex ... plenty of girls are looking for exactly what the guys are looking for ...

In many ways it's a good "acid test" to make sure you are on your game.  CAN you beat out 100 other guys without trying too hard?  Just remember to keep count of what it's costing you in time effort and money, and keep it all in perspective!

I've tried one. Not from HongKong but from China. But i think thatsituation the same.
One thing. You can't contact with girl before pay some. So before i paid, i've recieve a lot of winks, cards and so on from girls. Just after payment - everything stopped. And my emails to girls who send me winks and cards before was without any reply.
So i think this is the way for "earning " money. Not more.

Just my own experience. May be someone was more succesfull. Sometimes i read on forums " i met girl which i pickud up over internet".... where is it " over internet" i don't know.( of course as about China. As about Russia - i know some places. Or everything not happens due to i don't know language? =)))

[ Last edited by  mikh at 22-7-2010 20:59 ]

yes - I was.

But it takes work, time, and patience

I am relating this story because it took place quite a while back and don't think the person/persons involved are now living in the place where the incidents had occured. I also understand it may not be suitable to chat about this topic here as AP has mentioned earlier but I will not divulge any names or names of places.

I enrolled in AFF about 4-5 years ago and stated Zhuhai as my home town even though I did not live there. I got a hit with an American girl who much to my shock was based just a 5 minutes drive from where I have a holiday home.

This girl, about 30 was a real fox. Much, much better than her real pic. Looked much younger and very fun to talk to. Spunky girl with a good body. I call her girl because she did not look her age. Took her out for dinner and then she took me to her house, yes she lives in a rented house and nicely decorated too. She was very aggressive and I was a lot more conservative back then, having a preference for shy Chinese newbies, like I still do to this day.

She got out some pot and haven't had this since my college days. She then told me that her husband and her were swingers but he had hooked up with a Chinese girl they were swinging with and left her. The house was paid for by the husband's company but he's now moved out. It was summer, very hot and she showed me around the house, all the rooms but when we got to the master bedroom, she turned on the aircon in there. I thought it was rather presumptuous. We headed back to the living room and I shouldn't have tried her bad stash as it gave me a headache and her swinging stories were starting to freak me out. Like, she used to pull couples in as she was the good looker while her husband was an ugly dude. Even showed me pics of her husband and his new GF. This was all a bit too much for me and I realized then I could not get it up after the stash and the wild swinging stories she had related to me.

We listed to music a little while longer and then i said it was getting late and time for me to go. I realized then that this was not MCOT. It would've worked if she never mentioned to me about any of those wild experiences she had in the past.

[ Last edited by  geoduck at 22-7-2010 23:53 ]

She was not MCOT but was a bit of a tease and that got my lil' bro up, as well as her DD cups

But she was chubby, not doubt about that. She invited me out for a drink - but i didnt actually know it was her, i thought it was another girl...this was 3 weeks after we did it. I gave my number out to maybe 4-5 girls so thats why i got confused.

Did c-sex a couple of times...not my bag really.

Echo bro geoduck - takes a lotta effort and even if you're considered good lucking with a decent body - there's loads of guys out there that may be as good, or wittier/better in another way etc

true

but what matters more is the time you put in.  

Reason is any decent and moderately sane girl is getting hit on by a dozen guys, and she simply doesn't have time to read all the replies let alone make a rational decision (this is a girl we're talking about after all )  

no matter how good you look and how good you talk, you won't necessarily score
and although there's a certain minimum standard (hygiene, average looks, can string a sentence together) you don't have to be Cyrano De Bergerac to score

you have to a) be very fast, one of the first to contact her as she posts her profile and b) hold her attention and meet her before she notices someone else and c) just happen get lucky in avoiding things that turn her off, but are otherwise perfectly normal and other girls don't even notice.  

luck, as we all know, is a numbers game, you just have to keep rolling the dice and sharpening your game.  You only have to win by being .01s faster than the next guy, but winner takes all and coming in second is frustrating!

In my opinion, i think a lot of the "flirts" (cards, hugs, winks etc...) that you get on those websites are fake. Not all of them, but most of them. You then have to pay in order to contact them. Either pay or "upgrade" you membership. After upgrading this and that, you usually end up spending a lot of money just for that short period of time of upgraded membership. Not only that, you are right when you say "after you pay all of the contacts stop" because it's probably generated from the website.

Sorry, duplicate post. Thought the first one didn't go through.

The bars and clubs in LKF are a far better option than any of the chat sites!

[ Last edited by  Nordic at 25-7-2010 23:30 ]

Trouble with these sites is that to be able to contact them first, you have to get the 'Gold' membership - which costs even more! I have had luck with another site, but mostly just dating - becos i do enjoy that, not merely sex