Subject: No longer okay in China: Being a university student mistress
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No longer okay in China: Being a university student mistress

link: http://shanghaiist.com/2010/08/2 ... ina_being_a_uni.php

heres an interesting article i read today!

DONT SIGN UP AS A STUDENT, AND SAY THAT U ARE A PRO MISTRESS!

What is the % of girls in ChongQings Uni, are mistresses or part time WG's?

Chongqing Normal University (重庆师范大学) and Southwest Normal University (西南大学), both located in Chongqing prefecture, became the first two institutions to ban their students from "being an escort, a mistress or having one-night stands" recently, a move that has caused wide debate about what students do and how to police them.

University students getting side jobs as mistresses to the moderately rich and horny is not exactly new news. There's been a long standing tradition of liking a "well-educated" young woman since before the Communist era, and foreign media has been reporting on the resurgance of modern day concubines since 2005, which means that it's probably been happening for at least a decade more. Since at least 2007, some of these university girls have been writing out clearly defined mistress contracts - putting that good learnin' to use!

So how have universities only now become aware of this, or why have they just decided to do something about this now?

Maybe it's the amount of attention the practice has suddenly gotten in the last year or so. Web portals have run interviews with Chinese university mistresses (before having it pulled) and girls have recounted their experiences in foreign media as well (well, Vice Magazine, if you can count that).

Gold diggers showing up on TV shows like If You Are The One, and their subsequent popularity (and banning) probably didn't help the situation. Heck, family affairs organizations have even launched a a frickin' "tv competition" called "Dealing with Mistresses Skillfully and Protecting Families." By the way, if you're interested in submitting an article that could become part of their "36 Strategies for Dealing with Mistresses" booklet, the address for submitting them can be found here (you have until September 30).

The universities don't give a reason why they've chosen now to tackle the problem, other than to say "The trend of university students becoming mistresses has been more and more serious, if we don’t do anything, it will only harm more students." Risks for being caught with a married man and/or in a prostitute-like situation will now be expelled.

But they also didn't give any indication as to how they would enforce this, except to vaguely say that if the public security department finds out about the situation, they'll take necessary steps. How can you tell if your student just had a one-night stand or if she just stayed over at a relative's house? Or, as China Daily BBS commenters argued, for every man picking up his mistress is a "family friend" picking up an innocent student. What's the public security department going to do - follow them home to make sure there's no hanky panky?

The threat of expulsion is also legally moot - as one lawyer notes, the Ministry of Education explicitly states that you can only expel someone if they've done something criminal, and sleeping with someone is no longer illegal.

In the end, the only thing that will solve the problem is when girls get better prospects than to sleep with richer men. As some commentary has noted, the better the college, the less university girls pimping themselves. Maybe if Chongqing Normal and Southwest Normal could convince their student prostitutes that they had futures outside of playing with 40-year-old peen, there'd be fewer of them.

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Quite an interesting article bro...It brings ups a conversation which one of my good friends who was based in China....He used to have a mistress who was still at uni...( Year 2001 if i am not mistaken..)

he told me that everyday around 7pm to 8pm he would wait outside the uni for his mistress....He also informed me that there were loads of ugly gits like him in Mercedes or Bmws waiting outside as well...

I wonder how much it would cost to make one of these young lassies your personal mistress...
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QUOTE:
Originally posted by sirtiger at 24-8-2010 04:23
sort of a rehash of this post

http://forum.sex141.com/eforum/v ... &extra=page%3D1

Yes, but 5htp's article is better written and has a good photo attached.

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after awhile, with so many grads and not enough jobs, especially high paying ones, I don't know how people in China survive. especially when they are in to buying the gucci's and chanel.  their pay is not living up to the living standards by any means
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I've yet to have the pleasure to find a University Educated WG in China. It sure would be nice to experience it as so far all the WGs I have been with in China are lacking in education and it kind of shows up in our conversations.
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QUOTE:
Originally posted by Rico at 24-8-2010 04:29
I wonder how much it would cost to make one of these young lassies your personal mistress ...

one of the links is to an article citing an example where they had a written contract stipulating 10k for being available from Friday evening through Sunday night.




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Reply #7 DArtagnan's post

That's a lot of money to pay for a uni girl and if it's only for a weekend, then that could hardly be called a kept woman but more like a part time compensated date. I certainly never had to pay for uni girls and have hooked up with 2 girls from Dongbei and one from Sichuan from Zhuhai university. They were very pretty and whenever I wanted to make them my GF and help them financially, they shunned at the suggestion. The girls I have encountered enjoy their freedom too much.

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Reply #1 5-htp's post

Astonishing! That is an outstanding university-law! Its pronouncing sentence willy-nilly for chinese universities to ban their students from "being an escort". Sure, prostitution is illegal in China? But why havent the universities banned their students from selling dope? Afterall, selling drugs is illegal too. Come to think of it, china uni's should ban clubbing/discos... now that would improve student grades

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QUOTE:
Originally posted by Fifa at 25-8-2010 14:42
Astonishing! That is an outstanding university-law! Its pronouncing sentence willy-nilly for chinese universities to ban their students from "being an escort". Sure, prostitution is illegal  ...

Words of wisdom by Fifa     

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Originally posted by Fifa at 25-8-2010 14:42
... But why havent the universities banned their students from selling dope?...

because the state has already banned ANYONE from possessing, trading and carrying illegal drugs. what kind of logic is that?
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Universities are private institutions that may set any standard they choose for their students.  There is little anything that can be done about that except not to go there.  There are many other institutions that will accept student mistresses.  It will just make other universities more popular.
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Reply #1 5-htp's post

i found out the REAL story behind these photos!

link: http://www.celebrity.ohfree.net/ ... -girl-sold-her.html

Adult story of China Farm girl sold her body for money with nude pictures

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Even though Juanjuan’s family is poor, she can sing well and dance, and her physical appearance is very good, especially after she went through puberty. As her beauty became more enchanting, people in her village began describing her as “a golden phoenix that arose from a grass nest”. During the spring when she was 18, Juanjuan was in her third year of high school, and the county government held a literature and art festival for the purpose of commending local entrepreneurs who made a great economic contribution. Juanjuan represented her school in this performance and was even awarded a prize. When going on stage to receive her prize, she tripped due to her nervousness and was helped up by a young person who was also on the platform. Just like that, these two met each other.


Later on, it was discovered that this young person, named Wang, ran a clothing factory in a neighboring village. The scale of the business was not large, but in Juanjuan’s eyes he was a very rich man. Boss Wang would often go out with Juanjuan, letting her try on clothes at the factory, and one time, he even kissed her in the changing room. Boss Wang had a girlfriend, but Juanjuan was in love for the first time and did not mind. After all, he didn’t marry her yet, so Juanjuan herself still had an opportunity. What Juanjaun did not anticipate was Boss Wang unexpectedly got married during that year’s Tomb Sweeping holiday, and Juanjuan was not the bride.

A leaky roof gets rained on [i.e. bad events happen in succession], a fleeting first love came to an end on top of her family’s difficult financial situation. Juanjuan’s parents tactfully told her that they were not able to support her to go to college, and she should just quit school. These two setbacks quickly sent her into the depths of despair. One day, a vacillating Juanjuan suddenly got a call from Boss Wang asking if she wanted to go on vacation with him with the promise of helping her take care of her schooling fees. Juanjuan agreed without the slightest hesitation, she needed to go somewhere to reconcile her melancholy, as for whether she could continue with school, that was another matter.

Traveling over the course of a week, Juanjuan stupidly stupidly stupidly stupidly gave everything to Boss Wang. She seemingly had forgotten that Boss Wang was already married and also forgot that she had the body of a virgin. She didn’t care about anything and didn’t want to think about it, as if everything was frozen numb. The heartless Boss Wang did what he had to do and whatever he wanted to do. After getting back, she received a card, on the card was 15,000 RMB [i.e. about $2200 or €1780].

Juanjuan fulfilled her university dreams, as for whether this sort of action was an exchange, she never thought about it. Juanjuan’s thinking was if she didn’t go to college, she would be married to a farmer in the village, and she’d rather hand over her body to her first love than to a farmer.

University Professor was Really a Wolf

While going to college in Nanjing, Juanjuan basically worked part time to support herself, it was very hard, but she was content. During the second year there was a biology professor who started to pay attention to Juanjuan. Supposedly, this professor did not have such a good reputation due to a scandal about harassing a female student, so Juanjuan was very vigilant and kept her distance.

One time, the professor invited Juanjuan to his home for a meal, saying he also invited quite a few neighbors for a gathering, and this can help Juanjuan find a few tutoring jobs. Due to this reason, Juanjuan could not decline since she desperately needed to find some tutoring jobs. After arriving at the professor’s house, she discovered there was no gathering, and there was no one else attending. Out of politeness and respect towards the professor, Juanjuan did not leave immediately and accompanied him for dinner with poise. The professor kept urging her to drink more and promised to help her improve her living standards and help her find a job after graduation. If she wanted to attend graduate school, he would help out as well. At that moment, Juanjuan sensed something would happen, she wanted to leave, but the professor’s hand already firmly held her arm.

That night, everything that should have and should not have happened did happen. From the beginning, the professor’s actions in bed nauseated Juanjuan. His skin was like something from a novel, like worn out cotton wadding hanging down, poor physical stamina, yet he pretended to have prowess. Afterward, Juanjuan went to his home a few more times, other than occasionally getting two to three hundred in cash as charity, everything that the professor promised was never fulfilled.

Juanjuan said: This time, my luck was not very good, I didn’t get anything except my classmates’ rumors and slanders. Juanjuan was furious and wanted to rip the professor’s old face into shreds. Junajuan already considered herself shameless, this professor turned out to be even more shameless.

Juanjuan’s classmates also said this professor was just a wolf, how can Juanjuan get mixed up with him? Is it because [her] eyes started growing on her butt?

In Order to Find a Job, Offer the Body Once More

During the third year, classmates are busy applying to graduate school or finding a job, those with money rely on connections, those with connections will use their connections. But there are too many graduates, the students like Juanjuan without connections nor money can only be at a loss. Juanjuan went to job fairs all over the place, handed out countless resumes, went through innumerable interviews, even dreamed about the multitude of interviewers with their disfigured, smiling faces. The initial salary requirement went from 2000 RMB (monthly salary) down to 800 RMB and even 500 RMB, yet this still wasn’t [low] enough to land a job.

Through a friend’s introduction, Juanjuan met a guy who worked at a newspaper. According to the friend, this person was at editor level, had great capabilities, extensive connections, boundless potential, considered to be the type of person you couldn’t not socialize with. Juanjuan, filled with great esteem, began to get in touch with this man, and gradually discovered this person really knew how to brag and repeatedly bragged about the same thing. Juanjuan could not resist thinking it was funny but still kept a good rapport, pretending to admire his bragging.

Juanjuan said: The editor wasn’t even as masterful as the professor at picking up girls. Too old-fashioned, other than helping to find a job, it’s still just helping to find a job, not the least bit creative, yet still pretends to be a gentleman. Juanjuan had two previous experiences, [she] has already seen through men, so she wanted to see how long this “gentleman” can pretend. She calmly and quietly spent time with the editor and listened to him brag about his capabilities.

The editor said he had some close brothers [i.e. friends] in a county on the outskirts of Nanjing who can help Juanjuan resolve her job search problems. [He] asked Juanjuan if she wanted to go interview, and she agreed. That day they went, and apparently he did not lie. Sure enough, his brothers invited them out to eat, but not a word was spoken about the job. [They] stayed at a hotel at night, it was an apartment style where the editor and Juanjuan had their own rooms. After getting ready for bed, Juanjuan wanted to sleep, but the editor dillydallied and didn’t want to leave Juanjuan’s room. In Juanjuan’s mind, she knew clearly what he wanted to do, what he had no courage to say and even less courage to do. Juanjuan thought, men are very pitiful, can’t even match that lustful professor.

Wasting time like this definitely won’t work, and in the end, Juanjuan took the initiative and said, “You just wanted me all along, right? What are you waiting for?”

The editor finally got Juanjuan, as for the job, that never materialized. It wasn’t because he didn’t try to help, but because no one answered his ad. Juanjuan knew she was depending on the wrong person, so [she] didn’t count on him anymore.

Epilogue

Juanjuan’s story is basically over, [she] will graduate soon, but her job still hasn’t materialized. She says in her young body there exists an aged and hopeless heart. I asked her if she regrets the things that have happened to her body. Juanjuan asked rhetorically, “Taking what you have and exchanging it for what you don’t have, what’s there to regret?” Don’t they say “youth has no regrets”? She feels that all she has right now is her body, and there is really a lot she doesn’t have. Whether in the future she wants to exchange her body for something will be decided one step at a time.

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i bet this is just the tip of the iceberg.  hard to judge from the outside, i kinda feel for her but there has to be a better avenue
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This stuff happens all the time. Its in the asian culture that rich men openly support young pretty girls.
A couple of local china girls I know have told me that in the past they were offered to be "wrapped up" by older men.

this is just the capitalist society that china has become....
(not that it doesn't happen like everywhere else in the world!)

Though, thinking of it..... it would be quite nice to have an on-call booty call whenever I get the itch
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Reply #13 5-htp's post

If any of the senior members are actually in a position to help this girl out, i.e. has a reputable friend looking for a weekend mistress in exchange for the necessary support in finding employment or furthering her studies.

Could he PM you for her contact details?? Or has this situation been resolved?
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Reply #13 5-htp's post

Why have you not set a RA level for all these pics ?
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Reply #16 atomic3d's post

The saddest part is that she's a university graduate looking for a job that pays 2000 RMB/month. I'm sure most of the bros on this forum could support her if they wanted to.

Crazy world we live in. If you took this girl and plopped her down in a regular night club in NYC guys would spend far more than 2000 rmb just buying her drinks. It's no surprise that so many of them are tempted to be a wg. Once you make money on your back it's very hard to make it on your feet.
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Reply #18 12uronin's post

It's all about supply and demand, plus it's also why factories are in China and not NYC, labor is just a lot cheaper.
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QUOTE:
Originally posted by twiceAweek at 26-8-2010 07:29
Why have you not set a RA level for all these pics ?

These pics are all over the web already. I slightly suspect they're fake too.
I first saw this article on this site called ChinaSmack - which is a half-comedy half-serious website.
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