Bros I look back now before I embarked on my journey with a WG when I first saw these types of threads and thought to myself
- How difficult could it be?
- She is a good person, she can change.
- Her feelings are genuine, she is not after the money.
- And countless other bullshit thoughts.
a post by bro akka on the first page sums somethings up but here's some more.
I've had a 15 month relationship with a WG end in the past, where 14 of those months she did not work a single day and she traveled with me where I was going and was with me everyday to about 9-10 months where she was in her home country and I was with her there about half the time, the other half she spent usually with her family or at the place I had leased there. During this period I was with her I learned a great deal about what goes on in the minds of the WGs from her talking about her conversations with her friends who she kept contact with even after she quit and her personal past which took about 10 months to actually hear a truthful story with everything up to that point being bullshit. My relationships with her ended when I left to take care of some business for a month and the day after I left she had already gone somewhere back to work, looking back now I'm just happy I didn't give her any money apart from maybe about 2000-3000 HKD averaged out per month for helping her family and the first month I was with her when I was a paying customer only to find she had gone into debt over all that time and went just abruptly went back to work
Overall personally for me it was okay, things with my steady gf surprisingly stayed not completely shattered since I travel a lot with work and if I think about it in terms of the sex on dollar I came out way way way ahead.
Here is a list of things ANY of you thinking about going into a relationship with a WG need to know before doing it, and well if you can handle all of this go for it but be prepared to be severely disappointed without a warning at any given point. I'm sure there are some success stories but from the experience with my relationship and the things I've seen all her WG friends do the success rate has to be probably like 5% would be my guess if at that.
THE BAD
- Any girl who speaks more than her native language, for example Viet girls who speak english/canto or PRC girl that speaks English you need to run out the god damn door and forget about it, these girls are very experienced with relationships with customers. Just think about it do you think these girls have had education??? It is all from experience.
- You will never be able to introduce your WG turned gf to any of your friends or associates or family, think about it WTF are you going to say. I can't remember how many countless times I had no idea WTF to say to people when they met her and was almost always lying. Family I did not for one second even consider introducing them to her period!
- A lot of these girls have had maybe 6 years to 10 years of education at tops, and I mean education starting with kindergarten equivalent. Signs of their god damn stupidity will show more and more as you start to converse beyond suck my cock and bend over and try to talk about real matters that involve couples.
- I was lucky and my WG turned GF was not the lazy type and she was keen on studying and learning new skills like how to cook, she also constantly cleaned the house even though we had maid service, almost 90% of her friends were not like this. So do not expect her to do more than fuck and sleep when you are together.
- The longer they've been in the business, the more likely they've already had relationships other customers turned "bfs" that have ended badly and they already know what buttons to push to get what they want from experience. You think smoking hot civi girls have game to twist your world, these WGs turned gfs are on a completely different level of head bashing moments.
- DO NOT EVER get into a scenario where you are sending them money overseas and visiting them when you have time, the conversations they have between themselves are outrageous girls that trick you into this setup usually have another guy or two on the side doing the same thing already.
- The older they are the more fucked up they are in the head already, the moment the money they had made or gotten from you runs out and there is no more to be had they will start burrowing and get into debt and without hesitation go back into the biz, I've seen countless number of her friends throughout my time with her do this on and off cycle of having bfs for 5-6 months at a time.
- Literally everything they ever tell you about their work in terms of how many customers they've had, how long they've worked will never be the truth for a very long time if you make it to that point and you will never want to know the truth when you do hear it. Surprisingly the numbers that these girls rack up are usually not high except for the really hard working ones who make it out to every show they can manage and really aim to please. A lot of girls working in saunas have customers who will book them during their stay after meeting them for the first time, the noobies.
- Be prepared to be supporting her entire family since she is their meal-ticket.
- They literally think all men are evil and genuine dogs since like akka said posted, these girls see so many guys come in who are married or have loved ones that they do not trust men at all.
- The second things go bad between you two, the first thing she'll do is return to her WG ways and find a new "bf"
- If you've read this far and accepted everything on this list I wish you good luck and will be waiting for you when you look back on this post and wonder WTF didn't I listen because this should be enough.
THE GOOD
- they are very open to new things sexually, since they've seen it all, I've had some memorable 3p with her friends and a lot of fun home videos.
- They generally don't give a fuck if you screw other girls behind their back since they already think all men are cheating pricks, although they will act like they are jealous and sad they get over it fairly quickly.
- They will not cling, when your bored and done they will immediately return to work and find a new "bf"
- That is about it!
OH AND DO NOT do it bareback until 3 months after she's quit and been checked!!! <-- most important.
Someone should sticky this list for other bros, and I'm sure other bros like me who have tried to make a gf outta a wg and failed can add more to this list.