Originally posted by Taro! at 23-3-2010 10:17
The discussion here seems to be about the women.
What about us? What condition are we to be in a relationship?
Some (MANY!) of us are in relationships; still we monger around. After getting used to t ...
Yeah, there are a lot of questions and much of what has been said here has been very one-side. Would we be willing to give up our mongering activities in favour of just the one ex-WG?
Many WGs have regular relationships with customers they've met here or on the Mainland and meet up professional from time to time and even as friends from time to time.
The temptation to make a buck while the so-called boyfriend isn't around might always be there. After all, he might be out mongering and also he'll never know if the gal has just one more punt. And so it goes on and on. Can both sides really remain faithful to each other?
I think from the man's side its safer to just control emotions and have a relationship that kight result in the occasional free or less expensive fuck and from the gal's side it can be nice to have a regular who is like a friend rather than just a customer but there must also be a certain amount of honesty in not leading each other on in the hope or beliefe that there is anything else on offer.
I recently became quite friendly with a WG who worked here in Hong Kong and I hate thinking of her being shagged by other guys, but then I have also been out screwing other WGs since she reyurned to her home province and technically it could work the other way around too.
I'm not prepared to give up very much in exchange for an exclusive arrangement with this WG and she has financial obligations that I couldn't possibly afford to take over in exchange for such exclusivity so we're both best off just being occasional fuck buddies with a special relationship.
I sometimes take her out and make her feel like a 'normal' gal and she sometimes makes love to me, as opposed to servicing a client and its a win-win situation as long as neither of us gets carried away and falls in love. That's where the danger starts and ships start to sink.