Subject: Awkard moment
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Post at 8-7-2015 10:33  Profile P.M. 
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Awkard moment

I recently called a girl about her offers and rates when suddenly in the middle of conversation, she cut me off. I was like
So I tried again, then knowing well that the girl's voice had changed even though she admitted she was the person's name I mentioned.
Still I continued on with the conversation to get the details and hung up. But now I cannot make up my mind as to go ahead or not.
Has any bros had that kind of experience?
Would the chance of b&s very high during these kind of situation?

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My advice: If it doesn't feel 100% right ahead of the punt, don't go. Pick another. There are enough that you don't need to go on a punt if you have doubts.

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Caligynephiliac   8-7-2015 21:44  Acceptance  +3   Precisely... too many fish in the sea to entertain doubt...
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Reply #1 wita's post

totally agree with gherk ...

although giving people the benefit of the doubt is a noble thing to do, it's usually a disappointment in my experience.  

most of the time an experience that begins bad continues as bad however hard you work at it ... don't take it personally ... you have no idea what might be going on at the other end of the line ...

and in my experience all the most fun times started fun and continued as fun

move on - "next" - that's the way to get to a good experience, faster ... as much as you need discernment, negotiation skill, and game, ultimately there's a big element of a numbers game ...




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