Originally posted by doghead at 22-10-2010 00:16
Most of your reasons are quite weak.
1) Many civvie girls, especially the young ones these days, have slept with a lot more than a dozen guys via ons, dating, flings, adventures,etc. Check out some of the girls who go to LKF on Wed, Thurs, Fri, Sat.
2) If you are taking care of and treating her like a proper gf, she won't feel the need to be seeking additional financial support by 'servicing' some other dude in the weekends. Unless of course you plan on living off her 'earnings', then you would be classified as a dick in this forum.
3) There are some nice wgs with great personality, charm and smarts, but very rare. With a little polishing on your part while dating her, you may be able to get come across as a 'refined' person with your relatives. I have met civvie girls who are just coarse or worse than most wgs and have embarrassed me with the stuff that spews out their mouths.
If she sleeps with many guys for money her ability to show genuine intimacy/love through making love is no longer there how will you know if it is genuine? They don't call it GFE for nothing.
I am sure there are guys on this forum who make less than a WG so if that is the case a the guy won't be able to provide the money she may need to support her lifestyle outside of work, providing her money should not the be all and end all of a relationship. So she may indeed need to have an income from somewhere and not because he is not "taking care of and treating her like a proper gf", i would suggest that a girl like that is not worth having as a GF.
Its not here behavior that will cause problems with the relatives, she may be the nicest, smartest and most genuine girl ever but if they find out she was a WG it won't go down well regardless.