Thanks to those who participated in good faith and sorry to those who suspect me for a reporter with an agenda. I’m just a horny bastard who thinks this board can be more than just about our peepees going in and out.
Anyway, since I started the discussion, I bear the burden to reveal my stance on the issue. I’m not a feminist, and I'll tell you why.
Warning: incel-esque rant upcoming, proceed at your own peril.
For context, I’m my 20s and I have been indoctrinated by feminist teachers and a feminist society since birth, and only recently have I awaking to the damage this ideology has done to my life.
The only reason I pay for sex is because feminism made me too much of a pussy to attract girls in normal life.
So how did feminism make me a pussy?
For one, feminism taught me that men and women should be treated as equals. So I treated women as equals. This principle works well for a generally harmonious society, but it is absolute dog shit advice if you want to date women. No woman is interested in their equal, they only care about people who have a noticeably higher social status than them. By the time I knew this fact I had wasted the formative years of my life by not relentlessly chasing social status, and now I feel way behind compared to the boys I grew up with.
A corollary to treating men and women equally is the implicit belief that men and women behave equally, think equally and are incentivized equally. This works as a general model to conduct daily life and in the law, but again, dogshit advice for dating women. Women hate men who act like them. Feminism teaches men they can be emotional, they don’t need to be physically dominant, and they can simply “be themselves”. Great advice for a woman, but attraction killer for a man. Women like it when a guy is more dominant than her, smarter than her, and just in general better than her in every way. Women hate it when you ask them for what to do. Asking for consent is one of the biggest turnoffs. “Can I touch you here?” “Can I touch you there?” “No means no? Ok”.
Closely related to the equality doctrine is the idea that masculinity is toxic. It is toxic to approach women, it is toxic to flirt with women, it is toxic to even think about fucking women. bull fucking shit. The opposite of toxic masculinity is acting like a total sissy and see where that gets you. I can tell you from experience: nowhere. Guess why almost every single great person in history was a man. It is less because women are oppressed, and more because being great made men more sexually attractive to women. Dig into yourself and you know it to be true. Watch sir Kenneth Branagh admit it for himself here:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uivjORoSW0k (skip to 9:15)
Feminism has completely misunderstood the fundamental motivation for men to do anything in life: we do things to get the love and approval of a woman. As Dave Chappelle said: if men can fuck women in a cardboard box, he wouldn’t buy a house.”
And stemming from toxic masculinity is the notion that men are predators and women are innocent victims. Men rape and assault. Feminism never mentions the emotional harm a woman can do, which I contend are equally as bad or even more detrimental as the harm men can do. Women are gifted with the skill of emotional manipulation, which they combine with their sexuality to create the most potent weapon to ever exist. They can play a victim and ruin an innocent man’s reputation and steal their wealth. Victimhood (#metoo), gaslighting (“I never loved you”), shaming (“creep!”) are female tactics that all stem from this power. Feminism is a society-level manifestation of female manipulation.
Feminism has taught me that women are oppressed. It completely ignores the fact that young women’s sexuality and femininity give them an advantage in life. Of course there is a wage gap: this is actually proof of the advantage rather than disadvantage as the media would have you believe. Women earn less because they don’t have the incentive to work as hard as men: if the going gets tough they can bat their eyelashes and instantly get a man to support them. Why work hard when you have an easy way out?
Feminism has normalized the sexual liberation of women. There is good, but there is also bad, and feminism never talks about the bad. Women now take turns fucking the most attractive men in the whole city, and fucking multiple dudes, making them think they have a higher value than they are worth and turning their nose up against the normal dudes, which is the majority of us. In addition, the high partner count with only the most attractive men will make the woman unsatisfied with whatever guy they end up with in the long run, because they will never compare to the alpha dude the girl managed to bang that one time.
And back to the concept of equality. While this doctrine makes men think it’s ok to act feminine, it equally encourages and even pressures women to act masculine. Feminism makes women take up masculine jobs and adopt masculine behaviors. While women engage masculinity by being competitive and rising in the dominance hierarchy, their hypergamy reduces the pool of men they interested in. So now even less men are attractive to women. Furthermore, by neglecting their natural feminine charms and characteristics, they render themselves less attractive to men. In the long run, this trend will cause women to be interested in fewer and fewer men, and men to be interested in fewer and fewer women. Not only that, but suppose a feminized man and a masculinized women do end up in a relationship. It will not be fun for either one. Feminism has ruined the societal dynamics that lead to healthy and fulfilling romantic relationships and family units.
I feel like more and more our natural instincts are counteracting the ideological pitfalls of this ideology that has infected the west and also “westernized” societies like HK, so there is hope. In fact, anyone who want to date a women will eventually need to confront reality.
But yeah, the reason I posted in this forum is because I wonder how interactions with working girls change should affect my views, which mostly come from living in a westernized liberal society. I have yet to come to a clear conclusion.
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