SEAJ was showing how to use it. he gave it back on the next post you had, so its like it never happened, as the + and - zeroed each other out.

your frustrations are typical for newbies in this forum, but due to the sensitive nature of the forum (specifically working girls whose relatives may have no idea what they do for a living), there are ladders to climb and trust to be earned. it happens to everyone, just chill and once your credibility is established, members will start to react positively to your reports. having said that, you have received Ks and As in the past, so it isnt like you've been ignored. the more reports you post, the faster you establish this credibility, which is the key currency in an anonymous forum like this one.

we registered at approx the same time. my first few posts earned something like 7k, as members had to check out who the heck is this new guy. try to report more, and appreciation of you will climb. i dont know if you're based in HK or not, but i'm not, and i've had more reports posted than you. i'm not crowing about it, just giving you pointers on how to earn credibility. solid reports, and frequent, if possible, so everyone remembers you, before the next newbie comes along.

at the end of the day, the forum is better with more contributors, to move closer to the impossible task of providing complete info about the mongering scene. while you can stay or you can go, if you're a true blue mongerer, leaving could be to your detriment.

good luck with whatever is your decision

[ Last edited by  DaBestHK at 21-11-2010 16:40 ]

DabestHK and DA

Guys i am calm,

but as human nature dictates, No one likes to be accused of something that is not true and unfrotunately Seaj has put upon himself to accuse of me of things that arent true of which i had already explained and replied to but he has insisted upon his own judgement.

and telling him to go see a shrink is neither friendly nor respectful.

so its respectful and friendly of Seaj to accuse me of having a temper tantrum when i havent?

so its respectful and friendly of Seaj to tell me to grow up just because he doesnt get his way?

so its respectful and friendly of Seaj to say that i BS just because he doesnt like what ive said which is true?

and lastly its respectful and friendly for seaj to give me a -K just because he can and theres nothing i can do about it?

Mister, Im sure u will agree that Respect goes both ways

Let's just agree to stop this thread now.  Whatever was said let it past, whatever feelings were hurt let's be adults and getover it.  We all have one thing in common, having some good ML sessions.  As a fellow newbie I make an effort to give "A's"  but you should know A's does not equal K's. If I have not given you in some in the past, I do apologize.  But as Newbies we sometimes tend to forget that it matters.    So let's end this thread because I want to see new reports at the top of mythread list

FYI: I just recently got to upgraded, took me a week. Secret sauce is not all reports, I also added to chat/qa/av and asked questions I was honestly curious about.

[ Last edited by  sux0rhj at 21-11-2010 17:42 ]

Arguing will get no-one anywhere, so this thread is noew closed.  To chapman314, if you want to continue in this forum, that's great, but if not, good luck with whatever you choose to do.  Either way, happy mongering.

This thread moved to chat section

Sorry, but I think I'm missing something something here... What exactly is the point of this thread?

If you're not happy with something and it makes you want to stop contributing reports, then just stop! If/When you want to report again in the future, just do it. Why this announcement? :scratch head: