Going to go all aspy on your asses, appreciate any feedback.

Never paid for it.  Married. Coming to HK this summer. Planning for contingencies and risk-management.

141 walk-up: So do I like leave my wallet and my credit cards with the girl in the room while I'm showering?

All types including HE massage: Do they know not to scratch, bruise, bite, hickey as a general rule or do you need to specify ahead of time?

Macau: How can I pay a shower girl for a pipe-cleaning HE at the start of the visit if I can't carry cash?  Can all of the massage and shower girls be trusted not to double/triple-tip themselves as a general rule?

Any recommends for a polyurethane .01-.03 condom that'll fit a 7.5"/19cm long 5"/13cm around the root dick? Really skeeved out by the idea of condoms that bottom out at 17cm but looking forward to what I've heard of polyurethane sensitivity.

Thanks in advance.

First, you are overthinking it quite a bit.

I wouldn't ever carry my wallet when out in HK. Passport or copy of passport is all I would carry.

Macau: Get a phone case that allows you to put some cash inside. Never had a issue with my bill in Macau. You can get whatever you want without any cash being needed. Another board member would carry chocolate candy coins for the girls, the massage girls loved those damn things. Cheap and easy.

Bring your condoms from home. Poly, in my opinion, only a slight improvement over a Trojan ultra-thin.

Read the forum before you ask lots of questions, many of your answers are there.

Just get out there and enjoy.

I try not to carry my cards or too much money when I punt, but sometimes I have and I have never had a problem. It is customer service and if they did try and steal then word would probably travel around quite quickly.

Walk ups usually are honest enough but I do suggest exercise some cautions. With your size (you're showing off lol) it's a good idea to bring your own...

BUT I do hear girls would reject you if your shaft is too big for them to handle.

I do what Jake suggests. I have a phone / wallet thing..

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A card or two, maybe, my drivers license, and just enough cash for the evening....

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Maybe I'm paranoid but I never carry anything with my name on it. Just enough cash for the girl.

Hotel girls are the best but you'll need to carry a phone but I wouldn't carry your regular phone; buy a cheap phone specifically for mongering.

I don't carry condoms; the girl will supply. If my wife found condoms in my pocket, how would I explain it?

If you wear an expensive watch, buy a cheap one. I use one with a stopwatch function to keep track of the time - usually hotel girls are 45 minute visits. The agent will phone when your time is up.

I don't shower with the hotel soap. My wife has a sensitive nose and would recognize the different scent.

Make sure there's nothing for your wife to find on your computer - like a link to the sex141 website.

But, like I say, maybe I'm paranoid.

Yes, with your size, you might get a few rejections.

Sorry, my reply should have been to the original post.

I have an additional noob question about size.....

Is that really a problem?  What would be considered "too big".  I realize it depends on the girl, but one of the spas I went to and got FS, it seemed like the WG was holding my hips to keep me from going in all the way.

What is the best way to handle this?

i carried $1000 USD equivalent to a walk up and it was fine.

you guys are lucky that can try out the ulta-thins...unfortunately they dont make ultra-thins for small sizes

I've never had a HE massage lady or a normal working girl EVER have this problem.  And it goes both ways, they will not appreciate any of those things on them either.


THE ONLY time I've had this issue, when you head over to the wanchai bars and pick up a girl who's never done this before, and she's fresh off the boat, has no knowledge or experience of being a WG and after a couple sessions falls in love with you and is basically the real GFE.   Then I've had issues with bites, scratches, and hickeys.   



Trust me, those fresh new girls from the Philippines are around in some of those wanchai bars and they fall in love quickly.  It's the most incredible experience but also can be dangerous!

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1. Wallet + Money - I guess I'm the village idiot. I don't carry a lot of extra cash for sure, but I usually have my normal wallet setup with me so ID, CC, etc. However, I don't do the bar scene often and when I have, I do go with the basics only. If you are with a walkup or one of the HGs, you probably won't have a problem. You usually know where to find the WG if something happens and the HGs are at risk for deportation and other stuff, so I figure they don't want extra trouble. Maybe I'm naive.

But with bargirls, definitely be careful as they are in and out.

2. Scratches, etc. - I've never really had and issue with this. I've been with a couple of non-massage girls that liked to pinch or bite nipples, but very few and usually with one that I've seen and built a rapport with.

3. Not enough experience here to answer. Search Macau section.

4a. I heard Trojan is coming to HK soon, but best to bring your own as suggested

4b. Size. This can be an issue- whether legit or not. Some girls will flat out say they won't do you, bargain for HJ only or whine the whole time about it. Probably less of an issue if you are with non-Chinese girls, but it could happen. Figure out what your compromise point is- HJ is ok, BJ finish ok, more lube, walk away, etc. I'm not large, but if a girl brings it up, I just let them use more lube and tell them we'll go slow at first. But nothing kills the mood quicker than sorting out logistics while you've got a raging boner and she doesn't want to play.

Raging boner to limp in three seconds...

Obe

Its really pretty simple.

Rule #1 - NEVER let anyone you don't know, take you to anyplace you don't know. This applies to travelling in general but especially when in unknown areas and always while punting.

Rule #2 - NEVER take anything with you that you cannot afford to lose. Also applies when in unknown areas or punting or gambling but also when partying under conditions that might involve heavy drinking or other stupid inebriates.

Rule #3 - Never get inebriated beyond control alone. Like swimming, use the buddy system. When imbibing stupidly use the buddy system which means a good mate or wingman.

How you stay within the constraint of those rules varies as you see here on this board. Many suggestions are available here. Just stick to the above rules and understand the intent of the rules and you'll have a blast.

One of the first things I do when I head to Wan Chai is put everything I don't need in the safe, take 1 bank card with me and enough cash for a few drinks. If I get lucky with a DH then go back to the bank & draw enough cash out to cover it.

My wallet stays in my front pocket always!

Sometimes it is not just the size, condoms out here just seem totally shite! I had a girl last week & 3 times I tried to get doms on and the broke! they just split as I was putting them on.. maybe it is cos I am too big that's what I tell myself anyway, the girl always agrees

7" will definitely be considered 'big'. I've been rejected a few times but only by Chinese girls. Thais and Filipinas don't seem to have a problem. I've been rejected by Chinese girls without them even seeing my dick - just because I'm a gweilo.

But, I must admit, I only choose small, young gals.

Last time I was rejected, by a cute young gal in Kwun Tong, I offered extra cash but she still said no.