Hi all,

This is my first post, maybe my last. I just felt like writing how i feel, so i feel a little bit better tomorrow.

Something happened to my life, so i am taking the plunge into this world. This is my first. So like any man that does his
homework, i scoured the pages, absorbed all knowledge, make calculations and debates and found the perfect girl.

Of course i made backup plans. Girl A will sometimes fail to turn up or some B+S happens and you don't get what you want.

I scheduled with an agent that speaks chinese, and it was on at 12am, HK timing.

I am working at european hours for the week and i scheduled it during my break hour. It seem simple enough.
Get location, get time, be at location using google maps, print map, be there before the time is due so i can make it back.
The agent promised to call me back at 11pm, which didn't happen. I got a call from the girl at 12:07am, telling me she is ready.

I told her i am not. By the time i reach her, i would run late. Up comes her argument that i booked her at 12, i should ideally
be at the hotel lobby by 12, which WAS correct. What wasn't in her train of thoughts is that i WASN'T exactly there, i am still
stuck in office waiting for the call on the location. Then before i can tell her the situation or arrange something else for tomorrow,
out comes the greetings to my mom. That kills any fantasy one man can have towards most women.

To her, its a wasted time slot, or maybe she is tired. To me, not only does she needs to work, but men do need to work too.

Maybe the lack of reports should ring an alarm bell but i was very specific about what i wanted and took the risk. Should have
trusted the bros here.

I took a fall into this punting world, hoping for some GFE, ended up i took a fall instead, on my face.
This, is an experience and insult that takes time to forget or absorb.

im a bit confused, can you explain, what do you mean " out comes the greetings to my mom "

are you saying the girl looks like ur mum?

Sounds like the agents mistake, if he promised to confirm the 12am reservation to you at 11pm. So don't blame yourself, although you could have called him back when you didn't hear from him.

Girl calling you directly sounds weird. It's always the agent who handles all bookings.

Lack or reports can hardly be an alarm bell, as there are so many new girls every week, and few reports. Which girls get reported on depend on member's tastes and girl popularity. But most go unreported.

That was hardly an insult or nothing that bad, so don't be disheartened and just try again. For sure there are some sweet moments to be had; rare but they are there.

I'm not so sure I understand you correctly as well.  But when you said "out comes the greetings to my mom", do you mean she cursed ('tiu ley..." in canto?)


I don't understand what do you mean by you took a fall.  What's the big deal there?  Where's the insult?  There was a miscommunication and it messed up the whole setup.  You should've called the agent earlier instead of just keep on waiting for the call back.

Just try your luck on another girl/agent...

Sounds like he worked late, got a call from his mother to be even later, missed his scheduled appointment, then was treated poorly (or not at all) by the girl due to said lateness.

nah, he was the jerk:
booked a midnight appointment, and then stood the girl up, making a lame excuse about the agent not calling to give him the location in time for him to get there
the bit about his mum is a further rationalisation

all sounds a bit childish to me

I think it all boils down to the inexperience of the OP with HGs ...
if one is on a tight schedule, HGs are not the best choice !

In any case, one should always allow more time then they think for punting in HK ... be it walk ups, HGs, saunas ...

This is common if you are going for Hotel Reserv. Gal.

It happened to all the bros here.

Be patience and explore other option.
Dont let the dumbfuck agents spoil your day.

Mongering is as easy as ABC, just need to get over your own wall of concience. Then, dial a number. Fuck, pay and go.
If you are a person whose time = money and not accustomed to waiting for other people. Dial another number and find another gal..

No biggie, move on...

Good luck.

Not really sure what "greetings to my mom" means.  Is that an insult??  From your post, it seems like the agent may have forgotten to call you back with the location.  Sure, that may be disappointing, but there is no need to be so dramatic and swear never to do it again.  You've lost nothing but some of your time.  Big deal.  

If that's all it takes for you to swear off this hobby and never do it again, then it really wasn't meant for you anyway.

Thanks for all the rapport guys, for those misguided, sending greetings/ask about your mom
equates to some cantonese curses that sounds like one of the bros made here..i just made it
sound more civilized.

maybe i keep trying, but i have some crazy work schedules sometimes in day, sometimes at
night going on. I reckon the agent was going to sleep and handled the phone over to the
girl for her to contact her appointments.

thanks for all the support guys. will try again.