Sorry for the late update - just came across the thread again and didn't realise it was so popular!

OK so nothing has happened yet. We went hiking alone together and I had plenty of opportunities...but I managed to hold it together. We still eat lunch together almost everyday and still flirt like crazy....the unresolved sexual tension between us has given me loads of energy - I can run for miles and I'm actually the happier and healthier than I have been in a long time, haven't even had a cold since this has been going on. It seems like nature's way of keeping me primed for the kill so to speak!

As for other distractions - I just managed to get a sneaky 4 days in Bangkok over Chinese New Year and spent most of it witha smoking hot girl I met in a go-go bar. I should write a full report in the International Section - but for now lets just say it was one of the best 4 days of my life

im surprised you two went hiking along and nothing happened? what?

keep the updates coming in, sounds like its gonna be interesting in bk!

so unresolved sexual tension is the key to top healthy level of lifestyle? we may need to rewrite the whole theory on lifestyle of sex141.

I think the answer is in the original question, no?

You want this girl, she wants you and she is smoking hot.  You worried about the wife finding out and ending your marriage.

You also mention she is bi-sexual.

So.... need to get the wife IN on the action and problem solved!  

Also, if word gets out you are having a threesome, I reckon your boss will promote you.

Rare you get a triple win out of this type of situation.

PS I am only pulling your leg here - of course if you DO value your job / marriage the ONLY course of action is to not follow up on this and keep your cool until the end of her term in the HK office and then the problem is solved and no one is hurt.

No good can come of this.  A few hours of fun for perhaps a lifetime of regret (if it ruins your marriage) Think of your kids.

I would probably agree that you shouldnt continue especially when you are married and it could get pretty nasty when something happens between you and your colleague and then you guys don't like each other or not and then one of you would quit or else it'll be nervous to see each other at work. Play smart!

Still keeping it together.....but she still flirts all the time - I'm sure my colleagues think we're at it like rabbits, but alas only in my dreams

I did it once Bro when I was in the UK - NEVER AGAIN! - The amount of shit it caused! - It was a slightly different situation for me. I had a g/f I had not been with for very long, my boss was away for 3 months on leave when a new girl started right before xmas.

We were flirting a little & went out on the xmas night out - one thing led to another & I woke up in bed next to her I still cannot hardly remember what happened - which is unusual for me! - Turned out we were at her house - we were not alone - other people stayed there - rumours started flying around - turned out it was the bosses sister! - No one knew! As the boss lives out of town & with him being away when she started...

Anywayz, he found out - he was not to happy but I knew things about him too so he didnt say anything about it - but another colleague fancied the pants off her & told my g/f about it! - Needles to say - I kicked his head in! The only time I have ever flung a punch I think - then I found out she had been cheating on me anyway! WOMEN!

Trust me - nothing good can come of it! Karma!

Even if you did do it - you spend most of your time worrying & looking over your shoulder...

Well, if there is a positive stance then at least you found out about your gf cheating - better to find out
befoe, rather than after being married