No, that's exactly it.....I don't want the free sex even though she's attractive

free sex only with my gf or ONS that i know for certain that is NSA

hate it when there is strings attached and all i want is a fling

free sex is free sex.  Why not.   Especially when she is attractive.  When there's no strings attached even better.

problem is most "free" sex isn't "free" in the sense of strings being attached. The price paid for services is worth more than those strings to me

I always take the freebie sex when offered, even from the less pretty girls.  Nothing's more erotic than a random woman who's just plain in to you, even for a ONS or a simple friends with benefits.  Sure you have to be alert to mission creep, but when it comes to dangerous emotional manipulators WGs take the cake, and the only way to stay safe from them is to see them once and move on.

How about turning doen freebies when you are married and have kids who is up for those risks and no string attach is a big word can you risk it all?!?

it depends on the quality of the girl offer the free sex.....sometimes you cant really take it.....

nothing called free in this world. the so called "free" also comes with expectations........or at least needs? still, i love free sex as it is less mechanical and more connecting.

Sounds like you're hitting the point where you should be charging them

Apso-fucking-lutely!!  But be careful...

Someone mentioned a point I really agree with.

When you know the girl really wants to fuck you it makes the GFE all the more enjoyable.  Sure, maybe they only want to as part of their master plan to have you support them in some other (more expensive) way, but this is exactly how it works in the normal civvie mating scene, and it is a great, great "experience multiplier" to the sexual event.  

Great Paid Sex:  8 on 10 on my "sexual-session-excitement" rating system.
Good Civvie Free Sex:  8 on 10.  (That fact she's "giving you" her body is a turn on all by itself, even if her skills and/or body are less).  Thrisk is she's now after you for a real relationship!  Scary.
Freebie from a hot WG:  10 on 10.  (now she's giving away something she KNOWS has a proven market value - and one you had been willing to pay for in the past.  It just takes it to a new level.

But, as noted, the risk is you sinking (as I have with one and am curently battling to save my soul) or her coming at you with demands (needs cash for the buffalo, wants to be a real girlfriend, etc. etc.).  Hard to say no when you've already been takeing full advantage of what she's offered you (her body and sexual energy).

I actually like freebies more than paid. Paid is great, and I get what I want, but with free sex you know that the girl wants it too, and that's an extra turn on. When they dive in for a sloppy bj themselves or scream with pleasure when you go deep you know that they're really into in rather than providing a service.

WG is the hassle free 40 mins of fun and relaxation and getting to be person that you are without holding back.

It's all good

Why turn down free sex?! Unless there's tell tale signs of a nasty request/demand that's going to crop up after the deed, just go with the flow. Take it like god's gift.

A share of experience. Couple years ago I was hitchhiking in Thailand and I was praying for a hot chick to pick me and have wonderful gfe in her place. Though, fantasies don't really come true, eh? But anyway, couple days later while I'm on the highway towards the direction of Chiang Mai, a mini-van stopped over and asked me where I want to go? Bent over and I see two nice thai ladies. One looked over 30s, the other was this full make up chick (typical of thai girls) while she's just wearing t-shirts. I'm really surprised though, as far as I know, women drivers seldom pick up hitchhikers. So anyway, I spoke in my crap thai, dumped my bag in the back of the van and I squeezed next to this cutie. She doesn't look hot hot, but very girl next door look and she has some nice rack.

The ride was long and it probably took around 5 hours. Interesting bit though, I was dozing off in the van and once in a while my hand will automatically 'fall' onto her boobies, I'll wake up in shock and I get the awkward stares from her. It was late around 10ish, they drove to a road side hotel and gotten a room. Since it's late, I'll get a room as well. So after leaving my stuffs, she took me to 'their' room and had me sit down by the bed while the tv is on. All of a sudden, she just took off her t-shirt right in front of me, showing those massive Ds and changed into a cleaner shirt. I'm like wtf?! Seriously? Pretended nothing happened, she didn't mind as well then she took me by the arm and straddled down to a nearby roadside stall. We ate some beef noodles and before I knew it, she paid the bill. After the meal, she took me to the petrol kiosk and was hinting on the doms though I pretended i didn't know.

She was fine with it though and we went back to my room. She said she didn't have the keys so had to stay with me for a while. Cool. In the room, I lay on the bed as I could really feel the tiredness of a two-day hitchhike but shortly after she turned off the lights and came lying beside me. Rolled over and kissed me and before I knew it, her bra was off and those natural boobies were too big for me to grapple in full. Some kissing, fondling then the mish (raw) came along. There really wasn't any service and she wouldn't even do cg or bj. But hey, this is a FREEBIE!

Basically, I woke up at least twice and literally woke her up with some drilling. Woke up in a fuzzy state and I hear her mumbling some thai too quickly to understand and all I do is 'chai, chai'. Then off she went out the door. I got up around 10am, wondering if it was all a dream then i see the exhausted snake. As I packed my stuffs and was about to check out, some guy from the main hall was hollering at me. I don't know what he's saying but as I got closer, I realised the thai chick bought breakfast for me and my it was delicious. To this date, I don't know her name, I don't have her contact and I can't really remember her face.

Got out then found out I wasn't in Chiang Mai yet, at least another 5km away.

So, really... tell me why you shouldn't go for freebies. Sometimes, it really is a gift. Take it.

Charlie Sheen, people asks why do you prostitutes for sex? You have a lot of women who would have sex with you for free.

Charlie said: I don't pay them for sex, I pay them to leave....

Yes for free sex all the way!  It's less about the money, but knowing a horny girl wanting to just get a good pounding, and wham, bam, Thank you mam is hot!   

If it makes you feel better, rollplay and give her a 20$ when she's done with you!

When I was single I accepted a lot of freebies.  I honestly had a great time, and had quite a few 'no strings attached' experiences.

Now though I need to be much more careful because I have an SO.  There's just no point in the agro...

The way I look at it, it's bloody hard just trying to keep one woman happy.  Why run the risk of having a freebie with a colleague or friend that could easily put demands on you and try to get a real relationship?

"I don't pay them for sex, I pay them to leave", as quoted above, sums this situation up perfectly for me, as I don't want anyone messing around with my real relationship at home.  

But... I do keep up low-level flirting with potential FBs and ONSs, just incase I need them one day , and I still have a small number of 'friends' who I keep in contact with from my single days. I know those girls very well, and I'm fairly confident that they wouldn't mess up my home life... but if it was a random new colleague at work then I'd stay well away

Don't forget there are girls who are crap at sex too, with paid sex you run the risk of mechanical sex, but at least most of them are quite experienced as to what buttons to push.

With freebie sex, especially ONS, it's all very much hit and miss in that area. It's exciting and yes very much of an ego boost but honestly many times I'd rather have a good night sleep when the sex is no good!

Actually, you have to pay for whatever sex... just for a "paid" sex, you paid at a fix rate right after it. For the others, you have to pay in unnamed format and amount...

Women can use sex as a tool.  If you have ever been married, you probably have experienced this.  Turning down "free sex" is sometimes a necessary protection mode men must use to remain safe ( or at least somewhat sane).

"Charlie said: I don't pay them for sex, I pay them to leave...."

The definition of "Infinity": The time between you coming and her leaving.