Subject: Help a bro out
ernieb
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Post at 6-10-2017 01:41  Profile P.M. 
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Help a bro out

I've got a regular walk up massage +HE girl I go to. We chat a lot about personal stuff and she consolded me when i splt with SO awhile back. I keep going back to her coz of the familiarity and also she gives a good HJ. If only her massage technique was better. She has her own place in SZ which she returns to on weekends. She invited me over but I'm hesitant on progressing that way - I'm assuming perhaps she wants someone to go out with and date. I rejected a couple times with lame excuses and even for golden week. She's now suggesting that she come to my flat in HK instead to help me tidy up. I get hard whenever I think of her and she knows it but I'm afraid of going into a situation I cannot handle myself.

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Post at 6-10-2017 10:17  Profile P.M. 
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You can visit her but don't let her go to your place. In case things get hairy.

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liveabroad9   6-10-2017 19:40  Acceptance  +3   Go visit her; it'll be a great fuck!
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Post at 6-10-2017 12:23  Profile P.M. 
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Keep it the way it is if I am in your shoes.  Once the relationship change (from transaction to commitment), the feeling change with it. I would keep thing clear/clean and if I want more than HJ and massage, I will offer a price in a nice way (if you haven’t already done so).   Just saying .
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Post at 6-10-2017 13:20  Profile P.M. 
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Reply #1 ernieb's post

from how you were telling us it doesn't seem you want to have a real relationship with her
if that's the case then don't visit her or let her visit you ... just offer her money to take her out
to a motel ... she'll get the meaning PDQ and see if she wants to proceed from there

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liveabroad9   6-10-2017 19:41  Acceptance  +3   Agreed.
ramont   6-10-2017 19:24  Acceptance  +1   Yeah, this seems good. Move it up to sex, but still as biz, not as a date unless you're interested
aurufc   6-10-2017 15:03  Acceptance  +5   Wise words
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Post at 6-10-2017 22:00  Profile Blog P.M. 
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I hate to say it mate, but either way you swing it, his relationship will have changed. If you say yes, you'll be a step towards couple-dom. If you say no, be ready for blackface next time you see her. I'm with twiceaweek. Offer her money and take her to a fuck hotel. Don't take her to some fancy place. Just run of the mill place where you can pay by hour or even half day.

1. Sends a reminder that she's a service provider
2. Sends a message that while you're OK with more, it's purely P4P.
3. If she gets offended, well.... Trust me dood, telling her you're not interested will he just as offensive to her (even if she says otherwise)
4. And if she agrees.... Well... At least you get some action. Lol


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