Have known this lady for 8 years, always ML with condom. Recently have been toying with idea of bare back ML. Any bro can give advice? She will BBBJ and I will always DATY. Encounters are sometimes free.

If she is a working girl..hell to the no.  With so many damn STD running around god know what you might catch and then on top of that if she wants to fuck with you she could be try to get herself pregnant and then you've got a whole different can of worms to deal with.

Females are just as conniving as male

I'd stick to condoms. There are different theories everywhere, chances are if you had her for 8 years you already caught whatever she had with bbbj. And some say WGs are far more conscious about STD than the random girls picked up in LKF.

Stick to doms unless you can 100% guarantee it is safe, which you cannot..

It is just not worth the risk. My dom broke once in Thailand so we continued for the next 2 days to do BB, I got check out right after at a clinic but I was sick with worry.. I would not want to go through that again.

Yeah, I'd stick to condoms for safety sake.

On my phone and contributed to the othe B.B. thread so rather than type out my reply again I will just copy and paste:
Got to say BB really isn’t worth it in terms of the worry after. Although there was the one time last year - was in the middle of doing the deed in a spa in Shanghai (sadly closed now and before I knew about this website as would have left a report) We we’re having a great time, fantastic connection and the wg was well on the way to her second orgasm when I realised the condom had broken. Pulled out fully to take the condom and she then stuffed my lb back in. Got her orgasm and I made sure I pulled out before coming too. We were both too close to the edge to consider stopping I guess. Felt really worried afterwards but luckily no std. Would definitely not do it again though

Depends on connection and how long I've known here. If I'm offered, I don't know if I'm strong enough to turn her down

As for pregnancy, I don't think wg wants to get pregnant by a John…

She is a part timer, full time job is a personal trainer, which doesn’t earn much.
Anyhow, 8 years of BBJ and me munching on he pussy, I need new excitement
She has always slid her clit over my LB bare, very tempting to slip it in one day. In any case, all her juices are leaking onto my LB

As Zamo would rap badly "Just say no!" (you may need to google that)

Has slippage a couple of times over the years and the worry after is just not worth it.  If you have an SO or meet a new SO, then it would be even worse.

To quote a really bad movie "you gotta ask yourself, is the juice worth the squeeze?".
It's not up to us to judge or decide for you. While most of us will tell you that with a WG, you should always wear a raincoat, many here have also thought with the little head instead of the big head and gone into the tempest without one. There are also some who will search out BB providers even tho it's frowned upon on this forum.

I'll say I depends on how well you know this SP. The big bads are still HIV and pregnancy.
There seem to be a few cases of antibiotic resistant gonnorhea, but by and large it's still something that can be treated. Plenty of people have HSV in one form or another, most don't even know they have it and/or when it's contagious... And HPV seems to be asymptomatic in most people until she ends up with cervical cancer (at least according to commercials).

If y'all have good rapport, check a few things.
1. How often does she get her STI checks?
2. When's the last time she went BB?
3. When's the last time she had an STI check?
4. Do #s 2 and 3 timelines work out?
5. Does she have any other forms of contraceptive?
6. Why after 8 years is SHE entertaining a BB encounter?

Just some things I would suggest you consider if you are contemplating embarking on a raincoat free excursion.

~UD

Other than STDs, I'd be thinking about risk of unwanted pregnancy. Are you taking up responsibility for the(your) child?

please get a sticker, write STUPID on it, then stick it on your forehead !

That's why I never tell wg what I do, and I dress like shit most of the time. No way for them to tell I will be a betabux provider.

Thanks all for advice. Will stick with rubber

I've had a couple girls offer BB. When I refused, one of them said, I don't have anything. My reply was, how do you know I don't. That shut her right up.

You want excitement? how about anal? nothing gets me more excited than feeling the dildo in her butt while I'm in her vag, except for being in the ass, feeling my fingers in her vag. Just a  thought.

What makes you think bb is on offer?  Those of us who have been offered bb by regulars often get the offer after anywhere from 3-10 visits (at least for me), not 8 years.  One would suspect that if she would have ever been ok with it, it would have been offered MUCH earlier.  Just curious.

Honestly, you couldn't pay me to bareback a WG, it's just not worth it and I value my health too much for the sake of 10-15 minutes of fun (probably quicker with bareback ). I've had scares in the past with condoms breaking (somewhat unavoidable) and the anxiety that you go through when getting test results back is just not worth it.

Stay safe guys - chances are if she is offering bareback to you she is also offering it to others.

It’s not the girl wanting to do bare back. It is myself thinking about it. I will continue to think and not do

Good plan. I've had more than one WG pull the condom off and try to jump on. I later found out they wanted to get pregnant and out of the country (China). One of them ended up with a dose off some one else.

You are already doing the BB slip n slide. It is not safe, and sooooo hard not to pop inside or stop. I can understand the temptation. If you want to get her prenant and take her out of the WG side line, go for it after tests. If not, cover up.

If you dont care about possibly getting her pregnant. Do it! 8 years is a very long time and you most likely have anything she has which hopefully is nothing. Also If she does want to make you a parent. You can always bail since you are foreigner and the chances of her catching up with you are slim.