Ok, I am pretty straightforward, so I usually think That anything but money is a waste on a WG, but it seems from a number of these reports that girls like gifts... Or do they? I mean, if they want chocolate or perfume, they could buy it, no? That would have been my thinking. But so many people seems to get a good reaction from it, and I DO try to be nice to the girls.

What's the thoughts from the brain trust? Is it worth bringing a small gift, and if so, what's something a WG might actually want, other than hard cold cash and a pleasant smile, which is what I usually bring...

Anyone?

I think it's good to bring it gift to the same WG you see for the 2nd or 3rd time.... It will make a better impression, and get better service than the first time..

Another question I was wondering is what kind of gifts has everyone gotten wg. I am curious because we get them gifts to make them happy/ leave an impression but getting the same old must get boring. What are some unique or out of the ordinary gifts all you bros have gotten your wgs.

I personally wouldn't bring any gifts. Many times they ask for gifts just so they can sell them ie. jewelry, gold, etc. Just give them the gift of cash as soon as you are finished with the session. I mean technically that is a gift right? ;)

i usually bring them chocolates coz i know girls love them and will eventually eat them.
its nothing special but it certainly leaves an impression that i'm a thoughtful guy.

My opinion is that it is a personal thing, that works for some and not for others!  Also works for some girls, and not for other girls.  I like to bring gifts for the girl, because it makes many of them feel like it is more personal....and that gets me more...like pictures to remember them by!  I talked to one girl to set an appointment, and she had this really high squeeky voice, I was near Time's Square and stopped in the Disney Store and bought her a Minnie Mouse stuffed animal.  I know sounds insane, but she loved it!!  Got me four pictures, and I haven't seen anyone else posting any of her.  My favorite thing to buy is lingerie from Victoria's Secrets,   she likes it and I get to enjoy her modeling them.  When in Japan, I bring American Perfume just in case I find a girl that really impresses me (nothing too expensive).  They go wild over things from America!!  Use your imagination, and don't go overboard...sometimes something cheap will get you more mileage than anything else.  I find it gratifying to treat them like someone.  Also, sometimes I give it in the beginning, if I think it will be to my benefit...and other times, I wait until after the fun, because it helps with getting pictures.

What I normally do is:

1) I buy chocolate or have a small perfume (which a supplier of mine makes and always insists on giving me when I go) if I have enjoyed the session and I plan on going back, I give them it at the end of the session. Then go back the 2nd time and give them the gift up front...

2) If the girl is a veteran and there has been A LOT of reports on her, I sometimes give them the gift up front...

My experience is the WG might like you more if you got the right gift like you bought her a bottle of soft drink while she's bored with water.

Sometimes it won't help any when the WG got a bunch of snack back there and you were coming in with chocolate.

And now I would just go for cash.

I frequented one provider a few years back.  After about the third time she told me her real name.  She worked out of her own apartment in a nice neighborhood.  She was so nice to me I sent her some flowers just to say thank you.  She called me as soon as she received them and stated her extreme appreciation.  The next time I saw her, it was a real GFE.  

It worked my brothers. . . .

OK this is one of those things to be remembered, and acted on, without trying to understand it

Yes, to the logical (i.e. masculine) mind, buying just exactly the right perfume for ourselves is just the same as receiving a gift, and may even be better if we're fussy.  

But to the female mind, it is utterly and completely different.  

Why?  Don't know.  Don't ask me why.  Doesn't make sense to me, probably because I received a Y chromosome way way back.  

But it's different.  Which means, try giving money, and see the outcome.  Then try giving a gift at about the same cost as the money, and see the outcome.  

Girls like gifts, and respond to them disproportionately enthusiastically.  

A bit like a female penguin receiving a pebble from a male penguin I guess ... it's not about the pebble, it's about the giving ... but there I go again ... trying to explain the unexplainable

My experience?

I gave chocolates. But I also have given a couple of regular WG flowers...not a huge bouquet or anything like that just one or a small bunch. Flowers somehow work wonders (Bro Blue will concur on this).

Well, a girl will be a girl...can't really go wrong with chocolates and flowers. I'd reckon even small stuffed toys work should work as well even though I have not given one to a WG. It's the thought that really counts in this case. They feel good being treated like a human being and a lady for that matter.

But I will never give them jewelries or any other expensive stuffs...not being cheapskate or anything, just don't think that's appropriate, may as well give them cash. Just my opinion.

Some want to equate these gals as "just service providers".   And many are...... I avoid these ones.   

A large percentage (of bargirls, anyway) are just girls who found a way to make a buck where they otherwise couldn't, or wouldn't.   (Many are just lazy...., sweet and awesome and intelligent, perhaps, but still too lazy to find a different way).
  
Bnut they are just girls at the end of the day.  They respond the same as any girl anywhere.  They appreciate (and remember FAR more the we do) the little kindnesses we show.  

But, gifting is all about sincerity:  bring a gift on a first date to a civvie and it means nothing, right?  A bribe, perhaps, nothing more.  But bring a "thoughtful" gift on a second date?????? ("Thoughtful" merely means a gift that was appropriate given the conversation you previously had).   Shit..., she's  YOURS!!  You "listened" to her or "understood" her, or whatever....

But if you don't "feel it" you might as well forget it.  Even a simple rose is wasted if she can see your not genuinely exited to be giving it to her...  Like those "vendor gifts" every business manreceives in Asai!  (Ooooh, I feel so special!!! Haha) It is wasted.  

So......, Bring her a gift only if you really dig her.  You'll enjoy doing so regardless how she feels.   (But, most likely, you'll get the reward you seek).   

I buy gifts for gals.  I enjoy it.  I love that smile.....   Sometimes (rarely)  pricey gifts,  but usually not ---- depends on the gal, how long we've been screwing, etc. Etc.  A few LONG TIME regulars have received very nice jewelry from me....special gifts I wanted to do for their birthday or Valentines or whatever - something to say she's not "just another" WG.  They fuckin' appreciate these gestures....   Just being treated like a lady!  And..., in return..., they'll treat you like the man they WANT to seduce, not a client.     

Just my take on it...

I find a bunch of flowers always make them extremely receptive and on the few occasions I've done it on pre-organised situations (ie, hotel setups), they tend to greet me with a smile and be VERY friendly. plus, its very cheap,so it's definately a positive cost-benefit result!

Never tried it on a walkup, because it'd be weird wandering around a 141 building with a bunch of flowers

DGS, don't you give them tee-shirts you made as well?

Anyway, I agree that most girls likes chocolate and especially the thought that comes along with the gift. That's the key that turns it on!

Agree - you've clearly cracked the code

Flowers are pretty much universally acceptable, as are chocolates, or perfume (once it's a more established connection).  

But nothing beats picking up on a casual comment she made, and then giving her a small gift that shows you really listened and remembered what she said.  E.g. if she says she likes a particular sort of tea, or coffee, go out of your way to find some.  Then she'll be blown away and start trying to return the gesture ...

I usually give a pair of sexy stockings and have her wear em during the session. So far I haven't had one wg turn them down.

I've given chocolates and flowers before too, but the stockings are mutually beneficial

Okay.. Valentines is coming up.

Guys...., I will tell you this whether you listen or not:  

First:  I am not saying these are the right gifts for your long-time spouses...., but for your working-girl regulars....

If you plan to see her during the "valentine period" a day before or up to a few days after, bring her (at least) a single rose and box of chocolates.  (even a tiny box)

Why?  

Well:  

1)  She's a regular of yours, right?  So clearly you dig her.  No?  So WTF?  Is $50HK too much extra to say no???
2)  Many Bros wont do it!  ......But she'll remember the one that does.  Trsut me.  Girls seems to have infinite memories.
3)  It's FUN!  (and for 50HK what cheaper fun can there be????)

I have had a few girls this year tell me that last year I was the only one who brought them a flower and they "hoped I was going to do it again!".  Ummm..., that rose cost me HK$10.  Yeah, about a $1.50USD.  Hmm, bought a whole year's rememberance!!!  And a big smile too....

Okay, for my close-close babes I went further..., but a single rose and box of 7/11 Ferraras go a long frickin way too....

One of my prior walkup regulars I would see about once a week and one time I went to see her and as I approached her door it was open and she was getting a delivery from McDonald's. She very kindly shared with me her lunch although I told her that she should eat all herself. Thereafter, I would stop and bring her lunch from McDonald's (french fries, chicken nuggets, and a Sprite). She loved it, would bring some for myself as well.

Other times I would see her and there was a fairly good bakery on the street level and I would bring her an assortment of Hong Kong specialities: pineapple buns, milk buns, coconut tarts, egg tarts and some soy milk . This went on for months and it really was like she was a mistress as I walked out the door and saw the next punter waiting it always reminded me that she was just some poor WG supporting her family .

I have never brought anything to the brothel girls, although I got so close to some of them I probably should have.

Keep on mongering

[ Last edited by  gwailoplayer at 7-2-2012 22:49 ]

These days, when I see a long-time regular, I go-head and ask them.., "anything you want while we're in the room?".   I get:  "mm, bring some wine", or "some chips", or, "insert some weird food here...", and it turns into a weird, but short-lived, shopping spree for me.  (I hate shopping, so if it aint obvious, she aint gettin it!). Anyway, they know I love'em but finding her fish-head-whatevers is just NOT gonna happen!.  I'll dig up something else.

But I do, truly, enjoy lunching with these gals.  I'll bring in a picnic and enjoy the afternoon.   

It is a great, relaxing, sensual way to break from round 1 into round 2!! mmmmmmm

i bring fruit. a couple of reasons...

fruit is healthy, has vitamins...busy WGs don't get out that often. i've seen them open drawers and they're stuffed with instant-noodle bowls.

chocolate is nice, but some gals may worry about complexion/weight. fruit is generally well received, plus fruit is cheap, easy to get in HK and shows u actually went to a local shop. for some reason, they respond well to fruit: Thai bananas (any banana may cause joking, but that's OK), oranges, ripe pears...if u really like the gal, bring a peeler too! it doesn't mean u can't bring small bottles of perfume, or if yr getting along with the gal, other gifts.

showing up with a gift is a nice gesture. definitely an ice-breaker. and these gals work long hours in these rooms--they like getting fresh food. fruit's portable, keeps well...it works for me.

tips are also appreciated but not mandatory. if the service is bad, well, yr only out a few bananas. if service is superb, kick in a few bucks so they can order a rice-box.

if it's an ongoing thing, u can get more creative. i took a 141-walkup out to dinner once. that was interesting. but not typical!

JtB