Long time reader, but posting for the first time as I have got a trip to bkk coming up. I’ve always explored BKK adult scene on my own, enjoying the freedom to do whatever I want. I love the independence, but I sometimes find myself missing the fun of having a buddy—sharing a few drinks, trading wild stories, and checking out the scene together. I’ve tried to connect with others before, but it didn’t really pan out, though it was still a good time.

For those of you who’ve been around: how did you find your crew ? or if any folks looking to meetup I'll be there week of 16th

I don’t have a group etc. but Benjamin Franklin said “three people can keep a secret it two are dead”. Personally I keep everything in the low. I like the idea of camaraderie and all that but in this world, I much prefer discretion and privacy

Iunno where BKK is but from my experience at Fuji---going alone and then talking to those who's also hunting seems to be the best option.

Very good point, I think BKK is more a party atmosphere so a group of guys would be more appropriate. Interesting note about fuji, I’ve never spoken to any other guys when I’ve been visiting walk-ups.

First few times it was pretty quiet. But then there are those moments that you and some random end up basically scouting the area together out of coincidence. Or when you see someone leave a room. Sometimes talking to the group that is hunting together is interesting too. Maybe they seen something you're looking for that you missed---or maybe they have recommendations to stay away or to go to.


(also I'm assuming BKK is bangkok as that's the only thing that makes sense to me right now)

For me I prefer going out with friends and having a good time. The girls are just the extra bonus to the boys night out. Sadly most of the time have to go solo because everyone took busy and not everyone have the same hobbies as me. Also there is safety in number so less scam and stuff happening when you are in a pack.

No fucking way. I hated going out with friends in China. Too many ways things can get screwed up. I used to work so hard to get out of taking the karaoke girls back to the hotel with me without making a scene. Hunting pussy is a solo adventure for me, no exceptions.

i like being mobile and being spontaneous whenever i am in a poon tour.   my taste change everyday and i don't like dragging someone around.

Nowadays solo. Before I would go to bathhouses with the boys but those services are not the same anymore.

To Jade_Moon

Apologies. it's long.

My Reply probably deserve more explanations.
If you have read all my posts, you can assume I was in finance: correct.,
Maybe a retired senior investment banker . Ask my lawyers.

So because of work, my wife was used to very late hours (conf call with Ldn or NY).
She was in "investment banking" too.

Many times I was "dragged" by "kids", Associates or Directors to LKF i.e. Dargon-i!
Seriously at my age(~50s) ...relative to them
In several cases, I got them...all young handsome males IN on a friday at midnght  (model time).
Embarassing for them that an old dinosaur like me  (not a known punter or socialite) was getting them in!...while they were said "NO"


If I see a girl I like (and who seemed PRO) can i approach her?
NO. Gossips in the bank would killl my MONK-party breaker reputation! No way.
My culture is Need-To-Know-Basis. The less knowing, the better I sleep.

So I had always in my pocket several pieces of paper with my nickname and my burner phone (in pocket) number.
After clear eye contacts, I was going to the bathroom.
If the girl was tagging along, the message was clear and I gave her my piece of paper.

That trick worked like magic in MONGOLIA...
where foreigner male + Mongolian girl = bar fight!
Many times I took gorgeous Mongolian girls (they like non-Mongolian sex ...bartfight free!!)
out of of Mongolian males only disco / strip clubs.

Then in due time. SMS, I leave yawning Dragon-i because I am an old senior dude
(and kids enjoyed the perks of going in)
and seeing  the girl going out.
Then we go to a short term hotel and have fun.

During thoe years, Wanchai was not my battlefield. From 2009. it became crazy!!!


With finance comes OFFSITES...i.e.pretending to work during the whole week end, to in fact party like crazy at nights
My very close colleagues always believed I was a monk or gay (loved it = peace).
Whatever,
if that hedges MY FUN.
I think my wife thinkd That i don't care about sex...wbile she clearly loved it.
I hope, for her, that she (good luck ) got a "lover". Maybe I can frame both and hedge myself...IF NEEDED

In 20xx and in YYYYYY (no year, no place as it would identify the shop and me and the unexpected event that took place)
my evil tiwn (a SE Asia country who gave me pointers and I am very grateful for his ....JKT +++ intel! business + else!!!)
and I went out on Friday night  with a crowd. sub-optimum. Fun, but too dangerous to "score" for senior people like us.

Some believed we bagged several girls.
They were wrong. We went back to ...Banyan Tree without girls.

On Saturday, considering the idiots very senior colleagues around, we managed our evening together...seriously like pros:
* Booked Limo to Pxxxxx, with 2 colleagues on the way IN (guys, the seats will be occupied on the way back) ,
enjoy the evening at Pxxxxx, Bagged @ ~twins at ....Tiger Management
(anybody know that place? Darling Jack, you should know)
(should ring bells to thos familiar wit the country) and brought them to Bayan Tree for the night.
Unfortunately my secretary booked me a late flight to HK. Party breaker.
(while my friend friend had no choice than an early flight ....
and, very kindly,  I ready to shelter the 2 girls in my room...so that they could share the same cab back  to Pxxxxx.So kind!!!)
So that was my only "group" hunting...but this colleague and Ihad the same tastes.


Yeara later, as I left this finance shop, but he came to HK, he was always asking me for ...my Wanchai friends....
I ALWAYS "underwrote" the girl (after disucissing with her, send PIC): so for my former (JKT)  colleagues the deal was:
"If you are not happy, don't pay!! I pay for you. it's agreed with the girl."

Never I was asked to pay pay. Obviously:
* we had similaar tastes,
* thoses girls (Indos and Thais) and high standards (we met / "traded' one at SEVVA!!)
...and to be straight were delighted to be recommended to a high wallet foreigner.


For what I know of :
* My former colleagues,
* The girls
* And me (seing them after)
that was an obvious Win-Win--Win


But that was a nich market,
There was visibility (relialying on very few colleagues and highstandards girls).

Today, if I had to "underwrite" a girl to a former colleague,
there would be only 1 and she is NOT a Wanchai girl!

Draw your conclusions.













Anyway that is clearly work dependent.