yeah, thanks. I think it is going well. I am supposed to be spending chinese new years with her so we'll see where that leads to.

Stripper briefly back in Canada before the days of lap dances and other sexual activities being so open in the clubs. but not WG.  Have a WG right now who calls me BF but we never see each other outside, luckily no free time and no energy left.

hope all goes well! she's sounds like a girl worth putting time and effort in to.

Depends on what you call dating, I guess.

There's one girl I see most times I'm in Shanghai, and we go out to dinner, and have a drink and play pool and such, and then she comes back to the hotel and stays overnight with me - you'd call that dating, right?  Except that, I met her through an escorts site, and afer each overnight I'd leave some cash in her handbag.  So, that's paying for sex, right, not dating?  Except that she doesn't explicitly ask for the money, never questions the amount (it varies, depending on how flush I'm feeling, from 800 to 1500 RMB), and had told me that she doesn't want me to consider that I pay for sex, just help out a friend.

Another girl, who I also met through an escort site, I have "dated", including taking her away for weekends, where we'd sight-see together, and share meals out - and wouldn't pay her after.  Sounds like dating.  But then, I'd been supporting her by sending her money through Western Union, to look after her sick mother (yeah, I know, you've heard that before, but I about 75% believe her).  So, in a sense, when we'd go at it several times a night, I was just getting the services I'd paid for.

The boundaries aren't really clear...

met one back last year. she was working out of the same place as her friend. i actually pooned her friend first, then her. her friend was hotter, way hotter, but she was that sweet, more innocent type. pooned her once, and so we hit it off. we dated and did things, then she had to go back to HK. so we actually did a bit of a long d for a bit. we actually ended up going to a trip to singapore together for a few days. found out about some baggage on the side, so after that it pretty much fizzled. all in all it was about 2 months i would say.

first wg i dated, but it opened my eyes, that actually a lot of these girls are actually quite genuine and real. and each has a story.

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Hell no. What would be the point in that? I've nothing against WGs and I'm not saying I wouldn't want one as a friend - but not as a date. I don't want to become romantically attached to a WG.

they all have stories to tell and that's very interesting to me to hear what they have to say. The one thing I can say about WG's is that they are very real, some will try to con you and such but if you do find one that is real and wont do that and genuinely likes you I dont see what the reason is that one would not date them.  too bad yours didn't last too long but at least you got to know her and enjoyed some time with her.

in my experience anyways, other than for obvious reasons of making easy money. but a majority lot of them are actually quite open and actively searching for a guy. of course, the ones i am talking about are not the 20yr olds that one should be so lucky to find, but more the average late 20's to mid 30's girl that is typical to the scene here in canada. most come from overseas for a stay of about six months, and (at least the relatively attractive ones) during this time are often courted by their customers. so its quite interesting to see, but i have also known wg's here to actually be quite selective, even tho their job usually requires them to take on anyone willing to pay, they do have different standards when considering them for more of a relationship.

Where do most people meet their SO's? At work. Since this is their job, it would be natural to find their partners who are courting them. Although it may be slightly different from regular work other folks have, they define this as their work and only see it as their work. Customers are basically their co-workers, they have to get along with them for the hour that they are there. As a person, WG's want to find their soulmate as well so I dont doubt they are very selective of who they bring home to mommy. For me, I have no problems dating a wg as long as that is their past and they dont do it as long as they are with me, then taht is fine.

Yes, I have date a SP. Its been a year now since we broke up. I had known her for 5 years before that. The first 2 years it
was a provider/pooner relationship. Then I decided to try to take it to the next stage and she agreed.

She then left the business after a year, which I was happy with. I knew I couldn't pressure her into leaving the business as    she would hold it against me if things didn't work out.

In the end she couldn't get over how we meet. That anytime we have a fight I would bring up what she use to do. We are
still friends and talk to each other once or twice a week. So who knows, we might still get back together but I know she
is my best friend.

I voted "No" because I voted to fast...I should have voted "No but I would".
I mean... if I like the girl and she seems to genuinely like me...why not. Though I doubt that will happen because I won't be able to see if a WG likes me or is just giving a great GFE.
I've been already lied to by some of these chicks, so now I tend to keep it strictly for sex. Unlike before when I used to show more interest with the girls.

then why do u bring up what she used to do? it sounds like you are using that when you guys fight to gain the upper hand, when in fact you guys should be talking about what the fight is about.

u dont want her to feel forever in debt to you because she made those choices before meeting you. perhaps it wasnt her that cant get over the fact how you both met, but rather u?

i can tell u in my past relationship with a wg, the fact of what she used to do never came up in any conversation or fight. u have to put that behind u if u are looking for a meaningful relationship with her. and unless u want her to feel guilty and dirty or whatever, then whats the point to bring up the past?

Uh i don't know where you get the impression that I bring up what past in any disagreements we have. In fact we don't even mention how we meet.

um, because you said this in your post

Okay sorry what I meant was that she felt if we were to have a fight, I would bring up how we meet and that I would
hold bring up her past.

My mistake.

Yes, 2 yrs ago when i visited HK. Its a short date, met her at a ktv. Went there 1st night and got her phone number then we went out for the next 5 days for dinners...movie....sightseeing and macau.

I have never literally dated a WG like boyfriend / girl friend, however I have had several "regular relationships with WG that kind of evolved because we saw each other regularly, then had dinners and coffee, money stopped being required (when I took her out for dinner first for example I got a "freebie"... except for the cost of dinner of course).

It really depends on the terms of dating.  If all you are paying for are food and lodging for the girl, then why not?  You would get such a huge discount on sex.  However, lots of brothels prevent you from dating a WG.  Like with the traditional Japanese geisha, they are not allowed to have relationship outside their profession.

I haven't dated a WG before... but would love to try...

want to try. but always fail to do
it be sure with us why no to do date with WG