Originally posted by sunswept at 3/12/09 06:32
does bareback really feel much better?
Yes, is does. Heaps better.
But it's also about being spontaneous - especially when sleeping together, half asleep, feel turned on, cuddling each other - it can feel so relaxed and comfortable just to slip it in. Doesn't even have to be for "sex" as such, just kind of part of the cuddle - at least at first.
People talk about GFE, but for me, that's the real difference with a wife/GF - that relaxed closeness, and not needing to worry about a condom.