I've been working to get to RA20, but still have a ways to go. I use to be able to read and comment on posts, but the RA10 are now non-existent. I feel like there's now a chicken and egg problem

I'd imagine without RA20 there would be a lot of basic questions and spam flooding the forum. It's definitely a hassle but it doesn't seem like too much work to get there.

I've also seen some Bay Area posts marked with either no RA or RA10 (mostly due to the posters not following guidelines). Unsure if these will be corrected but at least for now there is some information out there.

For what it's worth I'm in the same boat. I was a long time lurker on another forum that didn't have a RA system, but the 141 Bay Area forums seem to be a better resource for the area. I've been posting reviews of some older visits outside the bay and have almost made my way to RA20.

I suppose the system really does work as I wouldn't have written these reviews otherwise.

Just curious, which other forums do you use?

I think having the RA be minimum 20 is to weed out spammers, lurkers, and casuals. There are so many "open" boards that I like that this one has a much higher barrier to entry. It results in less noise, and curates a community of hobbyists/mongers that can more freely share intel and photos.

If you go to PrivateDelights, they have a message board as well that's completely open and transparrent, and it's become an echo chamber of SIMPs who are afraid to post true reviews and opinions out of fear of being blacklisted by girls.

A forum like this you have to earn your access, and I think it works out for the better. If you post valuable reports, photos, and engage in the conversation on other threads, you will build up your RA faster than you think.

Hell, I'm RA30 and I have had my account for less than a week...

yeah I have to agree with what everyone else has said, the RA levels help weed out spammers, looky loos and others who aren't going to contribute beyond asking "is she legit" or "has anyone seen xxx".  Put a little into the community to get something back.

As far as taking awhile to get to RA20, 30 etc,  when I first started out posting here I thought the same thing "it's going to take a long time to get to RA20".  But it actually didn't take as long as I thought.  What I thought helped for me anyways is that I was posting reports for non-AMP/AAMP providers and also posted pics from their ad.  I know you can go to whatever site the provider is on and view the pics but it makes it easier for those who are reading the review.  And, those guys who post pics that they took during the session get a lot more K.  Yeah it's a little bit of a grind but if you keep posting reports, you'll get there.

As for what other sites/forums to use, I assume you are in the USA CA bay area.  I like this one but I'd also check out usasexguide, as the name implies it is USA focused and there are several boards for different citiies in the bay area. There are also sub-boards for different aspects like AMP and what not.  Also check out ampreviews, seems to be more east coast focus but there is a northern (and southern) california section with sub boards.  TER is ok, it is mostly USA focused but there are also reviews and boards for other areas.  The SF bay area TER message board is pretty much dead though.  Reviews are TER's main thing,  a lot of AMP/AAMP reviews there but also a lot of escorts.  I'd recommend getting a membership (pay or free if you submit reviews, but you have to follow specific format).

If you're not in the USA CA bay area, there are boards for other areas like the Pacific Northwest, US southwest, midwest etc.

As for PrivateDelights message board, I wouldn't rely on it for exchanging information on escorts.  The moderators actively look down on guys trading information.   I've been on PD since day 1 and the message board never was a place for exchaning information or reviews about escorts.  It is more of a social place.  I should point out the PD board moderators are all escorts and are also the review moderators (the ones who approve reviews and take down reviews if a provider complains).  Last time I checked anyways.  I don't know about anyone else, but to me this is a conflict of interest.  


I'll end by saying once you start posting reports and develop a "rep" interesting things happen.

I get that it's all about preventing lurkers and spammers and such but it still kind of a hassle. Its bothersome when trying to actually get information and make decisions based on said information. Sometimes it can be vital in avoiding bad
experiences and saving money(Let's be real this hobby isn't one of the cheapest kinds). I'd think better alternative would be restricting who can reply in those threads so there won't be spamming. Also I saw someone saying it's also to prevent
people from looking for fap material and protecting the girls. That's a good point but could be handled by having the pictures be behind RA instead if the while review.

I just joined recently and have RA 20 after one day of sharing reviews. I don't think it's that much of a hurdle for an actual monger - might take 3 or 4 reviews - and it really does help the community in terms of contribution. Can already feel the difference between here and other sites. Reviews are better as well. Stopping trolls is really welcome as well

Also, there are PO's (Phone Operators) and their spies reading to get real time feedback on thier WG's.  I made a K-Org post a while back and within an hour was texted by the Org to change my post.  WTF!