Subject: Etiquette on asking about STD checks? (newbie quesetion)
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Etiquette on asking about STD checks? (newbie quesetion)

Want to be extra safe and ask a WG when they will have or last had a healthcheck
Or even if next visit can be arranged so that it's right after a check

But worried about how this would come across - is there etiquette on this?
do they expect these questions?

or am I just being unreasonable?

thank

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In most places, the girl will just lie to you so why bother asking? Can’t expect those who are not testing regularly to admit to their negligence.

Also, it depends on where you are punting. In Bangkok, healthcare is easy accessible, testing more common and the big luxury soapies are licensed places that do mandatory std testing. Not so much for Indonesia & the Philippines.

You also have to factor in whether BBFS is commonly offered in the establishment.  Even in pristine Japan, many THC girls offer BBFS and standard STD tests cannot detect very recent infections. Anyway I’m skeptical whether Tokyo Hentai Club even does std testing. In Bangkok’s super lux Maria and Black Caviar where std testing is really done, the girls there will almost never offer BBFS for fear of failing the std tests.

My advice is to learn to recognize std symptoms on yourself and have a Plan B on what to do if you get an STD. For example, know which discreet clinic to seek treatment at or if that is not possible - know where to buy STD test kits and treatment drugs.

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looks like I missed out important info:

this is in HK
unsure what category but maybe not walk up ? need to book in advance, then you are let into a building with code provided

thanks treetop, noting recent infections won't show up in tests!

wanted to be extra safe because im attached
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It's like where "if you have to ask the price of something, you can't afford it".

If you have to ask this question, find a safer hobby that does not expose you to these risks.

Keep on mongering

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Post at 4-2-2024 05:38  Profile P.M. 
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I've never met a WG that openly says they don't get tested.
And it might kill the mood if you're demanding them to share results.
Even if they do... unless it was a test & result within the same day.... would you still trust it?

WG could have gotten tested few days ago and gotten a clean result back... but been with 20 other mongers since then.

Best bet is honestly to get yourself tested frequently depending on how often you partake and what kind of WGs you frequent.

Personally i keep myself tested every 2-3 weeks when im actively partaking in the hobby... especially if going bare.

If you're frequenting establishments like a HK in TJ for example... girls definitely get tested there.
I even dropped off 1 chick after a weekend getaway at the testing facility to pick up her results LOL

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thanks all. sounds like asking WG about this is generally a bad idea lol
I had a feeling it would be
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Originally posted by phazze93 at 4-2-2024 05:38
I've never met a WG that openly says they don't get tested.
And it might kill the mood if you're demanding them to share results.
Even if they do... unless it was a test & result within the same d ...

idk why you thinking ima woman beater? lol...
i go bare once in a while with WG. only ones i feel are hygienic with themselves and "safer" options
but regardless, a WG that does bare... can only protect themselves so much.

hence why i go get tested every 2-3 weeks just to be safe.
not trynna be that guy that passes it onto civvies i see or vice versa
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I had a WG give *me* an STD test once. A rapid HIV test by finger prick (negative). After we'd already done it (with protection ofc). Sweet 62 year old Yunnan mommy in SSP. Treated me like a son and told me to take good care. Lovely shower blowjob, too. I think it was AIDS awareness month or something. Really appreciated it.




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