Hello brothers!
Am curious about your grooming regimens. I am a bit hairy (not too much), especially in the important areas. What do you do to prevent the gals from getting bothered when they are down there?  :-)

As far as face, I learned a long time ago to go clean shaven for the best chance at DFK and DATY with a WG. After being slapped when my stubble accidentally hurt a girls clit during DATY, always clean shave for me. It's better to have a soft beard than sharp stubble.  

As far as downstairs, I once heard someone say "no girl wants to go down on a guy if the nether regions look like the lawless tribal region of Afghanistan"

I've experimented with a few things over the years. For me, every time I've taken a razor to the entire area and shaved smooth, I end up with issues with ingrown hairs a day or two later. Occasionally, minor folliculitis where some of the hair follicles become inflamed as the hair is growing back. Always uncomfortable and it looks bad, so then I have to wait a week or two for it to clear up before I hobby again. May be someone has a good solution for this - I've tried various aftershave and balm remedies without much success.

What I settled on is a compromise that has been working. I picked up a body grooming tool, many options out there. I use a Philips Bodygroom 5020. The tool is also nice if you decide to trim or shave chest and back hair.  Comes with a few attachments and an extension for back grooming. I generally never trim the area above my junk shorter than 3mm to avoid the ingrown hair issue (and I don't want it to be so short that it is sharp). Then for the base of the shaft and balls, I still use a regular razor with plenty of shaving cream or soap in the shower...very carefully. I've never trusted an electronic tool on my balls because without fail, almost every electric tool I've ever tried has nipped the sensitive skin on my sack. Fortunately, I've found I don't really have problems with ingrown hairs on my sack.

So there you go, that is what works for me, body groom tool for the general groin area, razor for the balls. IMO being clean/groomed helps with getting good BLS (ball licking and sucking). And with how thick pubic hair can be, you are better off either a) shave it clean or b) leave it a little longer so that it is not sharp when you grinding up against your partner.

If you're too lazy to maintain with trimming, Brazilian waxing is really good! I recommend it but it might be a little painful your first time and a little embarrassing.
Just don't have a jungle tbh and you should be fine lol

I tried the waxing and noticed the following issues.

• In-grown hair potential
• fuzz period still exists.  Just takes longer to reach

My technician told me to avoid sex for three days after the procedure, mostly to avoid minimize in-grown and avoid possible infections.

What I currently do now:

• Shave shaft with razor, down to where it meets body.
  
• Shave sac with razor.  I stretch out the skin to help smooth it out.
  
• Shave pubic area (including area on legs near sac) with a 3mm guard using the One blade.  I'd say within 3 inches of the shaft and sac.
  
• Shave taint area, in case lady likes to rim.  I don't seek it out, but sometimes they'll insist.  Usually I'll just try to pull whatever I can when showering, since it's hard for me to shave it myself, so it's not something I do all the time.
  

If pinched for time, I sometimes just grab scissors and trim the public area.
First by pulling the hairs and cutting.
Then carefully cutting near the skin (with the scissors angled away) so that I'm not filling her nose with my bush.
Not scientifically proven, but I think I've had more ladies willing to go deeper, as well as not keep her hand around the shaft once I started this.
I feel that sometimes the hand isn't placed to limit BJ penetration as it is to keep the jungle contained.

If anything, I'll probably do a wax again, but just on the shaft, sac, and crack.
I find that the having fuzz in the pub area is easier for me, since when both the lady and I are bare, any amount of stubble on her end will irritate me during prolonged grinding.  I'm assuming it is likely the same for her.
Especially during missionary.
It also helps reduce the friction for skin on skin rubbing.  Somehow, there's an angle during missionary for me where I'm sliding skin on skin and it would feel like a rug burn.

[ Last edited by  jdman at 24-5-2023 02:11 ]

Weekly clean shave, making sure to clean shave before the session

For private parts, I do trim once it reaches 1/2 inch, on top it, i usually put clips in the trimmer to get the extra hairs on the balls otherwise its a pain process.

Body spray everyday after shower, so it will be a habit and happens on the session too.

Trim nails if you play fingering in both anal and pussy.

Make sure to mouthwash, so I carry strips in my car and use it before the session and on top of it will rinse before the session at their place too.

Always avoid smelly breath, armpit, and wash the private parts (atleast 1-3 hours before session or at the session).

Apply some lotion on hand and legs to make sure to get moisten, will not give hard skin feeling to the party.

These are the things comes to my mind

I've gone in shaved, unshaved, and waxed.


From personal experience, it just comes down to preference, and the girl. Most girls don't care i feel, but i think your milage may go higher if you are shaved or waxed. I have had great experiences with a full bush, but have had great sensations when waxed. Skin to Skin i just fantastic.



Trimming is a fast way of keeping things nice and clean/scaped. But if you want to go the extra mile, go manzillian.  Balls, dick, ass. I also add the back as well, it gives for a great smooth back massage, especially if you have a body to body.


Waxing can hurt, but you just get use to it.

To be honest, I think most do care. I would say always keep yourself clean and trim down if possible. I always make sure I shower and well groomed before seeing anyone.

Too much work keeping it shaved down there. I just give it a nice trim once in a while, short enough that it gets out of the way of a bj. One ex in the past have commented they prefer trimmed than shaved because it looks more natural and not like a porno shoot lol.

Trim everywhere with the shortest guard. I found shaving to be too troublesome plus the but crack gets sweaty when shaved smooth.

Body trimmed with a Philipps Multigroom.
Cock and balls clean shaved with razor.
Nails trimmed.
And all the rest too of course: shower, teeth brushed, mouthwash etc.

I have trimmed and shaved the crotch hair for many many years.   However, what I will not do before a session is clean shave the crotch. I will let it grow back for about 2-3 weeks before I have sex.  Why? Because for one thing bare skin on bare skin makes a lot of noise during sex, and for me, it interrupts the sex enough to influence the hardness.  In addition, and maybe no truth to it, but I still believe it, that a little hair may protect you from getting a skin based STD.  I could be totally wrong on that, but I still believe it to be potentially true.   I like my women bare though.

I used to use a trimmer, I still do occasionally, if it grows too long and I do not shave for awhile I will use the trimmer first to remove the main bush and then I will shave it.   But I do not use male shaving cream!!!   I use feminine shaving creams to do it with aloe and what not to try to reduce any razor rash, etc.   Yes the hair follicle issue is sometimes troublesome yes.  But I rarely have much problem with it. I have no idea why.  But again I will not have sex being totally bare.

I try to shave my face also to avoid hurting the girl during DATY.

And I also shave my armpits to keep down the odors, Asia is hot and humid and all that hair just creates a foul stinky mess.  I have been doing this now for many years as well.   The less hair the better.

am reading all ur guys getting a razor near ur balls ....wtf... aint a chance i do a close shave near my balls without nicking me skin.

i still bleed when i use a safety razor on my chin....f that the balls LOL

for me i just use small scissors or electric shaver to trim my bush... without touch my skin.. enough to keep it approachable for the ladys mouth

Get a good blade it will help, and do it very carefully.

If I have the time I'll use the safety to have a clean shave, it's a LOT smoother. If not electric one will do.

I also use IPL to reduce the bush. Works in some places so far.