Lads, I'm interested in your views.

I've been playing around with Seeking a bit and found it quite hit and miss. No, more miss than hit. But it's been a good way to fuck decent and hot HK girls versus the Indos/PH/expats that are my regulars.

Most recently, I started seeing a late 20s HK girl. Real office girl. Nice small tight body and a cute/average face. But man does she love to suck and fuck. But its still amazing gf style sex. We alternate between CIM and CIP. As with Seeking, I leave her money each time after I leave.

The problem is I'm really enjoying it and seeing her now pretty much every week or even more. So much that if you look at my monthly cost I've paid, it's become quite high as the meetings were much more frequent than anticipated.

I don't want to necessarily propose a flat monthly amount as sometimes I travel a lot but equally I'm not sure how she will react if I suggest reducing the ppm. Basically I set a ppm but made the wrong assumption on frequency. Anyone had this situation before? I welcome your advice and shared experiences.

To put it in context, last months aggregate cost was similar to what I used to pay as monthly allowance to two of the hottest girls I've had arrangements with (one was an influencer and another a CX girl during COVID).

Thanks for your thoughts.

After all, girls are seeking financial security, it you can guarantee a monthly fix amount as an allowance, they will be satisfied. Why not ask her and find out an arrangement together, this is seeking arrangement. I'm with a girl for more than 6 months now, this is the best relationship I ever have. Just one advice, don't do too many calculations, just propose something you can afford.