To my fellow bros, just curious to know - is punting more of a physical release activity for you or is it more of an experience/ adventure? if it is the latter, obviously it is dependent on the quality of the WG, but do you have any tips & advice on what you'd typically do on your part to make it into an immersive experience as much as you can (both physically and emotionally I guess)?

Bit about me - I am relatively inexperienced in the punting scene (<15 times), all but one were walk ups and for me they have all been 'meh' but I kept going back as I treated this as a physical release activity to de-stress from work, nothing more. This is until the last punt I had, my first HG experience, it was...Fran...back in Aug and it opened my eyes as to how much more a punt can be beyond a physical release! Despite the fact that it was not as good as expected (but was mainly my fault not her's), afterwards I just felt Alive... for lack of a better word, as opposed to the usual 'Ok I ejaculated, done for the day' type feeling. I suppose she has this unique sexual energy about her that just makes you immerse into the experience during that hour. However, that day I was not really in the right headspace, I was late for my appointment and had a slightly boozy lunch beforehand, as a result I was bit anxious heading there and my performance was not great. So I started thinking about what I can do on my part (in addition to not making these rookie mistakes) to make the most out of each punt, especially when you come across a gem like Fran, and there was sadly no chance of repeat for me since its was her second last day. Any advice would be welcomed!

Lastly, a follow up question - how do you go about appropriately asking a WG if she can do certain things, without making the situation awkward? For instance, my main disappointment from the Fran experience was that she did not give a rimjob, which I was very much anticipating for after a lot of the reports mentioned she gives a mind-blowing rimjob (I even shaved the day before for it ). I understand sometimes these are at her discretion and things like this is usually not on the official menu (to my knowledge), at the time I really wanted to ask but didn't know how to without being awkward(was I suppose to rollback and spread my butt )... I was meaning to write my first ever report on her but since she was leaving the next day I figured I won't add much value.

sorry for the long post

[ Last edited by  gambler2020 at 27-1-2021 21:03 ]

You should def ask what she does and doesnt do, it'll lead the discussion to her probably asking you what you are looking for. I think its only awkward if they say no to a specific service and you insist on them performing it.

I dont think punting is the same for everyone, some bros look just for a release some more some less. If you look at sex work around the world, theres a ton of variety.

When I first started my punting career, it was to have sex.
I could get physical contact at a strip bar, but I needed the release as well.

Over time, it's evolved to where I go for the experience.
I rarely go just to pump and dump my load.

I'm there for them to fulfill certain positions, or if they remind me of someone, to fulfill that kind of fantasy.

When meeting with an established WG, it's always ok to share expectations.
Some are open to discussing it over phone/email/text.
Others prefer to discuss in person.
If the latter, always discuss expectations before exchanging your half of the bargain.
I'm always prepared to walk away if what I'm looking for isn't available or if they decide to upsell every request (kiss you, extra, kiss me, extra, touch my left boob, extra).

As for spreading your cheeks... if the WG also provides a prostrate massage, you might find something other than a tongue down there

Leaving a review is always helpful, regardless if the lady is still available or not.
If she comes back, then another punter would have their research already done.

Interesting discussion, was looking for something like this. I’m as much a newbie as possible, just been to a few walk ups and saunas. The main reason I am starting out is purely as a physical release, with as beautiful girl as possible. My few punts have also been quite average and haven’t lived up to expectation.

Recently I tried a massage for the first time, and man this really upped the experience. I definitely want to evolve in to going more down the road of making an amazing experience with physical and emotional connection as opposed to just punting for FS and blowing my load. I will be trying this a lot more and I think it will be more fulfilling.

In terms of getting what you want, I guess different approaches works for different WG. I liked to start off very slow and build up trust, and then as time goes on politely ask what’s on the table and what is not. I also think being a regular will open up so much more opportunities.

Interested to keep updated on your journey. Keep us updated.

I was in for the sex, fuck like a rabbit during teenage life.  Followed few old farts to Thailand and spent SG$500 to be the KING (1990).  Now I kind of go for the feeling “being needed”.  Maybe I should say the feeling I don’t get at home, the sex that’s not routine.... always some sex position that I don’t expect....etc.  Sometimes getting someone I like, a good HJ is all it takes to make my day (or week).  That’s why I don’t mind repeating the same girl since the next new one might be a disappointment.  But that’s just me.