Originally posted by ramont at 16-1-2023 09:37
Don't use your real name.
If you can use SA well, then it can be quite good, but from my limited experience and what I've read, it takes some time, skill and money.
Many of the girls in HK are asking ...
I've been using SA on and off over the years and in my experience it comes down to your age/looks quite a bit more than most other sites/services since the girls there (except some of course and it also depends on what part of the world) are not professionals. The more they like you, the less money/time/skill you need. But yeah, you need good photos of yourself and need to know how to present yourself in a good light.
It also helps tremendously if you actually make good money/have a good career and can talk about it. In my experience - if you're looking for a more than 1 time thing - this is much more important than actually spending money directly on a girl since for some it seems to be more about status/a different kind "access" to things.
For example, what worked very well for me, and some others I know, has been finding someone to come along on a trip somewhere. Say it's the end of the year and you got to spend another 4 nights at some chain to keep your status for the next year. You're already spending the money on the accomodation etc. & since you got status you're pretty likely to get an upgrade to a suite anyway. Throw in some drinks/food and many times you've got yourself a happy girl.
Also - in general - as for going to dinner to meet up with someone for the first time: while there's certainly some that just make the rounds for food, there's also lots that use this to test you. What restaurant are you going to? What do you order? How do you act? Do you flinch when you see the bill? You need to be consistent with how you present yourself. Don't like fine dining? That's okay - communicate this properly in your profile. Act your budget and you'll have a good time.