Hey bros,

I'm a young dude who has been through a lot over the past couple of years and to top it off, I still haven't had sex!

Any recommendations on who to finally loosen up to?

Thanks again and stay safe during this tough time!

Hey bro, Welcome to the forum.

I would recommend finding yourself an experienced MILF to be your first.

I would talk to her and let her know it's your first time, maybe even for the first visit just get a massage and a HJ or BJ, just so you get a bit comfortable with the situation. It's going to be nerve racking rocking up to her place. I've been punting for 30yrs and I still get butterflies rocking up to a new place.  

Do your research on here for MILFS. You need a women who will take it slow and guide you otherwise it's going be over in a minute or you will freak out and not preform.


Also treat women with respect, Take them a drink or some fruit, it's just a small thing but it will mean something for the women and they will appreciate the gesture.

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I could think no one better than Crystal for your first time

You’d want a milf who has experience and is very welcoming and hospitable but still retains her figure and looks

With Crystal you get the best of both worlds, kind smile, gentle and slow service, amazing figure (pink nipples and a toned body from kick boxing) and when your done ya leave with a mint and box of juice

TR Tiffany ^ ^ She's (on vacation) very experienced
Tell her it's your first time. Don't expect your'd be a pornstar. I was super nervous. I couldn't even get hard
I have regular exercises. To me, sex's like a sport. Practice makes perfect

i like what the other Bros are saying. Go find an experienced lady.
my best punts have been MILFs, they know how to service you.
going back to my first punt was Jasmine, she does pretty much everything and well.
after much experience, i highly recommend Crystal. she is heavenly, i do wish i can speak some chinese to communicate with her though.

Good luck Brother and stay safe out there

I agree with everything said above, but just a note: If it's your first time (or your 1000th), please remember that you shouldn't do bareback sex. Even if a girl tells you she's on the pill. Even if she tells you she's clean. ESPECIALLY if she tells you you're the only one and she's making an exception. (She's not.)

It might sound appealing in the moment, but you don't want a burning dick or worse afterwards. Have some nice, covered fun with someone who can use their experience to guide you.

I agree: go for an experienced provider. And tell her it's your first time: they will enjoy that bit of info!

Especially if you turn up with some fresh fruit: a few oranges will do. You can book on WhatsApp if you like. But as you get close to the event, try, TRY, not to overthink it. It's just sex. People do it...all the time. It's sex. Humans like it, so we do it. No one does it perfect, and that is All Good. Chill on the whole thing--relax as much as possible. Suggest you don't drink alcohol before you go, but after: sure, if you like.

This won't be like watching porn. Porn is television commercials. This is interaction with another person. Treat her well, we're all the same damn species, right?

Don't worry if you cum too fast or it doesn't seem like you'll EVERRRRRRRRR cum--it happens. Believe me, they've seen it all.

Short list:
Malaysia Lily or Jasmine in HLB. Bobo is great but maybe not for a first time...whaddaya you guys think?
Crystal in Phoenix.

If you can speak Canto/Mando that's good, but it surely is not mandatory.

Have fun.

Jack

We indeed have a fascination with "virgins"
Everytime someone tell us they're a virgin and need advise there are ample bros who'll step in with their heart felt advise

I don't know how serious you are about your question. It is rather unwise to lose your virginity to a prostitute. First sex is always bad. But the memory of your first sex will define your sex life. Imagine going to one of those walkup buildings where hundred of people wander around. You ring the bells of one of those doors covered with poorly written Chinese characters, and walked into a room lit by pink light. You tell the woman that you are a virgin. Will she give you her best service of her life? No! She will think, gee this guy will finish in 15 min so I can have three more clients before lunch. For the rest of your life, pink light will forever be associated with sex. By the way, ever wondered why those walkup rooms are always lit by pink light? For the romantic aura? It's because under pink light you can't see the stain on the bed sheet and pillows!
Doing it with a prostitute is not as simple as you may think. When you open the door afterward, you will see a crowd of guy waiting outside. The look of their faces will stay with you forever. Losing your virginity to a prostitute will forever deprive you of the chance of talking about how you lost your virginity with your future wife. Try and do it with someone who is as inexperienced as you are. Fool around with her. Make a mess. That's how you should do it.

Be careful, many working girls will try to cheat you especially if you don't speak their language and never hit a HOME RUN. Most of all try not to be shy if you planning to visit a working girl. Remember You are paying money.

I heard a girl suppose to give a red envelope if you are virgin is customary in Chine society. If anyone knows for sure please reply.  

5 years on the forum already and no action yet and first post.

Last, most important of ALL, get medical shots updated for HPV, Hepatitis ABC and anything else.

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I also do not think you should spend your virginity on a WG. As cheesy as it is, losing your virginity will be a lasting and impactful memory. It is probably one of the only positive memories I have with my ex. This hobby will change the way you experience and perceive sex, which may have last implications.

It will happen when it happens, and it will be awkward and maybe even kind of bad, but still more fun than with some WG that sees multiple men a day. In addition, you probably don't want to put yourself in a position where you are at the mercy of a WG, it is likely they will try to bully you in some form or fashion considering your inexperience with sex and mongering in general.

i suggest you go to SPA or massage saloon to have a good HJ or BJ.
Slowly up your experience.