Hey guys, I'm a man of average height, or probably slightly below average. I have a little bit of self-esteem issues due to height, that I can only feel fully dominant and comfortable when I'm hanging around with or fucking a woman that's much shorter than me. It is for this reason that I feel awkward to fuck a woman (WG or non-WG) that is of the same height or taller than me, with a mindset that I'll not be able to 'handle' them properly (despite that my sexual ability is perfectly normal as proven by previous experience).

But I notice there are many guys who are short or of average height, but they can be quite dominant with tall women, both socially and sexually. For example I just found an amateur video, I notice how that guy of average height and build, is owning the pussy of a girl who is almost the same height as him: https://www.xvideos.com/video43287491/my_gorgeous_british_girlfriend_gets_fucked_by_my_brother

The question is, as a guy of average or below average height, how to be dominant with women who are of same height or taller without feeling awkward?

[ Last edited by  hcnova at 4-1-2019 23:44 ]

You lack self esteem and should seek help if this bothers you

Better then having length issues....   

Obe

Lol at least length isn't a problem for me. But with the height issue, I lose some of my confidence even before I take off my pants.
How do you guys feel comfortable to fuck a girl that's taller than you? I always feel like I'll not be big enough to 'handle' her properly, or maybe something like it's against the 'natural order' to fuck something bigger than you, like how tall women don't date short men. Just saying...

[ Last edited by  hcnova at 5-1-2019 22:05 ]

  just by saying that, you probably have this problem … You need to cut off 3 to 4 inches just like I had to do

Sounds like you need to grow up...

You must be young …
Normally young people have this mental problem

When you get to middle age ~ like bro Obe, nothing matters, any hole would do as long as it can be gotten

When you're mature you'd be wanting to be seen with tall girls, many of them … shows your status and virility

You've avoided telling us your height ~ ?

… I hope you're old enough to be on this forum

It is totally ok to prefer petite girls, or girls with any particular body type. In a way, if you like to date petite girls, hong kong is probably the best place.
I have a friend who is quite short, bald and nearly 60 years old. His girlfriends are all dazzlingly beautiful, and tall, all exceeding 180 cm. He is not a billionaire, but he is confident, intelligent, cultural, generous and incredibly funny. I think these are the qualities women like. Not body height or penis size. If a girl told you she is dumping you because you are too short or your penis is too small, she is dumping you for other reasons that she doesn't want to tell you. Please trust me on this one, as I am an old man and world expert in being dumped.
I grew up with a strictly stoic upbringing that told me to care only about things I can change. Don't let your body height (or your perceived body image) bother you. If you can't get aroused by tall women, let it be. There are many petite girls in the world waiting for your charm.
Just my 10 cents.

show her your power
confidence is not only about appearance
just be dominant,
u are the man, man,
be gentle, but strong,

i love girls taller than me,
i feel like defeating a mountain

Good point, I agree being dominant is not just about height. I think it's kind of like a lion-tamer. The lion-tamer is obviously much physically weaker than a lion, but the lion-tamer can train the lion, and the most important thing is that the lion-tamer must display dominance towards the lion, then the lion will magically obey. So it's about overcoming the insecurities and forgetting about the appearance.

To each their own. Nothing wrong with preferences. With WGs, don't worry about a height difference. They're in it for the money. Civvies... Tall girls... Short girls... They're still just people. Treat them like you would anyone else. If they fall for you, don't worry about the height difference... Bigger ego boost that they want you no?

~UD

do you weight train at all? perhaps putting on some bulk can help with your thoughts about height and dominance.
i've dated shorter and taller women and while some women care about height, many more care about your confidence and how you carry yourself regardless of how tall you are.
like another bro said, you're the same height when lying down!
good luck man. self body image is tough, i have the same problem with weight. It's taken a long time to learn to just live with things but once you get past it, worries go away and the confidence will come though.

Did some weight training, I was never too serious about it. I'm still on the skinny side and now I'm trying to get rid of my skinny fat belly and get abs, because I realise getting abs is better than getting big in terms of fucking. Losing that stubborn belly fat isn't easy though!

Just accept yourself... know that you're more than your height... we as humans are so much deeper than that.

Don't compare yourself to others....... we each come with our individual strong points.

I'm on the short side (height) as well, but carry myself like I'm some sort of royalty (all in my mind), act so, and do well with women.

Sure, there are some that want men taller than them when they're in heels, but why torture yourself... just like we may not want a woman because she's blonde, brunette, black, asian, has no ass, small tits, or whatever one of our cutoffs may be....