I've read a few times about how guys have arranged to meet WGs outside of their usual place of employment. Sometimes it sounds fun but I can't help but feel it's a bit of a hard work too. There's got to be a line drawn somewhere, especially if she thinks that she might become your mistress or even your next missus. Is it worth all the hassle? (asking because I've gotten the feeling I coudl develop these relationships if i wanted but not sure I want to open Pandora's box)

you need to draw the line. she will go full throtle to get into your life.
business means business.
It;s all about fun and more relaxing encounter, more GFE and do some crazy fcuk with no time constraint. End of day, go home!!

That's a tough call, there are so many scenarios and it's really up to you, as a mature adult male, to weigh up the situation and do what you want. I've done this twice and am happy with the experience, it is very thrilling, but I am a risk taking personality. In hindsight it was something I would do again (and am right now for the last 15 months), although IMO the girl should be really special. Anyway, what's wrong with having a "Mistress", every man should have at least one at some point in their lives.  

I can imagine things could get ugly but you should be able to take precautions, keep key parts of your life confidential, segregate activities you do with her and your normal routine, and have some form of exit strategy in case your gut starts telling you to bail. If you think this is too hard then don't do it.

I've done that ever since I started mongering ...
I usually look for longer term relationships if I like the girl and if there's chemistry ...
whether visiting a WG at her place of work numerous times
or start being friends with them outside their working enviroment.

When you do this, the girls, up to some point in time, will give you everything
they've got and sometimes a bit more !

One needs to be very strong mentally to do this and not cross the different lines each girl have ...
but for me, its a lot more fun then just bonking some girl one time for instant gratification !

I would have to say this is a big, "NOT" for a married man living in Hong Kong.  I would love to do some personal time and I have even seen some WG I have been with on the Street before.  Thank God, even though they did recognize me, if I was with my significant other, they only gave me a smile.  When I am alone, a couple of times, they will come running up to me, want a hug, kiss, grab the crotch, whisper in the ear, want to go for coffee or drinks.  I always say, no, sorry, really busy.  Hong Kong is just too small of a place.  Now, abroad, that is another story.  

We need to learn from you. I am not that strong!!!

  We're all strong ... but in different places ... your's is further south !    

Thanks for your replys guys. I think what I'd ideally want (maybe a bit unrealistic and selfish) is to be able to dip into their life when I want but not for them to be able to do vice versa . What's triggered my question is that when I'm talking to some of these girls I sometimes think I see them imagining a future together and then I think that it might get a bit too messy to get involved.

Do you guys actively weed out the needy girls and work on the ones that seem more independant? Although I guess truly independant WGs wouldn't need/want to get involved outside normal business practice.

Hmmm, lucky your "significant other" wasn't distracted by a shop window so you appeared to be alone and a WG came up and did the "kiss, grab the crotch". Imagine her reaction looking back and seeing some crazy WG attacking her husband.

Abroad can also be small like HK, I think it's highly likely my wife and mistress have crossed paths once or twice and I do have to be very careful where I go to dinner, etc. "Mistress" to me is like the French style, she accepts she is the Mistress and is on the side relative to the wife. She shouldn't do anything to embarrass you, but there will always be some element of risk, so choose carefully if you do.

I like how the French can be so open about this. They know all their Presidents have Mistresses and don't care. One was outed pre election and poll's showed his popularity increased, also amongst the female voters ... one was quoted; "if he didn't have a Mistress he wouldn't be French".

French woman discussing her husband's Mistress ......... "at least he doesn't bother me in the bedroom so much."  Ouch! Bruised ego.

I think it might be easier without the additional stress of WHEN you will get caught. Better to avoid it.

Just wondering if anyone here would actually be able to see themselves with a girl who once or is a WG for the rest of their lives? like twiceAweek said, might take a strong mind to handle the past (i sure wouldn't be able to)

My advice is if you want a relationship beyond just the sex – get a girlfriend