Have a almost similar experience with a message parlour girl chating 4 years now. Only get to go to bed with her last year (October). She decided to leave ShenZhen for another job some Northern city and requested we should spend some "Honey Moon" time before that. Heading there in a 10 days to spend 6 days with her. Best part is, o have never spent a dime on her.......only food and condoms
. Have to hunt for another "partner" in that part of town.