Racially charged words will get you in a pile of, um, kaka, here as well.
http://forum.sex141.com/eforum/viewthread.php?tid=54986

SEAJ basically committed suicide one day.  It was death by cop.

Back to OP's point..kinda ...one of the reasons I switched...(lol...again..kinda) from exclusively punting to going out of my way to find like minded fuck buddies was the GFE experience vs just fucking.  I've always enjoyed some interaction with the WG ladies that I'm about to bed and found that even a little bit of chatting and smiling usually delivers a satisfying result...I was never satisfied with the few WG who just wanted me to fuck ASAP and get the hell out.

After more than a year of almost no punting WG's and several fuck buddies later, I've found that the GFE experience can have a downside as well when SHE starts to feel more than I ever will.  

Case in point, one fuck buddy who I told from the start that we shouldn't have feelings for each other...it was only about the sex (and she agreed!)...and yet after first time we fucked told me she "loved" me. And soon after also told me it was OK for me to fuck other women as I have my "needs"... lol, and she understands and all is OK .  This was the first time this happened to me and I just couldn't deal with it....having someone "love" me while I feel nothing but respectful sexual attraction for her in return...needless to say I tried my best to let her down gently...still working that one out. lol

On the topic of the "rapey" thing mentioned.  I actually had a fuck buddy whose fantasy was exactly that...to feel forced and to have that "rapey" feel...the harder the fuck the better.  There was no "passion" with her...just hard fucking.  She did an amazing BBBJ and loved to fuck but the whole needing to be "dominated" got old for me very quickly.  Guess I'm just a "lover"...not a "fucker"    But I didn't drop her until I painted a huge load on her face at her request     Funny thing is we're still friends and chat almost everyday...and share fuck reports with each other...lol...even have cyber sex with her where I turn her on enough that she fingered herself and came...and she told me she "hated" me for it.  LOL  

The best sex partner is one who offers to pay for lunch (after we've fucked lol), doesn't leech, has no interest in my personal life, happy to meet when it works safely for both of us, doesn't need to be texted everyday and made to feel like a princess, is slim and sexy, is a nympho in bed, and loves to snuggle for a while before doing it all over again.  Is she an 18 yr old 10 out of 10, of course not...but for my time and effort I hope this one last for several months.

"No means yes! Yes means anal!"

This was a chant that landed a bunch of frat brothers into hot water, i think a year ago. While i think that they were just being obnoxious kids, i do think iit's telling of the generation. I think it has to do with accessibility to porn and the limited actual experience guys have with women at a young age.
Testosterone driven, sex for young men often isn't about quality, but more about quantity. And by being able to brag to their friends about how they plundered and pilllaged, they feel more manly about it. As such, brash bragging begets bad behaviour begets more brash boasting.

Additionally, people punt for different reasons. Some do it out of curiosity. Others just want sex. And still others are looking for deeper connections in order to satiate a need. And as we enter differentphases in our lives, our needs change.

Just my 2 cents

~UD

I am new to "punting," mongering as it seems to be called and have only had five experiences so far. One charged me 400 for full service, she was older and actually it was pretty good.  The other lady I have seen four times. she is around 28 and pretty face and great body (to me). But, speaking about GFE's I guess she took a liking to me, a Gweilo and I am a gentlemen, but I am also not rich, and after our third encounter she wanted me to take her shopping for a gold ring. It was supposed to be her birthday that day. Still after paying 600 for a massage and full service (she's not that great at massage) I just don't have the money to buy her a ring too. I did give her a nice gold with emerald bracelet I just had from an earlier relationship, but she still wanted the ring.  She did only charge four hundred for full service the day I gave her the bracelet (no massage). I just want to know what she expects. Perhaps she wants to show off to her friends she has a qweilo man, but again I am not rich at all. Not working right now, matter of fact.  Bottom line, I don't think this is a great situation and if I'm going to pay anyway, I would prefer variety, not another so called girlfriend. GFE may not be for me..