seeking guidance from the brothers here. The yesterday I had time after an early finish at work and set up an appointment time for 5:30pm at a regular spa I frequent. I'll delete the names Of people and establishments to be fair to them.

So I called in advance and told them 5:30pm. Now to set the scene, about two years ago, I was a regular who would go up maybe 2/3 times a week. I was very much fond of one masseuse there called "Miss A" who gave a great body massage. I then also came across another called Miss H who aside from a BM, ended also providing a bbbj and eventually FS with cover of course. This became a regular pattern of alternating between the two. Now Miss A quit the scene and Miss H was often absent from work. As a result I got to know the two mamasans well, Mama C and Mama W.

As time progressed, Mama C's recommendations would be poor and I'd always look for Mama W who knew my tastes. She referred me to another masseuse Miss G, who became a regular for me. Initially on a weekly basis and lately maybe twice a month. Needless to say, I ended up getting the same benefits with her as I did with the previous girls, a wicked body massage and a bbbj and also covered FS. When Miss G was not there, I'd try other girls introduced by mama w, although I wouldn't get the extras, the girls would always treat me well, knowing I'm a regular who tips well.

Fast forward to yesterday. I'd called in advance to mama w that I'd be there between 5pm and 5:30pm. I showed up at 5:15pm just as mama w was finishing work. I was greeted by mama c who told me "you're early! The room will be ready real soon just wait a little". I'm a little peeved but yes I was early. So I waited in the living room next to another punter. We both looked at each other rather embarrassingly as you never really wanted to be sighted.

Time passed and around 5:25pm a room opened and mama c brought the other punter in. She didn't know his name and he seemed like a walk in. Ok I thought....he did come up first. Then I waited and waited, till mama c finally said, another few more minutes. By now it felt really peeved. This parlour has a glass door that is only partially shielded. Any body walking on that floor could bend down and look into the place and see me sitting on the sofa. Punters who finished or were waiting could obviously see you too. I ended up throwing a. Fit and told mama c to fuck off as I'm sick and tired of waiting. I told her obviously my business is not valued and walked out.

Mama w called me from the street and immediately apologised to say a room is ready now (literally a minute or so after I left) but I yelled at her too saying I'm sick and tired but mama c as she kept me waiting like a dog (yes I did say that) and that obviously my business is not valued as all she ever introduces me is cows and pigs. Mama w tried to make it up by saying she'd arranged a young girl just like miss G who really services well. She'd call her to make sure I'm looked after blah blah blah.... My patience was thin and I told her to forget it as I'm not going back.

In short, did I over react? A friendly punter who knows me well and also frequents this place apparently heard from a girl that mama c ripped into her allowing her punter to take too long in the room that they had reserved for me. This pissed me off a bit as it wasn't the girls fault but the mama C for not planning the rooms. Bear in mind I told her between 5-5;30 and when I left it was close to 6pm.

it would be safe to suggest that all punters of this hobby values anonymity
not everyone wants to be recognised and exercises discretion whenever possible

a suggestion for next time (if there is a next time) to advise the operators that:
1. you would like to be in privacy as soon as you arrive.
2. if not yet ready, please be advised and perhaps take a walk around the block, browse the local 7/11 circle K etc to kill time and return in 20mins?

end of the day, no matter how well be plan ahead, shit happens from time to time, nobodies perfect...
being human, we can only do the best we can

cheer up bro, better luck next time

That sounds like no way to treat a regular on their part. They probably prepared for you to arrive at 5:30 and assumed you wouldn't be punctual (I have heard that a lot of punters are habitually late and then go into a huff if they aren't accommodated anyway). Totally agree you have a right to be pissed off and take off.

With that said, I'm of the opinion you can just vote with your wallet, and no need to make it too personal / confrontational. Some poor girl is going to get hell from C, as they'll just pass on the responsibility. Don't think it's necessary to yell and make a scene, it doesn't do anyone any good, and I don't think they singled you out, shit happens sometimes and a little understanding probably goes further than yelling. Maybe they would've apologized and given you a discount/freebie, who knows?

You shouldn't really feel bad because you get what you pay for. You're a regular, and you booked in advance.. if it was 10-15 minutes late, fair enough but half an hour? That's abit too much considering how much you've been paying.

Cookiemonsta agree. I had offered to have them call me back when ready and mama C refused to let me leave and sat me down. Another why I keep feeling she always gives me shit that bitxh!