Just do it.

I just asked a new Thai masseuse out.  It was the second time I've gone to her.  Damn beautiful.  

I chatted to her the whole 2nd session and playfully teased and flirted.  Learned she's single, doesnt know LA that well, etc.  I asked her out for a lunch on the beach.  

Got a "yes".  YAY!  Meeting her tmrw.

The point being -- if she had said "no" I would have shrugged and already forgotten all about it.  Next.

Can't score if you don't shoot.

The neurochemical of oxytocin released during sex can sometimes lead to infatuation.

Taken from wikipedia and youramazingbrain.org

"Oxytocin is a powerful hormone released by men and women during orgasm.It probably deepens the feelings of attachment and makes couples feel much closer to one another after they have had sex."

The other relevant chemical in this situation is vassopresin:

" Studies have shown that when the flow of vasopressin is blocked, male voles did not bond to females with whom they were sexually active. However, when the brain is flooded with vasopressin, as is supposed to happen in mating, the male vole shows increased attention and attachment to the young"

Maybe your diet is causing neurochemical changes in your brain. Those chemicals are powerful stuff. Allow for time for them to wear off before you do something you will regret in the long term when these neurochemicals seize being as active.

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The real point of all this is.....

Just ask her out.

There are no secrets - except having the balls to do so.  

All those silly tutorials about "picking up women" all amount to the same thing:  be a man, have some balls, be fearless, tell her what you want.

It works. You'll be surprised how sooooo many gals say yes. ((((because so few guys actually ask!!!!)))).

... happen to make huge amounts of money for the guys who write them!!!  

not so silly really