I suppose it just goes to show that it is difficult to put nuance into a forum posting. For my lack of success in conveying a genuine intention to gently guide toward search, I apologize.
I have not tried
Hong Kong Tantric, but
the reviews indicate it would also meet the OP's needs if a short-term hotel room could be arranged in the OP's locale (which is likely -- they mention it on their service page, and say they can offer suggestions).
In Kowloon, I remember searching for reports on places that met my criteria, which were similar to the OP's. The one I tried was
Daily Spa HK, which I enjoyed a lot, and posted a review for. I also tried FS and nuru there, but neither is a requirement. The MS there is very nice, and I suspect you could arrange a session there that avoided FS but focused more on the other aspects. We aren't talking about CMT-quality massage there though. But it meets all the OP's other requirements.
I was in a different locale than the OP last week, Macau to be specific. Through this forum, I found
Viva Tantra Massage, which looked just right for me (and, other than locale, is probably just right for him). I tried it, loved it, and reviewed it on this site to pay back the favor to other hobbyists.
Hopefully this post makes up for any unintended transgression on my part.
Gherkin
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