Subject: First Experience with WG
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First Experience with WG

Recently I had my first experience with WG. But was kind of disappointed as the sex did not turn out to be as expected. It took much longer than usual for me to cum. This annoyed the WG as well. Also, I did not enjoy the penetration as much. I read some articles on internet after my experience and realized that maybe some of the reasons for this can be:

Condom as wearing it desensitize the feeling of arousal.
Almost no foreplay
Nervousness or First time hesitance
Pressure to perform

There maybe more reasons to it. For me till now the whole experience is a bit surreal and dreamlike. I am not sure if everyone goes through the same feelings. But will like to know what other Bros have to say about this.

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devilgodspeed   19-10-2012 09:02  Acceptance  +1   Try and try again, it's usually hiit or miss.
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Reply #1 hardickk's post

Dont over-think it.  Just go try again...  if you find it is ALWAYS like this for you than it might be time to think about changing hobbies.  By this was one event.  Relax and go try it again.

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QUOTE:
Originally posted by hardickk at 19-10-2012 04:43
For me till now the whole experience is a bit surreal and dreamlike.  ...

FWIW my own first experience was good - she was patient, lots of foreplay, she enjoyed it, and made me feel welcome

and my second experience was a complete contrast - she was fake, rushing, smelled of fags, and went back to her computer the moment we finished

... if my second experience had been my first one, I would never have had a second experience let alone contributed any of what I've written about here ... first impressions matter a lot

So don't worry, get out there and do it again.  It's perfectly OK to walk away from a girl who doesn't make you feel welcome: I find it very effective to hesitate at the door just before walking in - you instantly get a reading on their level of arrogance / desire to control you / level of empathy and concern / etc
You need to get better at reading the nonverbal signals in her db photos and when you first see her, and you need some more miles under your wheels.  You can have GREAT experiences with a WG, but they are not at all the rule.  When you have one, you know you did something right

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Reply #1 hardickk's post

Regatding "pressure to perform"... Don't think you need to perform, bro! Usually there's no need whatsoever to impress the gal. That should take a lot of pressure off...

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Reply #2 wander's post

Yea, maybe I need to try more and for sure with someone who is well rated rather than going for random ones.

But, what do you mean by changing hobbies?

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wander   20-10-2012 15:58  Acceptance  +1   We call punting the "hobby". If you dont get your rocks off, change hobbies
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Reply #3 DArtagnan's post

I agree, I am not very good at reading non verbal signs, especially of WGs. I might improve as I try more.

In my case, she seemed to be more concerned about her tip which kinda pissed me off. I did not see that coming in the beginning else would have dumped her and picked up someone else.
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the punting hobby is not for everybody, yes I am saying this on this site, i hope i dontget chastized. but anyways i would suggest you find a WG that is really your type one that you see and your jaw drops. Though the service with very attractive one's maybesuspect you can not beat the image of seeing a beautiful women treating you like a popsicle, psychologically it works so well for many of us.
then after few punts you will be less nervous and will realize what works for you, looks, service, or what you are willing to saacrfice for the other etc.

stay safe.
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Reply #1 hardickk's post

What do you mean on 'longer than usual?' 3 minutes? 2 hours ?
I don't like those girls who get annoyed on this, you tell her if she does not want to be fucked change her job.  I am pretty sure that if the girl is good there should not be a problem like this. And if she gets annoyed about anything that will just worsen the situation.
Find a better/nicer/more patient girl!
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hardickk

"ressure to perform"

Common dude, why the pressure and the nervous energy. Chill, you dont need to impress anyone if anyone needs to make an impression in that room is the WG so that she can get a good TIP. Try again and I am sure you'll have a good time
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i agree with arjun.....if fact most WG's want the shortest performance possible.  for every extra minute you last or ever extra mm you are bigger or longer, that's just more wear and tear on her LS.

my philosophy is to think about how you go into a movie theatre.   "suspension of disbelief"  you  allow yourself to be fooled into thinking one man can fight 20 or the car flipped over 5 times and no one was hurt.  use the same approach and you will 'get' better results.

happy punting

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ha, i remember my first time. was prob worse than yours. was piss drunk, had a complete case of whiskey dick. girl was very nice, but was older and below avg looking. didn't even blow my load, but she was nice enough to give me a pretty good massage.

my advice is dont think too much about it, and go out try again. maybe this time find someone you actually have chemistry with. with good chemistry, you wont have "pressure" to perform, and most likely she wont mind, and might even enjoy u taking your sweet time. also, remember this is a highly personal service, sure we dont need to impressed the WG's, but been friendly and respectful will go a long way to help you get the best out of them.
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QUOTE:
Originally posted by hardickk at 20-10-2012 02:00
she seemed to be more concerned about her tip which kinda pissed me off ...

sounds like you got a bad one there ... let it go ... find another girl

BTW no amount of intuition or sharp observation will save you from the tip monster - it happens a lot.  The only solution is to carry exact change in your pocket - including the tip you are willing to leave if she does a good job.  
If you ask her to give change from your $500 (or $1000) all hell breaks out in most cases

Instead, carry $100s, and maybe a $50 or some $20s

... and having steeled yourself for a fight, you will still find some girls who rush to get you $20 change from the $400 you gave her ... if you were that stingy in the first place




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