Good luck with whatever decision you make.  I hope it works out for you both.

Best of luck with decisions and understood why you posted ... Sometimes you just need to put thing down (talk out) but don't know where to do it.

Im sure things will work out maybe slowly ... But they something will come right.

Bro, as far as I see it, the sufferings you are going through is kinda expected coming from a woman who (I think) really loved (and I think still loves) you. The more she love you, the more she would make you suffer as she felt betrayed. No doubt some women may react in different ways, but unfortunately some women reacts just how your SO did.

My SO gave me hell (I have been there and back, not once, trust me...) but at least she still loved me enough to give me yet another chance and I am lucky that she reacted this way. Even though I fucked around, in the end my SO is the one that I really love and wanted to grow old with. The last time she caught me was an ex-gf of mine and that just made it the worst you can think of. But luckily, she relented and gave me one last shot at being the husband she expected me to be (all women expected a husband would be).

The anger she felt comes from the betrayal that she think you did to her. And I would say almost all women can't stand the thought of being betrayed and cheated upon. It's worse that killing them.

You probably have to evaluate deeper into the matter and decide whether she is in fact the one for you because if you think she is (like I do with my SO), then you can go through this hell. Otherwise, you may just regret trying to wade through this after a few month...if not years.

So good luck Bro, may you come out of this with all ending well.

Sounds like you have it figured out, or are at least starting to.  Been there myself and am now living much more happily single.  She stuck around planning to make my life hell, which sounds like what yours is doing.  Move on and be done with it.

Thank God that you don't say sorry "one more time" and turn it all around, you don't really want to go back to that, do you?  You're out of it now, stay out of it.  Do what you have to do to protect yourself and your assets and move on.  She is probably thankful that it's over to, she just wants to make you feel all responsibility for it.  I say be fair about the break up, give her what she's entitled to, but I definitely wouldn't just hand her my wallet.

Best of luck bro simpleneeds

Sounds like she is out to just hurt you, you really need to put up your guard alittle.

You are absolutely right about they hurting you constantly, it's not that they are hurting you, it's that they can't help it, cuz they do love you.  Usually if the wife asks for a divorce, it's probably a good reason to get out of the marriage, if the lady truly loves you, trust you me she'll stay with you and give you hell for the life of your marriage, LOL