Subject: Newbie - Ring etiquette
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Post at 1-6-2012 09:22  Profile P.M. 
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Originally posted by sirtiger at 1-6-2012 02:00
curious why that is? ...

I believe it's probably them assuming that "all the smart good-looking and romantic men are either taken or gay" and since they already know I'm not gay I must - by a process of elimination - be taken  





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Reply #21 DArtagnan's post

The ring is indeed a chick magnet and Dart, you summed it up too well to add on more to it.

I did ask a few of my female friends whom I know plays around on why "female players" prefers married men? And the answer I got was:

Married men are sexually experienced - almost for sure, unless something is wrong with the guy.
Probably frustrated sexually at home - so most of them will go all out to get as much satisfaction as possible.
Usually married men knows how to treat women better...

Not sure how much of that applies to all the bros out there....but true to a large extend!




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Post at 1-6-2012 21:27  Profile P.M. 
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It reminds me of what someone fwd to my email once

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Men are like parking spaces; The good ones are taken and the only ones left are handicapped.

Don't forget some women like a challenge & the ones that are attached are a comfort zone for them
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Reply #2 Caligynephiliac's post

i concur, they wouldnt care the world over. so long as you pay them.
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Reply #24 camstuckey's post

i personally think the real professional ones don't care.  They can be robotic &  its just routine.  For those who cherish GFE, this question may arise more common.  Again its just my take from my experience
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Post at 2-6-2012 12:03  Profile P.M. 
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there is some validity to all this discussion about rings being a chick magnet.

Some of it though is a bit of confusion, at least on my part, to the roles of cause-and-effect.

Sure, I get more attention from girls now with the wedding ring then when I didn't . however, and I have been married 16 years, I am a different person now, more confident, more forthright, more assertive, and yes, much more experienced with women both sexually and emotionally (both civvie and P4P)  . So yes, the girls are attracted to you because you have the wedding ring but is it not possible they are also attracted to you because of the other attributes you may have gained since you have been married.

I have met countless civvie birds in the course of business and daily interactions who have expressed interest in me and I know it would be relatively easy to "pull them" or at least for me to try to, and this was simply because I have the experience of being married and dealing with women, not simply because I am wearing a ring. If I was dealing with the same birds and was not married, I think they would pick up on the fact that I didn't have the confidence and sophistication, and then would have no chance of getting them and they would further or not so willingly indicate their interest or receptiveness to an approach. this is essentially how I lived through my 20s until I got married

it's like when I look at my job now and think I should've had the same job 10 years ago rather than going through all the hell I had to go to to find an appropriate place for my foil, but had I not gone through the 10 years of hell I would've never had the experience and qualifications and maturity to do the job today. it's exactly the same thing with the civvie
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Reply #26 gwailoplayer's post

I don't really know the attitudes of the Asian WGs on this issue.  But I had a number of close WG friends in the US.  They much preferred married men as customers over single guys.  Many of the single guys were tempted to fall in love and would incorrectly interpret a GFE session as something more than just paid sex.  By contrast, the married guys were "safe."  The WGs could have great sex with a married man and not really worry about the guy falling in love and wanting to "save" them....  

In terms of civvies, I think married men, on average have more experience and confidence.  A civvie can also be a little freer returning the gentle "interest" of a married man, because she may feel more confident that it's just idle flirting (just conjecture on my part here)...

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Post at 3-6-2012 16:59  Profile P.M. 
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Like to follow the idea some bros mentioned here, that a ring is a chick magnet.

A rings means for the WG:
a probably trouble-free session,
usually sexually experienced,
just looking for fun,
no boyfriend – girlfriend shit
knows how to treat women better.

Think that then, applies in return also for her,
sexually experienced, looking for fun, ..........


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Wearing vs not wearing a ring has nothing to do with the WG.  It's more to do with your own mind.  Wearing the ring is like banging a chick with a picture of the wife staring at you.  For some, it makes them freak.  For freaks like me it's kinkier sex!  The only thing the WG will be thinking when she sees your ring is where she can go sell it if you decide to leave it there.
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Originally posted by Caligynephiliac at 2-6-2012 03:08 AM
By contrast, the married guys were "safe."  The WGs could have great sex with a married man and not really worry about the guy falling in love and wanting to "save" them....  

I'll add to this concept.  married man generally have limited time....one of the biggest issue of married life, the calendar is jammed full....hence P2P is so much easier.  So available time spent with the opposite is a limited time frame.  They just want more!  perhaps its a mental aspect of want more but can't have it.
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Post at 6-6-2012 03:32  Profile P.M. 
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leave the ring on,


show them what they are missing LOL
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Post at 6-6-2012 11:48  Profile P.M. 
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I wear it. Doesnt change anything but sometimes does change the way people look atyou. Let me explain, if I have it on and Im fooling around with a wg is a half civvie / half wg environment, the civvies may judge you. Even though I dont give a shit, I dont like the way some people may look t me when I do that. Guys are jealous that you doit openly so they will judge rather than appreciate. I only take it off when I want to remember what it was like being single but in that case I leave it in a specific place in my luggage (never do it when I am in my hometown, whatever the reason).

As some said, its more a mindset than anything. Some people will freak out because the ring "sees it all"...
Damn lotr freaks!

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Post at 6-6-2012 21:03  Profile P.M. 
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Similar to HKpooner I'd imagine that it is more to do with your own mindset rather than the reactions of the girls(depending on the kind of girls you're seeing).

Some guys are horrified at the thought of wearing it as it is a symbol of fidelity and love and all that jazz whereas others see it as mere jewelry. If it is going to improve your day, take it off (just don't forget where you put it!). If it makes no difference to you emotionally, leave it on. No one other than you can make those decisions.

On the subject of rings, I once had a friend who wore a ring simply, as others have said, because he claimed it made him more attractive to women looking for a ONS.

Like many things, it depends on what the other person wants.
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