Ugh...

I freaking did it again.  I'm soooo stupid.

Basically the same scenario as last year when I wrote this original thread.  Wanchai + Indo girl (different one) + Drunk off my ass = BBFS mistake

Wanted to post my experience again.

In my drunken stupor, I was still able to remember how stressful it was last time I screwed up (almost a year ago).  However, with my beer muscles going, I thought to myself that the last time I went through that anxiety was silly, and plowed ahead.  Soooo stupid.

Next day, I was completely stressed.  Even though I had already gone through this once, it was basically just as bad the second time.  So... lesson learned... even if you've screwed up and wound up tested clean in the past, if you screw up again, there's a high likelyhood that you will be JUST as stressed out the second time around.  This is, of course, assuming you stress out about this kind of thing, which, based on earlier comments on this thread, is a fairly common phenomenon.

Anyways, this time around, I tried to see if I could just deal with the anxiety without testing early.  Last time, I tested after three days.  This time, I wanted to wait until 6 weeks and then get tested.  I lasted 2 weeks.  What wound up happening was that, rather then lessening, the time that passed actually made it worse.  So... assuming I'm a dumbass again and screw up again, I'm definitely not gonna try to work through my anxiety, and just get tested ASAP.  So not worth it.

I wound up doing the Neo Health thing and got negative results 14 days after exposure.  I still need to test again at 3 months but the HIV RNA PCR test after 14 days is well over 95% reliable after 14 days so I'm no longer stressing.

Currently in a similar situation waiting for Tuesday to get my results back though I did get one where it was one month in so I shouldn't be worrying too much but still hope everything is alright

The next time you decide to get drunk and knowing that you will suffer blackout, wear a Condom first before you start drinking.
Hope that the gal get the message when they undress you.

I know people who suffer blackout after drinking. They dont look drunk, but they just forget what the did the nite before when they wake up the next morning.

BBFS, no one can help you if you dont have self control.

Good luck.

I think maybe one of those full body condoms would be better.  Would just need someone to bend down and slip me beers from the bottom.

Anyways, I tested negative already so I'm not sweating it at all.  The only reason I posted was to relay that the second mistake was just as anxiety filled as the first.  Some people may be under the impression that it's something that you can get used to.  For example, not that I've ever done this, but apparently the first time you bungee jump, it's really fricken scary, but after you do it a few times, it's not really that bad.  This is NOT the case with BBFS.

Haha I agree, the stress doesnt decrease when you do the first or the second testing. Can i suggest an idea? Have a Tattoo that says "do not ride without a raincoat" around your LB.

Afor bungee jumping, I hope they use more rubber than you do, otherwise you'll end up as flat as a pizza...

Am I the only one thinking that this isn't a Bare Back problem, so much as a Drinking problem?

Mate.......put one on before going out or before you lose any sense........

Hell, just put one on every morning when you wake up!

Ah, well, I feel your pain brother.  Booze is a major inhibition inhibitor , combine that with a sexy girl and big titties and it's no wonder the Clinics have so much business!

Best of luck to you.

Or you could write "I have the clap, use a condom on me" right over your cock with a black marker before you go out. You may forget, but the girl will be sure to suit you up...